Chapter 245 The Heart Anchor is Shifted... (1)
Gaga's mother is a civil servant in the Central City government agency and has always performed outstandingly in her unit.
Her father is also a civil servant, but he divorced Gaga's mother two years ago due to an extramarital affair...
As a woman, Liu Ye felt even more sympathy for Jia Jia's mother. She could understand the difficulty this mother faced in raising a child—when a child is lost, a single mother has to bear double the pain that is even heavier than that of an average family...
So, when she saw Gaga's mother, Liu Ye's voice was particularly gentle, and she comforted her carefully for a while. Seeing that Gaga's mother was much calmer, Liu Ye went into the inner room and began to give Gaga psychological treatment.
When Gaga sat in front of her, Liu Ye felt a pang of heartache.
This beautiful girl who looks like a doll, has a depressed look, dull eyes, and slow reactions...
It seems that during his imprisonment, Jia Jia's mind was more damaged than the previous boy Chong.
Liu Ye analyzed that it was very likely that her heart anchor was hurt!
What is a heart anchor?
Heart anchors are a natural reflection of people's external conditions. They cumulatively influence every emotion and word...
Specifically, it is when the mood is linked to a certain behavior that some natural conditioned reflexes are produced... When people use this link repeatedly several times, the impression will continue to deepen... Later, if people continue to do similar behaviors, their mood will have an instinctive conditioned reflex... At this time, the heart anchor is successfully established!
To describe the anchor, we can use some very specific examples:
For example, if someone has had the experience of being burned on the face by fire, then next time he sees a blazing fire, he will definitely run away from it - the heart anchor has stored this imprint;
For example, if someone gets skin allergies after eating pineapple, then he will never eat this fruit again - the mental anchor has recorded the early skin allergy experience;
For example, someone once hit the accelerator while driving uphill, causing the car to stall and slide backwards... Then, the next time they see a steep uphill road, they will take a detour - because the mental anchor has taught them that hitting the accelerator uphill is more dangerous...
Heart anchor, sometimes manifested as a sentence;
Heart anchors can sometimes be just a few words;
The heart anchor may sometimes be an action;
When people see, hear, think, smell and taste things, a sense of familiarity will arise in their hearts... It is the memory stored in the heart and the imprint of the state of physical growth.
Therefore, heart anchors are even easier to change a person than the mind!
If the mind is the sum of a person's various thinking abilities, and lifelong happiness is directly related to it, then the heart anchor is the switch for a person's thinking and actions. Once established, it will automatically activate when encountering a specific situation...
When a mental anchor is changed, either intentionally or unconsciously, the person can change dramatically.
To give an extreme example, when a person encounters a major disaster or a major setback in life, his or her words and actions often change drastically overnight...
That actually means that under heavy pressure, his or her heart anchor has shifted significantly...
Now, the five-year-old girl Gaga in front of us was abducted by human traffickers because she accidentally got lost. It is completely imaginable that she was abused and tortured during that period!
A five-year-old child, whose physical and mental development has just begun, has already been subjected to such intense stimulation... It's understandable that after such intense stimulation, her mindset will shift, and her reactions to emotions and behaviors will also shift in various ways...
"Hello, friend, please tell your aunt, what is your name?" Liu Ye asked softly.
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