Soon, Xu Jinning also saw the heroine of this wedding, her eldest sister-in-law’s oldest cousin—Xu Qingqing.
Because Aunt Xu was divorced, the four children who lived with her all took her surname.
Coincidentally, the adoptive parents who adopted Aunt Xu also had the surname Xu.
Therefore, there is no question of whether or not one needs to change one's surname after recognizing Xu Aiguo.
Aunt Xu asked Xu Jinning and others to sit on the sofa in the living room. Xu Qingqing and others hurriedly brought them tea and welcomed their arrival.
And Aunt Xu also found out that Xie Ting'an was Xu Jinning's boyfriend.
Looking at Song Yi and Xie Ting'an, Aunt Xu thought they were great.
I think both of these nieces have good taste.
Drinking tea and chatting together in the living room.
Xu Jinning looked around the large bungalow, as well as the TV, cabinets, radio, sofa, refrigerator and other items inside, and felt that his aunt's adoptive parents were from a well-off family.
Aunt Xu has several large bungalows like this.
I heard that her adoptive parents had a certain status in Jinshi before they died.
No wonder, when my aunt divorced that scumbag, she was able to take all four children with her, not leaving a single child for the scumbag's family.
I heard that the scumbag and his family had already left Jinshi in disgrace.
I didn’t dare to contact the four children.
Xu Jinning could see that the four children of her eldest aunt had a very good relationship with her.
So, in fact, whether a child can grow up healthily and happily does not necessarily require a complete family with both a father and a mother. If both parents are in love, then that would naturally be the best.
But if the relationship between the parents has broken down and one of them has already decided to leave, then there is no need to compromise with an unhealthy marriage for the sake of the children.
Because what children need is healthy family relationships, not a complete family.
As long as the economy is good and education is good, even a single parent can still let the child grow up healthily and happily.
It is better than letting children live in the midst of their parents' quarrels, indifference, betrayal and violence.
Therefore, Xu Jinning cannot understand those modern women who have been betrayed, cheated on, and beaten, but still want to keep their families intact for the sake of their children and not get divorced.
This puts all the responsibility onto the children.
But in essence, the root cause is just my own cowardice.
Coming back to his senses, Xu Jinning looked at Xu Qingqing sitting opposite him.
I heard from my eldest sister that cousin Qingqing’s marriage partner is also from Jinshi, and their family backgrounds are similar.
The two of them went to the countryside together for four years. They later came back after being admitted to Jinshi University together.
They also fell in love when they went to the countryside.
Now both of them are students of Jinshi University.
Due to policy reasons, even though Aunt Xu's adoptive parents had some power, one person still had to go to the countryside.
As the eldest child in the family, Xu Qingqing took the initiative to express her desire to go.
Later, with the help of Aunt Xu, Xu Qingqing was able to find a good job in the countryside. Although she stayed in the countryside for more than four years, she worked as a primary school teacher in the village, so there was not much physical work.
Later, she started dating her current fiancé.
Therefore, Xu Qingqing's life in the countryside was still pretty good.
"I'm planning to sell some bungalows and buy some small Western-style houses. Young people nowadays like small Western-style houses. I'll give one of them to Qingqing and you as your wedding house..."
As she was talking, Aunt Xu started talking about her recent plans.
She looked at the other three children across from her and said, "Of course, you will have it when you get married. Before you get married, I will keep it for you."
Aunt Xu's family is well off now and she has no shortage of houses. What she values most are her four children, so naturally she wants to give them the best.
Also, because young people nowadays like small villas, I plan to sell the bungalow and replace it with a small villa.
When the four children got married, each of them got a house.
Aunt Xu just mentioned her plan casually and did not intentionally say it in front of Xu Fanghua and Xu Jinning.
Because he regarded Xu Fanghua and Xu Jinning as close people, he would say such an important thing in front of them.
In fact, if it were someone else, they might think that Aunt Xu did it on purpose, and might even feel jealous or envious.
But Xu Fanghua and Xu Jinning won’t.
When Xu Fanghua got married, although the Xu family was well off, they could not give their married daughter a house directly like Aunt Xu did.
But, Xu Aiguo and his wife actually gave Xu Fanghua a lot of things to the best of their ability.
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For Xu Fanghua, who grew up in the love of her parents, there is nothing to be dissatisfied about.
As for the rest, she is still young and there are infinite possibilities in the future, which she can create and own herself.
She might even give it to her parents as a gift.
Therefore, Xu Fanghua did not feel any jealousy or envy towards Aunt Xu at all. She only saw Aunt Xu's love for her children.
This kind of feeling made her feel very good and warm.
This is what Xu Fanghua thought, and Xu Jinning had almost the same idea.
She is even less likely to be jealous or envious.
Firstly, her identity as a rich girl in her previous life made her less concerned about money, houses, jewelry and other things.
Secondly, both the small villa in Haishi that the Lin family compensated as compensation, and the welfare house that her father owned in the county town, were in her name.
In fact, her parents have already given her a lot.
Naturally, she can no longer be greedy, nor will she envy or be jealous of others.
Seeing what Aunt Xu did, she felt that she and her father were indeed siblings. They both loved their children very much and tried every means to continue to have everything for the children.
but……
[Aunt, please don't sell those big bungalows! ]
Aunt Xu was thinking about which house to give to Qingqing first, when she suddenly heard Xu Jinning's voice beside her.
Huh? What's going on?
She turned her head and looked at Xu Jinning.
Xu Jinning also looked at Aunt Xu at the same time.
Xu Jinning could see that Aunt Xu seemed to open her mouth, wanting to say something, but no sound came out. After realizing this, there was a look of fear in her eyes.
"Let's have some tea." Aunt Xu suddenly changed the subject and said something else, and found that she could actually speak.
But when she turned her head, "Ningning, you..."
The subsequent question of why the big bungalow could not be sold was automatically silenced again.
Xu Jinning smiled and said, "Aunt, you asked me to drink tea, right? I did."
Xu Jinning held the cup and took a sip of tea, but he felt extremely embarrassed.
Because she found that Aunt Xu's reaction seemed to be able to hear her thoughts.