Chapter 84 Chapter 84 Let Dad help you, okay? ...
Looking at the students next to him who were taking notes, they either felt a rapid pulse or a thin pulse. Only one person felt a thin rapid pulse like Shen Miao.
Generally, a person with Yin deficiency and internal heat will have a thin and rapid pulse. The so-called Yin deficiency and internal heat refers to "lack of water" in the body, which makes it easy to get "angry". The cause of lack of water in the body is generally due to excessive sexual intercourse.
According to the woman's description, the girl did show symptoms of inattention, distraction, cold hands and feet, and sweating.
Of course, even if you feel such a pulse or have such symptoms, you cannot directly conclude that this is the cause.
After all, she looks young, and we need to check carefully to see if there are other symptoms to be sure.
However, Doctor Wang did not seem to intend to ask for more details. He prescribed a health-preserving prescription for her: "It's nothing serious. It's probably because you studied too hard and stayed up too late. Go back and have a good rest. Eat more mulberries and wolfberries to replenish your body."
"Oh, the pressure in school is so great now. I have to finish my homework until 8 or 9 o'clock every day, not to mention reviewing and preparing for class."
When it comes to her child's studies, the mother has a lot to say, "This child has been strong since she was young and has high expectations for herself. Last semester, she cried for several days because she didn't make the top three. Now, even if you force her to turn off the lights and go to bed, she will secretly get up to study."
As a parent herself, Dr. Wang understands her very well: "It's a good thing for children to love learning. As parents, we just need to support them. Learning takes a lot of brainpower and energy, so we need to make up for it."
"Yeah, when I get back I'll buy her some more wolfberries and make tea for her every day."
Hearing that her daughter was fine, the woman finally put her mind at ease. "Fortunately, her father is well educated and can help her with her homework every day. If she had to figure it out on her own, she would have to stay up even later."
After writing the medical record, Dr. Wang handed the prescription to the woman: "Go down and get the medicine first. I'll teach the child some tips to keep him alert. You can use them when you have trouble concentrating."
"Okay, thank you doctor!"
After the woman left, Shen Miao was about to tell Doctor Wang about her doubts, but Doctor Wang called her to the back and whispered to her, "There are some things I can't say directly. Go to the next room and talk to the girl more and enlighten her. It's puberty, don't develop any bad habits."
It turns out he knew what was going on.
The pulse and facial features will not lie. In fact, when taking the girl's pulse just now, Dr. Wang noticed something abnormal in her body, but he didn't say it because her mother was beside her.
There will be some changes in the bodies of adolescent girls, and coupled with the heavy burden of schoolwork, it is inevitable that they will not be able to find a suitable outlet for their emotions. Therefore, many girls will use the method of clamping the quilt to vent their emotions, just like boys will do handicrafts from time to time.
This is a way to relieve stress, but if it is excessive, it will cause damage to the body, especially for young girls, who should not indulge in it.
There is a lack of education in this area in our country. If he says it clearly in front of his mother, it will inevitably hurt the girl's self-esteem and may even cause unnecessary trouble.
Fortunately, Shen Miao was here. It would definitely be more appropriate for her to communicate with the girl and enlighten her properly than for a male doctor to do the talking.
Shen Miao nodded, “Okay, leave it to me.”
Taking the girl to the nearby clinic, Shen Miao saw that the girl was standing at the door stiffly with a somewhat nervous expression. She smiled and said to her, “Don’t be nervous. I’m just teaching you a set of health exercises. There are too many people next door and I can’t do it. There is plenty of space here.”
Flexing her hands and feet, Shen Miao took the initiative to do a horse stance in front of her, “This set of exercises is called Eight Section Brocade, there are only eight movements in total, each movement is very simple, it won’t take long to learn it.”
"Do it once in the morning and once at noon every day. I guarantee that you will feel refreshed in a month and your physical fitness will also improve a lot."
