After learning the lesson yesterday, little Domi was particularly obedient today.
She did whatever Sang Feiyu asked her to do. She went to bed on time and ate on time.
Zhao Hui felt that Sang Feiyu was better at taking care of children than them.
Someone saw little Duomi playing outside. When her mother told her to go to bed, she went to bed immediately without crying or making a fuss. People could not help but come to the door to learn from her.
"Comrade Sang, you have to teach me how to train my child to be so well-behaved and obedient."
The person who came to seek advice from Sang Feiyu was a young military family member.
Her son is two years older than little Duomi. Because the child is too difficult to raise and she cannot take care of him alone, she has never been able to have a second child.
Sang Feiyu asked about the situation she was facing now, and the young daughter-in-law Xiao Li responded, "My son has two biggest problems now. One is the problem of eating, and the other is the problem of sleeping."
When she mentioned these two things, her brows furrowed. "Whenever it's time to eat, he wants to go out and play. When it's time to go to bed, he refuses to go to bed and wants to play."
"Besides, he is very picky about food and won't eat many things. I'm worried that not eating will affect his growth."
After listening to her words, Sang Feiyu understood, "First, let's talk about the issue of eating."
"My little Domi has the same situation as your son. My solution is that if he doesn't want to eat, then don't force him to eat."
"Let him play. When he gets tired and hungry, he won't be given food until it's time for dinner."
"Then next time he'll know that if he doesn't eat, he'll have nothing to eat later. Only if you let him go hungry will he change. Otherwise, he'll always do whatever he wants."
Xiao Li was shocked after hearing this, "Comrade Sang, how could you be so cruel?"
"To spoil a child is like to kill him. I believe you have heard this truth."
Little Li replied, "It's not that exaggerated. The child is so young, he will become a big man in the future."
"A child is a blank piece of paper. Whatever he becomes is determined by what we, the parents, draw on him."
"You're spoiling him in everything now. It may seem like you're caring about him, but it's actually hurting him."
"Let's talk about the issue of eating. If he doesn't eat three meals a day on time for a long time, first of all, his stomach can't take it. He is so young, and if his stomach gets sick, then he will be in trouble in the future..."
Xiao Li was still frightened after hearing this. "Hearing what you said, I will go and change all his bad habits today."
Sang Feiyu gave her a shot of prevention first, "When a child cries, sometimes he doesn't really want to cry, he just knows that if he cries, you will listen to him."
"He uses this method to control you, so you must hold on and not be soft-hearted. If you are soft-hearted, it will be troublesome for you to change in the future. The child knows that you love him and will always use the same method to deal with you."
"When a child cries, find something else to do and don't pay attention to him. The more you pay attention to him, the harder he cries. When he finds that no one is watching his performance, he will stop crying by himself because he knows that crying is useless."
Xiao Li hesitated for a moment, and finally said, "I'll come back to ask you for advice when the time comes."
She felt that Sang Feiyu's description of the child was too horrible. How could a child know how to manipulate people's hearts?
When she saw how well Sang Feiyu taught little Duomi, she thought it wouldn't hurt to listen to what she had to say.
As soon as Xiao Li got home, he put into practice what Sang Feiyu had taught him.
"Son, play here first. Mom will make you some food."
"Mom, I want to eat meat. I want to eat meat."
"There is no meat at home today, so mom will make eggs for you. Is that okay?"
"I don't want to eat eggs. I want to eat meat. I haven't eaten meat for a long time."
As soon as Xiao Li's son became anxious, he started crying.
She remembered what Sang Feiyu said, that children know how to read people's hearts. They know that if they cry, you will feel sorry for them, so she could only harden her heart and not go to see her son.
"No one can eat meat every day. Mom also wants to eat meat every day. If you want to eat it, I will fry eggs for you. If you don't want to eat it, I won't make it. It will save me energy."
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