No matter how painful you are, there are some things you still have to face. You can't let the two of you remain in a stalemate just because you avoid it.
No one will keep giving and waiting forever. People will get tired. Not everyone can keep chasing someone for so many years.
And when the other party rejects everything, you should reject it thoroughly and tell them whether you like it or not. It is not necessary to say "I like you, but I can't be with you". This gives you a feeling of retreating to advance.
"Uncle, you know, I just came back and don't know what happened to you in the past two years, but based on what I knew before, I think you are actually a bit of a scumbag.
You said that you liked her back then, but you felt that you couldn't make her happy, so you wanted to leave her.
But your reason is not a rejection, you know? It's like I give you a carrot and hang it here for you. You can see it but you can't touch it or eat it.
She wants to give up, but I think you like her. She is unwilling to give up, but you keep backing down.
Not giving her a positive answer, but slowly moving away from her. I think this is a very irresponsible behavior. If you really don't like her, then you should tell her directly and not keep her hanging like this.
If you like her, then you should also make it clear how the two of you can be together.
No matter what you think, you should tell her clearly what is going on, whether you want to be with her, whether you like her, and what problems you will encounter in the process.
If you think you can't be together for sure, then don't you think it will be tiring if one person takes the initiative for a long time?
She watches over you and guards you like this every day, do you think she is happy?"
It’s not that my uncle really has a problem with his character, it’s just that he may not quite understand the things going on. What Rodan wants to do is to lay everything out and explain it to him clearly. If he still can’t explain it clearly to Hanyue, then that’s my uncle’s problem.
"I understand what you said, and I really want to explain it to her, but even I don't know what I want to do.
I am a very selfish person. I want to be with her, but I feel that I am not worthy of her.
How could I possibly dislike her? I like her so much that I can't wait to see her. She is like a ray of light that illuminates my world.
At that time, everyone told me that it didn’t matter, that it didn’t matter even if I couldn’t stand up, because I was still a hero. The sympathy in their eyes was like knives stabbing my heart.
It was as if I was someone abandoned by this world. They comforted me out of sympathy, but I didn't really need sympathy.
Only Hanyue stood by my side and accompanied me. She never said any words of comfort, but just stayed by my side and helped me feel the world.
It makes me feel that I am not a useless person, I am still a normal person, and I can still live a normal life.
My liking for Hanyue started from little things. I felt that I actually had no advantages, but he liked me even though I was a little inferior.
I am so much older than her and I don’t have any skills, so I can’t give her a good life.
I don't think Hanyue will be happy with me, and I can't make her happy either, so I might as well just give up."
After hearing this, Rodin sighed and felt helpless.
"Uncle, what does a happy life mean to you? You haven't even asked Hanyue, so how do you know what kind of life Hanyue wants?
You haven't worked hard for your future, so how can you say you are not worthy of her?
That year in the hospital, when you told her that you loved her, she felt extremely happy and had the courage to live. She never gave up and followed in your footsteps over the years just to be with you.
But what did you do? You kept pushing her away, but you didn't explain what was going on.
Not trying, not wanting to try, and trying but not being able to be together are two different things.
The happiness that Hanyue wants may not be the same as what you call happiness.
I don't really know what you mean by happiness, but I can tell you what kind of happiness I want. I think the happiness that boys and girls want is probably different."
For men, face is probably the most important thing. My uncle is probably still concerned about what happened in the past, so he has not been able to make up his mind.
"I want to make her happy. At the very least, I need a car and a house, and I also need the ability to make her happy. I can't let Hanyue's quality of life be worse than before after marrying me.
We also need to make everyone think that we are a good match, otherwise people will think that Hanyue is marrying down and I am marrying up."
Mu Xu didn't want to see her being criticized because of marrying him.
"So you just want to save face, right?"
Rodin spoke directly and to the point.
Mu Xu: "This?"
"You're right, I just want to save face, and even that damned so-called self-esteem, but what should I do, Dandan? Tell me, what should I do?"
"Uncle, I remember Han Zhan told me before that you have a chance to study, right? Why don't you go?"
It seemed like it happened a few days ago. He hadn't woken up yet at that time, but Han Zhan mentioned it.
"I can't leave home. Your grandparents are old. What if something happens when I'm not home?"
"Don't we still have me and Mom? At worst, there's Luo Kang. What are you afraid of?
Even if you don't want to be with Hanyue, you shouldn't give up this opportunity. I don't think you are someone who is content with the status quo. If you can get better, why not choose to give it a try?
Your problem is that you think you are not good enough, but in my opinion my uncle is very outstanding and brave, and he always helps those in need.
What girls want is really different from what you think. Like me, I think as long as two people can be together, a small home is enough. A small house allows two people to cook, eat and rest together, which is good enough.
Of course, what you mentioned is also a problem, which is about the quality of life. I think if two people work together, this is a problem that can be overcome.
The most important thing is what you two think, whether you like her, whether you are willing to be with her, and whether you want to make an effort. It's that simple.
Or if you say you don't like her, if you say you dislike her, then you should tell her clearly and stop keeping her hanging like this, okay? She has a better future waiting for her.
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