"Let me show you how to do it first, and then we can learn it step by step."
Just doing the martial arts moves was a bit dry, so Shen Miao turned on the radio on the table and tuned to a random music channel. With "Mu Guiying Takes Command" as the background music, she performed "Lifting the Sky with Both Hands to Regulate the Three Burners" to "Shaking the Back Seven Times to Eliminate All Diseases" in succession.
The girl was rather introverted and didn’t seem to be very good at dealing with strangers, but after watching Shen Miao practice Ba Duan Jin for a while, her nervousness gradually relaxed.
Next, Shen Miao taught her step by step how to do it again, and then pointed out the breathing method when doing the exercises.
Because the movements were simple and not difficult, the girl learned very quickly. Shen Miao only taught her three times before she was able to perform a complete set by herself.
Each movement of Ba Duan Jin looks very gentle, very similar to Tai Chi, but after all, it is a set of fitness exercises used to increase the Yang energy in the body, so it is easy to sweat during the process.
In just a short while, the girl's hair on her temples was wet with sweat.
Shen Miao poured her a glass of water and wiped the sweat off her forehead with her sleeve: “Come, sit down and rest for a while, I will teach you another set of Eight Voids later.”
"Thank you, sister."
Taking the cup of water handed over by Shen Miao, the girl nodded and smiled.
"You must be doing very well in your class."
"Generally, that is, the top five."
"The top five is not good? I remember when I was in the third year of junior high school, I just wanted to play every day and almost didn't graduate."
"No way? You look like a good student to me."
The girl was the type who took a long time to warm up to Shen Miao. After she gradually got familiar with her, she started to talk more.
After feeling that it was about the same, Shen Miao then indirectly mentioned to her some things that were not convenient to tell the adults.
“Are you in a relationship now?” Shen Miao lowered her voice a bit.
The girl shook her head.
"Don't talk about it. Even if you want to talk about it, you have to go to high school. What do junior high school boys know? They are just a bunch of brats."
"Indeed," the girl agreed with her point of view as if she had met a confidant, "Boys in our school are like this, not mature at all, and they just want to be gangsters and bosses every day."
After a pause, the girl asked Shen Miao again: “Sister, what do you think high school is like? My mother always told me that it will be easy once I pass the high school entrance exam.”
Shen Miao: …
"She lied to you. How can going to school be easy?"
It’s easy to get into junior high school, it’s easy to get into high school, it’s easy to get into college, it’s easy to graduate... These sentences are simply the four lies that parents tell their children to study hard!
Only those who have been to school will know that learning is never easy and will only become more and more tiring in the future.
Recalling her high school life, Shen Miao said without hiding anything: "When I was in high school, I thought about sleeping every day, especially in math class. I got a headache when I heard the teacher talking about formulas, and I couldn't listen to a word. And history and politics, I had to write papers every day, and I was so overwhelmed."
"Ah, is it so scary..."
After hearing what Shen Miao said, the girl didn’t seem to be looking forward to her high school life that much.
"It's so difficult to study, don't you feel very stressed?" the girl asked again.
"Yes, I cried a lot at that time, especially after I got my results after the final exams. Even if I didn't want to cry, my mom would beat me up and make me cry."
girl:……
“But sometimes I try another way.” Putting his arm around the girl’s shoulders, Shen Miao meaningfully used two fingers to pinch the quilt like chopsticks. “When sleeping, hold the quilt between your fingers. This way, you’ll feel more comfortable.”
In order to naturally bring up this topic, Shen Miao had personally joined the game.
She had thought it through: first she would use herself as an example, then she would talk about the harm to the body caused by doing this, and finally she would talk about the appropriate way to vent her emotions...
The whole process was relaxed and natural, and it was a natural process. It didn't seem abrupt, and it didn't easily stimulate her self-esteem. It was perfect.
Unfortunately, the topic didn't seem to be developing in the direction she expected.
"Pinch the quilt?"
