Ji Qingqian was puzzled. She shook her head and said, "I don't know. Teach me, Teacher Lu."
Teacher Lu smiled and said, "A person with higher emotional intelligence would answer, 'Yes, you do have a good sense of the camera.'"
Ji Qingqian didn't understand: "Huh?"
"This is the same as the expression of low emotional intelligence, but the core is completely different."
Lu Yibei said, "The first expression only sees the surface. The second expression sees the essence—when I said that, I wanted to hear people praise my writing skills. But in reality, I'm not good at it. In this situation, you can of course flatter me and say that my writing is pretty good. But this kind of flattery, while making me happy, makes me feel disgusted—but the reply 'Yes, you do have a good sense of the camera' is different. Although I didn't hear what I wanted to hear, you still praised my sense of the camera, so I won't be angry, and I'll even be a little happy, and you won't feel disgusted by the flattery."
Ji Qingqian: ...
Don't speak, she's grilling.
"So-called 'high emotional intelligence' is not about saying nice things to others, but about finding a value in the process of interacting with people that makes both yourself and the other person feel relatively happy."
Lu Yibei pointed at the female knight-errant Ji and said, "You understand?"
She looked a little confused.
Lu Yibei gave another example.
"For example, when I quote this in an online novel, I describe this thing—"
Lu Yibei pointed at the television: "What nouns will you use? Ji, please answer."
"Electricity, television?"
"Yep means television."
Lu Yibei said, "'Television' is concise and clear; two words are enough to tell you what it is. But if I write 'Redmi TV,' two more words are added. Some people might think, 'Wow, this author has added two extra words,' while others might think, 'Wow, this author uses the same TV as me!' This adds a bit of relatability, though not much. And the one who initially thought I was just padding will now think, 'Slightly padding, but not bad.' But if I write, '72-inch Redmi TV, bought on Taobao, the original purchase price was—,' then regardless of whether they use a Redmi TV or not, everyone will curse, 'Damn, you're such a padder!' So, finding a middle ground is very important—"
Ji Qingqian nodded as if she understood, and was about to offer her opinion when...
"Sister Qingqian!"
The sound of Chen Jingyi's shouts came from downstairs.
Ji Qingqian immediately stood up.
Then Lu Yibei's sister also appeared at the door.
High school is finally on holiday.
“Jingyi,” Ji Qingqian said.
"Qingqian, when is your flight?" Shen Jingyi asked.
Lu Yibei: ...
Although I don't know how to express high emotional intelligence.
But low emotional intelligence definitely results in someone like Chen Jingyi!
It's not that I harbor any ill will towards her, Qingqian.
Rather, her words struck a nerve with Lu Yibei.
"Get the hell out of here and go home!" Lu Yibei waved his hand dismissively.
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P.S., don't feel bad that Chebao got scammed.
You can say that Chebao can't find a partner.
But that doesn't mean Chebao is broke!!
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