Chapter 242 Military Wife
When Mr. Liu, Mr. Kong, and Mr. Zhang, who were stationed far away in the suburbs of Beijing, learned that their children's first action after going to the countryside had such a big impact, they all showed expressions of relief.
Kong Lingyun's father laughed so hard that his mouth couldn't stop. "These three kids are indeed the black sheep of the compound. No, they are the ones that everyone in the compound hates, but no, they are the troublemakers..."
Before he finished speaking, Father Kong fell silent. He really couldn't think of any suitable words to describe these three kids.
Liu Chengjun's father pounded the table with laughter. "Don't worry about what it is. Anyway, they dare to cause trouble, can handle it, have good intentions, are honest and brave, and are generally good children. They are hated by everyone in the compound, and they probably have nothing to do. If you give them something to do, won't they quiet down?"
Zhang Junfeng's father agreed: "That's right, you're still a good boy."
Father Kong said, "Then let's also add to the fire and strengthen education on gender equality in the army. Let them all write letters home and tell them that those with children should treat their children equally, and those with wives should ask their families to treat their wives well. It's not easy to be a military wife. Only a few can accompany the army. Most of them stay in their hometowns. They have elderly parents and young children to support, and it's all up to the military wives to support them. If you encounter difficult parents-in-law, uncles, sisters-in-law, or younger brothers-in-law, it will be even more difficult."
Father Liu stroked his chin and said, "This matter needs to be broken down. It's not easy for a soldier's wife. If the soldier's family is all good and get along well with the soldier's wife, and the family encounters difficulties, we must of course mobilize the brigade, the members of the commune, and the militia to help. If the soldier's wife herself is the one being bullied, and the soldier's family is evil, in this case, how to help must be carefully considered. The people's help cannot benefit the evil, this is a basic principle. We want to help kind soldiers' families and wives who are in trouble, not those who have no difficulties but have evil tempers."
Zhang's father said, "Let the armed forces departments of various places publicize that military marriages are protected and that no one can bully military wives. Bullying military wives is tantamount to bullying soldiers. Localities can investigate the situation of military families and clarify the situation. They should help those who should be helped and punish those who should be punished. However, we cannot completely rule out the possibility that some soldiers' families will take advantage of their relatives' military service to run rampant and abuse their power."
We're far away and don't know the situation very well, so we'll leave this matter to the local armed forces. If there are truly bad guys like that, we need to give them a good beating and let them know that if they don't behave well, it will affect the soldiers' future in the army."
Kong's father said, "This should have been the job of the county armed forces department, but in reality, they may not be able to do their work so meticulously. This time, we are asking them to implement these policies and find out whether there are still families of martyrs who are not doing well."
After a discussion among several people, it was finally decided that Kong Dad would write a report, take the report to the superior political commissar, and then submit a recommendation to the General Political Department.
The management of military dependents is under the jurisdiction of the General Political Department. They can only manage matters within their own scope. For national affairs, they have to find the corresponding departments and be responsible for their promotion.
On October 20, the General Political Department issued a document requiring local armed forces to cooperate with local authorities in providing support to the families of soldiers and martyrs.
The county armed forces department is even busier.
They first held a meeting with the county party committee leaders, the Women's Federation, the Public Security Bureau, and the Civil Affairs Bureau to carefully study the document and try to fully understand its spirit.
Xie Yun was also called to attend this meeting. She knew at first glance that this was a follow-up to the Majiagou incident, so she said: "There are two sides to this matter. On the one hand, we need to help those military families who are truly in need, and on the other hand, we need to crack down on those military families who do evil.
For example, some soldiers, while serving in the military and striving for their careers, marry a wife who stays home to fulfill their filial duties. This is a common phenomenon, and it's one reason why we say being a military wife is difficult. Originally, the couple should fulfill their filial duties, but instead, one person bears the entire burden. If the person they are filial to is kind and understanding, then of course it's best. With the military allowance they receive, they can live happily together.
However, some families, once their sons are away, will wantonly abuse their daughters-in-law. Not only will they not spend a cent of the allowance sent back by the soldiers, but they will also demand that they serve the entire family like slaves, even their uncles, sisters-in-law, and their children. This is like treating someone like a servant. This soldier's wife will be pregnant, give birth, and take care of the children all by herself, doing the work of several people and having to endure the wrath of the entire family.
Don't disbelieve it, this situation definitely exists.
The oppressed lesbians don’t even know who to turn to for resistance, and don’t know who to resist. They can only struggle in the quagmire, sinking deeper and deeper.
Because she'd long been taught that military wives are supposed to be dedicated, that life is just a little harder than it is for ordinary people. Because she gets to enjoy the glory of being a military wife, and if a soldier makes a contribution, she gets half the credit. So isn't it natural for her to endure some hardship? She's already honored! A sign reading "House of Honor" hangs above her door. If she resists, it means she's ignoring the greater good, lacking in ideological awareness, and that there's something wrong with her.
But let me be frank: in this situation, what good is glory? She gets no real benefit at all, and all the hardship falls on her shoulders. She might die of exhaustion at a young age. The real beneficiaries are the soldiers' parents, siblings, nieces and nephews, and even ordinary people like us, who enjoy a peaceful life thanks to the soldiers who defend our country.
But what about the military wife? Is it justified to suffer for her while benefiting the entire military family? Considering how common it is for soldiers and their wives to live apart, we should definitely find ways to prevent this tragedy from happening.
Military wives are also human beings. They have already suffered the hardship of being separated from their parents-in-law and taking care of their children alone. We should not let them suffer more and endure more grievances!
We need to consider the rights and interests of military wives and help them truly enjoy them. Military wives and military dependents are two different concepts, so we need to make a distinction and do our work in a more detailed manner.
She absolutely believed that she was not the only tragic military wife in this world in her previous life. There must be many other people who were suffering from grievances and were confused about what to do.
Resist? Since you are called a "military wife", selfless dedication is what this title means. What are you resisting?
If you don't resist, you will suffer endless hardships and grievances!
This was a good opportunity to push for a county-wide survey of the living conditions of military families and their wives. Difficulties should be addressed, and problems should be solved. If a situation like hers happened in her previous life, they could let their husbands be their Zheng Guoqiang.
If you can't handle housework, then don't do it.
Our country doesn’t have much, but it has a large population and a lot of talented people.
If one person is missing, someone will be able to take his place immediately.
Xie Yun's proposal was unanimously agreed upon.
Everyone discussed the details in detail and came up with a specific work plan.
Then, the county armed forces department convened a meeting of the people's armed forces departments and women's directors of each commune, and the militia company commanders and women's directors of each brigade, and trained them. They had to complete the preliminary investigation work.
The county armed forces department and women's federation will conduct a follow-up review.
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