The girl was a little confused, "Why do you need to clamp the quilt?"
“Because it’s very relaxing when you squeeze your legs together.” Shen Miao asked back, “Have you never squeezed your legs together before?”
The girl shook her head.
She understood what Shen Miao meant.
Seeing Shen Miao telling her about her stress relief method, the girl lowered her head and looked at her skirt, and she also tried to speak: “Although I have never clamped the quilt, but when I feel very uncomfortable in my heart, my body will also feel uncomfortable, and I will want to… well… rub…”
"But my dad told me that this is a bad thing, so he won't let me... um..."
Surprisingly, her father was quite open-minded and knew how to guide his daughter in a healthy direction.
“Well, your father is pretty good then.” Shen Miao replied.
The girl nodded and subconsciously closed her legs: "Yes, so my dad often helps me."
"Help you?"
"It just helps me relax and get rid of the bad stuff in my body," the girl explained.
Shen Miao: ???
She felt that there was something wrong with this sentence, so she asked her carefully: "Then how did your father help you?"
"She would just rub it for me with her hands, and then wipe off the dirt with a towel."
The girl spoke calmly about what her father had done to her, her watery eyes full of innocent ignorance. She had no idea that this was a dangerous thing, let alone what it meant.
Listening to the girl telling him about how her father “helped” her, Shen Miao felt her ears “buzzing”.
Shen Miao's lips slightly parted as she looked at the girl who was speechless for a long time. It was as if a mushroom bomb exploded in her brain, instantly blasting her consciousness into pieces.
"Does he do this to you often?"
The girl answered without hesitation, "It wasn't very often before, but in the past few months it's been about once every few days."
Smoothing out the wrinkles on her skirt bit by bit, the girl's words contained a hint of unspeakable shyness.
She seemed to know that this was a private matter that should not be told to outsiders, but the reason for her shame was not what her father did to her, but the reaction of her own body.
Shen Miao seemed to understand the reason for her kidney deficiency…
It seems that what she needs is not only psychological counseling, but also the police to catch the obscene man!
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"Yun? Have you finished your homework? It's time to go to bed."
At half past nine in the evening, when Kong Juan returned to the room from the living room, she looked up at the time on the wall clock and urged her in a gentle voice.
Kong Yun thought her mother was about to come in, so she quickly pulled out the doll she was holding, "I'll be done soon. I'll go to sleep after I finish writing."
Ever since entering junior high school, Kong Yun has felt a lot of academic pressure.
In primary school, we only needed to learn Chinese, mathematics and foreign languages, but after only growing one year older, we had to take three more subjects: history, politics and physics.
Junior high school not only has more courses to learn, but also has a higher difficulty level. Especially in mathematics, I often have to read the book several times before I can solve a problem, and sometimes I may even get it wrong...
When Kong Yun was in elementary school, she always ranked among the top students in the grade. Although she ranked 32nd in the first monthly exam after entering junior high school, it was a big step back for her. Her midterm exam score dropped to 49th in the grade, and she was almost out of the top students.
Kong Juan didn't have high expectations for her, thinking that she was still young and as long as she could maintain her level in the top ten in the class, it would be fine. But Kong Yun found it hard to accept that her grades had been going downhill. She often felt like something heavy was pressing on her heart and she couldn't breathe.
She was anxious, but there was nothing she could do, because learning was not something that could be rushed.
The more anxious she was, the less she could concentrate on her studies; the less she could concentrate on her studies, the further behind her grades became; the further behind her grades became, the more anxious she became… It was like a vicious cycle that went on and on.
Because she couldn't meet her own expectations, Kong Yun's temper became worse and worse. She always felt like she had a fire in her body that she couldn't vent, until that day...
When she was changing her pants, she accidentally tightened her belt. Suddenly, a tingling sensation like an electric current quickly flowed through her whole body.
At that moment, that strange physical reaction seemed to cut off a small piece of the depression in her heart.
