That's what makes a good leader.
"Thank you for your concern, Li Zhen. Everything is fine. We had dinner and watched a movie together yesterday, and I only took her home last night," Wang Zhitao said with a smile. He is currently enjoying success in both love and career.
I'm doing very well in the central town. Although the work is sometimes a bit tiring, what does that matter? Young people are only afraid of not having opportunities, why should they be afraid of hardship or fatigue?
"It seems like things are going well? You two have both met each other's parents. Have you discussed when to get married?" Li Xiuyuan continued to ask.
Every day you don't get married, something can change, even if it's a small one.
"Marriage? That's a long way off, no rush, let's wait a couple of years," Wang Zhitao said casually.
Li Xiuyuan tossed a cigarette to Wang Zhitao and said with a smile, "Aren't your parents worried?"
“They are quite anxious, but I think it’s a bit too fast,” Wang Zhitao said. He now has a lot of autonomy at home, after all, he is Director Wang.
That's how people are. Your status in society determines your status at home. If you're a failure, everything you say is wrong. Sometimes parents may not do it intentionally, but they do it subconsciously.
But if you succeed, your parents will agree with what you say. This applies not only to your parents, but also to all your relatives and friends.
"You need to hurry up. Your aunt and uncle are anxious, and you don't care, but what about Deputy Secretary Lu? Isn't he anxious too? Have you thought about that? Maybe neither Deputy Secretary Lu nor Lu Ting are too embarrassed to mention it to you, but aren't they anxious?"
Especially since I heard that Lu Ting is two years older than you, right? She should be twenty-seven this year. How can I not be worried?
Li Xiuyuan looked at Wang Zhitao and said that he was twenty-four years old this year, and Wang Zhitao was one year older than him, already twenty-five. Lu Ting was two years older than Wang Zhitao, twenty-seven. In a small county town, if they were still not married at this age, it was time to start worrying.
"Another thing is that when two people are dating, sometimes they can't get married after being together for a long time. The longer the relationship goes on, the harder it is to get married. On the contrary, if they haven't been together for very long, but feel that they are suitable, they will get married."
Wang Zhitao could ignore his parents' urging, but he began to seriously consider Li Xiuyuan's words because of their different social statuses.
His success today, with both love and career flourishing, is not due to his family, but rather to Li Xiuyuan, his benefactor. Of course, one should listen carefully to the words of a benefactor.
So Wang Zhitao asked, "Mayor Li, is this saying that the longer the marriage lasts, the less likely one is to get married, also derived from work experience?"
When Li Xiuyuan shared his experience of getting along with his father-in-law, he said, "It's the same as doing a job. If you're exceptionally capable, no one can ignore you; if your work ability isn't outstanding, then you need to understand interpersonal relationships and try to gain favor from various angles..."
The saying goes that the longer you date, the less likely you are to get married. Is that also related to work experience?
Li Xiuyuan's face darkened, and he looked at Wang Zhitao with annoyance, saying, "This isn't work experience, it's scientific principle. When you first start dating, both of you feel a sense of novelty, and your brain releases dopamine, which produces a feeling of pleasure. At this time, both of you are eager to get married and maintain this feeling of pleasure. But as the relationship goes on for a long time, the novelty wears off, and dopamine is no longer released. Who would want to get married then?"
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