Qiao Tianrui earnestly warned them, "If you ever have the chance to see him again, don't let your emotions get the better of you. In fact, many times... inappropriate words can cause unnecessary misunderstandings."
"So no matter how angry you are, you must remain rational and not hurt important people with your words. You may think that just a few words won't cause any real harm, so what's the big deal?"
"But words are actually the sharpest sword. If you're not careful, you can seriously hurt others, and then it will be really irreparable. In short, what I mean is, if there is a misunderstanding, then resolve it and say what needs to be said."
After hearing this, Wen Wan started to sing like a playful joke: "If that day, I said what I should say nicely, and if I was understanding and not obsessed with it, if that day I was not provoked by my emotions, what would you do~~"
However, the song "It's a pity there are no ifs" is indeed appropriate for the situation. In fact, many quarrels can be avoided. People only get angry because they care about each other. Sometimes it is easy to say something without thinking when the conversation is in a hurry.
Just like the quarrel between Wen Wan and Zhou Ziheng, they were originally thinking about each other, but in the end it turned into a more intense quarrel, and even hurt each other severely.
If you can say what you need to say nicely, it won't develop into a cold war that lasts for more than ten days. So...you must be careful when speaking. If you don't say what you think and always say one thing and mean another, how can others understand?
Moreover, there is no "if" in this world, so we should cherish the people around us and live our lives seriously.
Wen Wan expressed her own perspective on the detours she'd taken on the road to relationships, saying, "I don't know if you've ever had an argument with a close friend, family member, or lover, where your words hurt them so much that you later deeply regretted it."
"I don't know if you guys have experienced this, but my brother and I have. Our motivation was actually for each other, but once we got carried away, it was hard to stay rational, so we started saying things without thinking."
[Huh? Why did Wanbao suddenly start singing? Why did the topic change so quickly?]
[Speaking of which… Xiao Zhou and Jing Shuo suddenly talking to the air really scared me at first, but I soon stopped being scared. I think even if Tian Rui turned into a ghost, he would still be cute.]
[They must have been referring to Zui Zui, otherwise why would Wan Bao suddenly sing this line? Speaking of which, when Zui Zui suddenly disappeared and retired, I was really, really sad!!]
There were many different opinions at the time. Some outrageous media outlets even speculated that there was a long-standing feud within SKY, saying that Xiao Zhou Jingshuo and Tianrui were ostracizing Zui Zui and were specifically targeting him after the group disbanded. They claimed that Zui Zui couldn't make it and therefore quit the industry. No one in their right mind would come up with such a ridiculous story.
[The situation Wanbao described actually happened to me before. It wasn't a big deal, but when we were both excited, things got a lot more complicated. At that time, I didn't think before I spoke, and I blurted out my thoughts. In the end, she felt really hurt and ended our friendship.]
Wen Wan looked at the comments that mentioned "Chen Zui". Her strong desire for knowledge made her anxious, so... what was the reason for his sudden departure?
Even Chen Zui’s long-time fans couldn’t come up with the answer, so Wen Wan, a stranger who didn’t even know him, naturally couldn’t come up with the answer either. She couldn’t even come up with it by guessing it.
She immediately put the matter behind her and continued with the previous topic: "Actually, most people may have experienced the situations I just mentioned. The way to deal with them is actually very simple. Two words -"
"Long mouth!"
Wen Wan paused for a moment, then carefully explained to everyone, "Your starting point might be for the other person, but the other person doesn't actually know it. You'll feel like he can't even guess this, so he definitely doesn't take you seriously!"
"But actually... no one is a god. We are all just ordinary people who don't have the ability to read minds. If you don't explain clearly, how would he know?"
"So... don't always make the other person guess. Your mouth isn't for reading. You should take the initiative to tell him. Don't always be shy about expressing your inner thoughts. No one will laugh at you!"
Wen Wan actually found it a little funny when she said this. Thinking back on the time she had a quarrel and a cold war with Zhou Ziheng before, it was really baffling. How could such a small matter turn out to be like that?
She tried to teach by example and continued, "Since you know it might be a misunderstanding, then be brave and ask, speak up, and resolve it. Otherwise, you will regret it later."
"Be brave and express your emotions, such as love, longing, happiness, etc.! There are no ifs in this world, so cherish the people in front of you. When you see someone you want to see, you must float... Ugh! You must run!"
[Hahahaha, Wanwan's nonsense is really funny. I reasonably suspect Ruirui was floating when he went to meet his brothers!]
Well said, Wen Xiaowan! Be brave enough to show your true feelings and express your love boldly. Those who love you won't laugh at you; they'll only love you even more for it!
The class representative summarized: if there are misunderstandings, resolve them quickly. Be sure to speak up and don't be reckless. Be brave and express your thoughts. So... after learning these things, can I find a boyfriend as handsome as Brother Zhou?
[Seriously, stop dreaming, ladies! I think if you want to find a boyfriend as handsome as Zhou, you need to learn more than just these things. The most important thing is to have a face like Wanwan.]
Qiao Tianrui strongly agreed with Wen Wan's words. In fact, the reason why he said this in advance was not because he thought Chen Zui would come back in the near future, but he always believed that this person would come back one day, but he... probably wouldn't be able to wait for that day.
Although he had no chance to see Chen Zui again, he should have arranged everything before leaving.
When the four of them were still competing, there were often conflicts of varying sizes. The other three, except him, all had their own personalities, and they all had bad tempers and were very angry. The only difference was between being angry openly and sulking.
Although his temper is not very good, his emotions always come and go quickly. He never takes them to heart and forgets them quickly. So after the group was formed, he consciously took on the role of regulating the atmosphere in the team.
After they formed the group, they were busier than before, and their long-term cohabitation life also caused more conflicts. They were all hot-blooded boys, and sometimes they would quarrel over just a few words.
If he wasn't there, this team would have quarreled countless times and would probably have disbanded in less than a year. That's why... he was so worried and wanted to arrange his affairs early so that he could feel at ease.
Just when he was about to take over the topic and stop mentioning Chen Zui, a barrage of comments suddenly sparked heated discussion.
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