Chapter 42
This is exactly what the Duke of Qi was upset about.
He really couldn't understand. Although his third daughter was a little inferior to his two elder sisters
, she wasn't that bad. Moreover, she was the legitimate daughter of the Duke of Qi. There were so many young talents in the capital, so why did she choose such a useless person?
Wei Yinuo also felt confused: [What? This is a four-no product? How could the third daughter of the Duke of Qi be attracted to him? Does he have any other charm?]
System: [Speaking of charm, does sweet talk count? Don't you girls always like boys with sweet talk?]
Wei Yinuo: [It's true that I like boys with sweet talk, but at least the boy should have other advantages, right? Otherwise, it's like a toad barking at you all day long, and even if it barks out a flower, it won't be able to stand it! 】
Emperor Mingde almost laughed out loud when he heard this metaphor!
This Wei Yinuo is a good metaphorist, but is that little potato really that ugly?
And the ministers below are now even more curious about the appearance of that little potato. He can't be as unbearable as Lord Wei said, right?
System: [Your metaphor is too extreme, he is not that ugly! 】
Wei Yinuo: [Okay! But I still can't understand why Miss Qi San fell in love with this little potato! And she had to be with him! Is it just because he is sweet-mouthed? 】
System: [You don't know that the reason why Miss Qi San fell so deeply into the trap this time is actually because Duke Qi and his wife are largely responsible. 】
Everyone looked at the Duke of Qi curiously. What on earth was going on with this system?
The Duke of Qi had always been a good parent. How could the matter of the Third Miss Qi be related to the Duke of Qi?
The Duke of Qi: This system, please don't talk nonsense! Her mother and I have taken great pains to take care of our children. How could it be his fault?
Wei Yinuo was also very curious about what the system said, and asked quickly: [Ah? What's going on?]
System: [Although this Third Miss is very good-looking, and is also good at playing the piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, she is still far inferior to her two elder sisters. 】
【Since she was a child, she has been compared with her two elder sisters. However, no matter how hard she tried, she was always inferior to them, and could not meet the expectations of the Duke of Qi and his wife. As time went on, the third young lady began to become more and more inferior, even a little self-destructive, and even felt that she was redundant. 】
【It was at this time that she met the Southern Little Potato. This Southern Little Potato had no other advantages, but he could make girls happy. Under his sweet words, the third young lady began to rebuild her confidence in herself. After a while, the third young lady fell in love with this Southern Little Potato...】
Wei Yinuo: 【So, the third young lady has been PUAed by the whole family since she was a child? I see, then I can understand why the third young lady is like this. She was recognized by the Southern Little Potato and found the value of her existence! 】
Although the ministers did not understand what this puA meant, they roughly guessed what it meant from the systematic description just now.
But they could not understand, "If a child is not taught, the father and son will be at fault", shouldn't parents be stricter with their children? It has been like this for thousands of years, right? They were also educated in this way when they were young, so why did Master Wei seem to disagree with this way of education?
Emperor Mingde was also very puzzled, so Wei Yinuo meant that the reason why the third lady of the Duke of Qi was like this was because of the education that the Duke of Qi and his family had given her since she was a child?
The Duke of Qi, as the person involved, could not understand it even more!
Although he and his wife were usually a little strict with this third daughter, it was also for her good.
And to be honest, they loved their children equally and did not favor one over the other.
Why do you say it's their fault?
System: [That's right! Miss San has not been recognized by everyone since she was a child. Over time, she began to doubt herself, deny herself, and even began to think that she was redundant. This is a typical puA. And now it seems that the family's puA has caused great harm to Miss San, causing her to have serious psychological problems. ]
[So when she met a person who not only did not deny her, but kept praising her, she naturally wanted to get close to him, hold on to him, and stay away from those who make her feel inferior and unhappy...]
Wei Yinuo: [That's right! In fact, situations like Miss Qi San are very common. Many parents think that their children are their own appendages and always like to control their children's words and deeds. Once they fail to meet their expectations, they will use verbal violence or even physical violence to control their children, and even call it "I'm doing this for your own good!"
Although most of them are unconscious, they have caused serious harm to their children. In the case of Miss Qi San, she used to be very obedient, but because of something or someone's stimulation, her temperament suddenly changed, and she had a fierce confrontation with her parents and became extremely rebellious; in more serious cases, she may even suffer from severe depression, lose interest in life, and even commit suicide.
Ministers: What? Is it so serious? ? ?
Is the behavior of Miss Qi San still considered light? It can even lead them to commit suicide?!
Some of them couldn't help but start to reflect on their own education of their children, and found that they seemed to have more or less some of the PUA behavior mentioned by Wei Yinuo.
What's more serious is that some of them found that their children seemed to have really appeared in the situation mentioned by Wei Yinuo!
Thinking of this, they didn't dare to think about it anymore...
Even Emperor Mingde began to reflect on his own education methods. It seemed to be true. He always felt that children were just children after all. What did they know?
If he didn't discipline them strictly, they would definitely go astray.
At the same time, he was afraid that his children would become arrogant, so he always belittled them, hoping that they would stop being arrogant and impatient...
Now it seems that he was wrong???
Duke Qi also began to reflect on his past. It seemed that it was exactly the same as what Wei Yinuo and her system said. He had always educated his children in this way. Could it be that he was really wrong???
He began to regret it.
Fortunately, his Jing'er was not in the most serious situation mentioned by Wei Yinuo.
Thinking of this, he suddenly felt relieved. Since his daughter liked it, as long as the other party had good character, he would let her do it.
At worst, after they get married, he will let them stay in the capital and find a job for them. With him taking care of them in the capital, his daughter's family will be able to live a rich life, but at least they won't be too poor.
But the next second, the system's words almost made him spit out blood!
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