Chapter 327



"In that case, her second son's stomach should be able to handle it too." Shen Li frowned.

"Yes, her second child has diarrhea and is skinny and small. It's obvious that he is growing up well. We all advised her not to work so hard. It's better for her to stay at home and take care of the children. Raising the two children is more important than anything else. But she listened to it, and there was nothing we could do."

"What kind of financial difficulties did she have to abandon her two children? Was there some serious illness in her family?" Shen Li couldn't help asking.

"That's true. Her parents-in-law are both healthy," said Zhang Ye's sister-in-law. "Her partner gave her the money he earned, so she has to make money on her own."

"She gets the money her boyfriend earns so she can support her family alone?" Shen Li frowned.

Such a man is too irresponsible.

"She gave it to me at first, but later..." Zhang Ye sighed, "Later, her husband found out that she had given most of the family's money to her parents, so she stopped giving."

"Before, her lover saved about ten million yuan with her, but when her brother wanted to get married, she gave all the money in the family to her brother."

"It turned out that the money was saved by her and her husband after spending ten years on food and clothing. They wanted to use it to buy a house in the county town. But the money was gone and she gave it all to her brother. Since then, her husband has never given her money again."

Originally Shen Li wanted to scold Yang Yuping's boyfriend for being a good person, but now it seems that Yang Yuping is a brother-supporting demon.

Why do you feel so happy about this?

"Then the reason why she is making money now is..." Shen Likai said.

"What else could it be? It's for her brother and her family." Zhang Ye looked sympathetic. "Her parents are also very thrifty. When they found out that she married a military officer on the island, they thought she was a military officer and had a good life. They asked her for money every now and then."

"Every month, before she even gets paid, her parents take all her salary away."

"Her current father is not her biological father. After her biological father died, her mother found another man. She also knew that her mother was instigated by her father, so she kept forcing her to take money. She never stopped taking money. She had no choice but to come to the factory to work and earn money. She earned money during the day and took care of the children at night. She was so tired that she was more than ten years old!"

Zhang Ye knew Yang Yuping. They both came to the island about the same time before, and they had a pretty good relationship. Therefore, Zhang Ye knew something about Yang Yuping.

"Then can her parents-in-law help her look after these two children?" Shen Li frowned.

"She gave all the family money to her parents. Her parents-in-law felt that Yang Yuping's love was betrayed by her, and they wanted them to divorce! How could she help her take care of the children? I guess her parents-in-law must hate her to death."

"What about her biological mother? She took all her hard-earned money, but she can only help her look after her child?"

"Her mother, she keeps saying that her arms and legs hurt, and she's always complaining about this and that. She's waiting for her brother's wife to give birth to a child, so she has no time to take care of her. She has no other choice, so she locks the two children at home and goes out to work to earn money." Zhang Ye sighed, "Yuping, her life is so hard."

"Since there is no one to help take care of the children, she is actually pregnant... How can she take care of three children when the time comes?" Shen Li couldn't understand, "When the babies are born, will she go to class to take care of three children alone, or will she continue to keep the children at home and go out to class later?"

In this case, wouldn't it be like asking the eldest to take care of the second and third children?

The eldest child was also a child of three or four years old. Such a child should have grown up happily and peacefully, but he had to carry the other two children on his back. How could a child bear such a heavy burden and yoke?

Besides, the eldest is so young, how can he take care of the other two children?

She is so small and lacks the knowledge to take care of children...

Newborn babies are naturally fragile, and inexperienced adults find it difficult to take care of them, not to mention the child...

"That's probably the case..." Zhang Ye said.

"This is simply irresponsible to the children." Shen Li said, "If you don't have the children to take care of, why do you have so many children? After giving birth, you throw them aside and don't take care of them. Don't even think about giving them love and companionship. Even the most basic food and clothing and survival problems have been solved. Why do you still have so many children?"

In this world, anyone is qualified to be a mother.

Just like Yang Yuping’s mother, and just like Yang Yuping herself.

They are all good mothers.

Yang Yuping's two daughters and their newborn children also suffered a lot.

It's like a vicious cycle.

"During that time, the two were arguing about divorce, but Yang Yuping and her boyfriend were senior classmates. She loved her boyfriend very much and was reluctant to divorce him, so she wanted to tie him down with a child." Zhang Ye said, "Her boyfriend had always wanted a boy, so she thought that if she gave birth to a boy, her boyfriend would divorce her, and her parents-in-law would be more pleased with her. So, as soon as she finished her confinement, she pestered her boyfriend to do it again... until she got pregnant..."

Can you really tie a man down by relying on a child?

This is not only her responsibility to her child, but also her responsibility to her body.

I got pregnant again right after the confinement period. I'm afraid my body is not well taken care of...

"I also think she's pregnant too often." Zhang Ye said. She looked around and saw nothing. She lowered her voice and continued, "Sister Li, I'm not afraid of you making fun of me. I gave birth to two children three times. Even though I gave birth more frequently, I often leak urine when I sneeze or cough. I don't dare to run or jump at all, but I'm afraid of leaking urine."

"Urine leakage is a sign of pelvic floor muscle relaxation," Shen Li looked at Zhang Ye sympathetically. "Generally, if you have given birth to a child, or if you have given birth to many children, this is more likely to happen."

"A good friend of mine from my hometown also had this problem." Zhang Ye lowered his voice and said, "Just this, sometimes when I squat to poop, when I use force, a lump of meat will fall out from my lower body..."

"I had to quickly plug that lump of flesh with paper."

Shen Li felt a chill down her spine when she heard this, and she felt a little sad.

"The piece of meat you are talking about is the uterus," said Shen Li.

In this case, the uterus is prolapsed.

It is also a kind of postpartum problem that women have after giving birth.

Nowadays, there are many postpartum rehabilitation programs that are aimed at the recovery of rectus abdominis separation (sacked belly), pelvic floor muscle relaxation (urinary incontinence), and uterine prolapse.

In this era, technology is not popular and developed, and women can only endure and suffer such problems after giving birth.

"That should be it. I was thinking, I'm already like this after giving birth to two children, and Yuping is still trying for a third child. If she gives birth to all the children, will she be fine?" Zhang Ye said painfully, "Although some women are fine after giving birth to three children, it's the same as before. I see Yuping getting older! She was so beautiful before, with white skin and a good figure. Now her skin has turned yellow, her hair has become less, wrinkles are more, and she has become fatter... She is completely different from before."


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