To be honest, if Xiao Yunying knew that Luo Li was showing off the bubble solution but never intended to share it with anyone, she wouldn't have agreed to let him go out and play with it by himself.
Because she knew the children would definitely make a fuss.
Novel toys have an absolute attraction for children. If Luo Li is willing to share, the worst that might happen is that there are minor conflicts about who plays first and who plays for longer.
Luo Li is a bit clever; as long as he says that he can't be bullied if he wants to play again, he won't cause any trouble over the bubble water.
The problem is that he's unwilling to share; he just wants to show off.
Are adult "giant babies" who throw tantrums and even physically assault their parents in their past lives just to buy a cell phone?
Even adults rarely have strong self-control when faced with their beloved possessions, let alone a group of children under the age of ten.
It would be strange if he could refrain from fighting back against Luo Li, who was often bullied by him.
Luo Li wasn't a child who only knew how to throw tantrums and wouldn't listen to reason. After a moment of silence, she figured it out on her own.
“I know I was wrong. I shouldn’t have gone out to show off, I shouldn’t have been selfish and not shared with them, and I shouldn’t have fought with them.”
Xiao Yunying said seriously, "You shouldn't have gone out to show off. If you went out with the intention of not letting them play, you should have taken your two older brothers with you, or thought of another way to protect yourself before you went."
I know they bullied you first, so you thought of a little "revenge". There is a cause and an effect. From this point of view, not letting them play is not selfish of you, but because they are not worthy.
Regarding fighting, it depends on the situation. If they attack first, and you retaliate in self-defense, your primary goal should be your own safety. If they use excessive force, don't hold back. Don't worry about getting hurt; I'm here, and I won't let you suffer.
Luo Chen looked up, puzzled. Was this lecturing going a bit astray? Why was she even supporting her brother fighting?
Xiao Yunying took in the children's expressions. Except for Luo Xin, the little girl who clearly didn't understand, she still stood there listening attentively with a serious expression, just like her brothers. The three boys all had a bit of shock in their expressions.
Especially Luo Li, whose mind kept echoing the words, "With me here, I won't let you suffer any injustice."
Does he now have someone to back him up and protect him?
Can he trust her? What if she turns bad again?
Xiao Yunying said, "Say whatever you have a problem with. Don't keep it to yourself. The most important thing in interpersonal relationships is communication. It can save a lot of unnecessary trouble and clear up a lot of misunderstandings."
Luo Chen felt it necessary to remind the "monster" in front of him that he couldn't live as freely as he did in the mountains if he wanted to live like a human.
"What you just said is not quite right. One should be more tolerant and generous, and not be too selfish or vengeful. Fighting is also wrong. It's best not to resort to violence if possible. You should learn to persuade others with reason."
Making a scene in the village is nothing, but if you go to the city and accidentally offend some powerful or wealthy family, being beaten up is the least of your worries; you might even end up in jail.
Xiao Yunying said calmly, "I'm not telling you to be selfish or hold grudges, but tolerance and generosity should also be shown to others."
A good person, whether due to a momentary lapse of judgment or going astray, can make mistakes that are within your tolerance if they are willing to correct them. Choosing to forgive that person shows your tolerance, and I will only feel gratified.
However, if someone keeps doing bad things and never learns from their mistakes, it's better to teach them a lesson so they won't dare to bother you again.
Because you don't know who he'll target next, or whether you can handle the consequences.
If you want to be tolerant and forgiving, you also need to consider whether the other person needs your forgiveness, or rather, whether they deserve your forgiveness.
To give a less-than-pleasant example, if a child accidentally killed Luo Li or Luo Chen today, would you still try to reason with them, explain that fighting is bad, that you shouldn't hold grudges, and forgive them with magnanimity?
Without the slightest hesitation, Luo Chen replied, "Of course not!"
Xiao Yunying shrugged: "Look, even you can't, so why should you expect others to be tolerant and reasonable?"
Luo Chen hesitated, though he said that the two were too far apart to be compared.
Xiao Yunying smiled and said, "Are you trying to say that Luo Li was just bullied a little and at most felt wronged, but it's not a big deal. How can it be compared to losing his life?"
Luo Chen nodded: "Luo Li is a man. He holds grudges over trivial matters. He is narrow-minded and will never accomplish great things."
"Luo Chen, you're supposed to be Luo Li's older brother, yet you don't stand up for him when he's been bullied, and instead think he's narrow-minded. I really don't know what to say about you."
Let me put it this way: He Hua, who has spoken ill of me a lot, is someone I've always talked about. I'm telling you all clearly, I didn't bother with her before, but what she said just now crossed my line, and I'm holding a grudge.
I didn't get enough of that earlier. If she doesn't bother me again, I'll teach her a lesson she won't forget. But if she does, I'll give her a bloody lesson.
And what about her? I just beat her up in front of so many people. Do you think she'll be magnanimous enough to forgive me? Or will she hold a grudge and look for a chance to get rid of me?
They all saw the look in He Hua's eyes when she left, and the answer was self-evident.
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