So she tightened her trouser waist again and deliberately pulled it up.
Hiss...ah...
It was an indescribable feeling, one she had never experienced before.
It's strange, comfortable and addictive.
She seemed to have found a way to make herself happy: squeezing her legs together.
Whenever I encounter a math problem that I can’t solve, it seems that if I take a break for a while, I will feel much better and my originally vague thoughts will become clearer.
However, she has never mentioned this way of venting to anyone, because her mother told her that this is a very private part of a girl and it is a topic that cannot be mentioned to anyone.
Ding ding.
Just as Kong Yun put the doll on her lap, she heard a knock on the door.
She was so frightened that her legs shook and the doll fell to the ground.
"How much is left?" The man pushed open the door and asked her softly with concern.
Kong Yun didn't have time to pick up the doll on the ground, so she could only pretend to be working on the questions seriously, "Well, it's almost done."
The man walked forward and placed the cup of hot milk next to Kong Yun's hand, and said, "Well, remember to drink the milk before going to bed. It's good for your health."
"Uh-huh."
The man noticed the doll that had fallen to the ground.
As he bent over to pick up the doll, the brown bear became a little flat.
This is Kong Yun’s favorite doll. She holds it in her arms every night when she sleeps. How did it fall to the ground?
Adjusting the cotton inside the doll with his hands, the man seemed to smell a very... smell.
This is a smell that only women have, and it is a smell that only appears in certain situations.
The man didn't say anything and didn't leave. After putting the doll back on the bed, he sat down next to her, moved a little closer, and looked at the unfinished math paper in front of her.
“Is the math difficult?”
Kong Yun lowered her head and said "hmm".
The man continued, "If you have any questions you don't understand, you can ask your mother or me."
Kong Yun still didn't say anything.
Ask mom?
She was fine with addition and subtraction before the fourth grade, but when it came to learning multiplication, division and equations, Kong Juan's cultural level could not keep up.
Fortunately, elementary school knowledge is not very difficult and I can learn it by practicing harder, without her tutoring.
But the difficulty increased a lot after entering junior high school. Kong Yun could no longer figure it out on her own. But she was not good at communicating with others. She was worried that she would trouble others and that others would laugh at her stupidity, so she would rather figure it out on her own.
As for why I don’t find a man to mentor me…
The man is not her biological father.
Kong Yun's father died before she was born, so she took Kong Juan's surname from birth and lived with her.
The man married Kong Juan when she was in the second grade of elementary school, and he has always been very good to them.
Kong Yun called him uncle at first, but later gradually changed to calling him dad.
The man graduated from high school and was more than capable of tutoring her in elementary and junior high school knowledge. However, there was a blood relationship between them after all, so even though she called him dad, Kong Yun was too embarrassed to ask him for anything, so she didn't say anything.
The man saw the timidity in Kong Yun's heart, so he took the initiative to turn the paper in her hand and asked, "Which question do you think is more difficult?"
"This one." Kong Yun said in a low voice.
Junior high school math problems were very simple. The man knew how to solve them after just one glance. He then took out a pen from her pencil case and marked out several data on the problem.
"Look, AB is the diameter, and C is on the extension of BA... So can we draw an auxiliary line like this?"
"With the auxiliary line, we can record this point as F. Then is the distance from A to F the same as the distance from C to F?"
"So if we want to prove that this angle is twice that angle, can we use the formula..."
The man spoke slowly and more carefully than the teachers at school. Worried that Kong Yun might not understand, he wrote down every detail and even wrote the data on the pictures next to them.
Following his explanation, Kong Yun quickly understood the solution ideas for this type of questions.
When solving the next problem, the man pushed the paper back in front of Kong Yun, sat closer, and asked, "Come on, try to solve this problem first, according to the method I just taught you."
Kong Yun was concentrating on writing the questions and was completely unaware that the man's every breath would brush past her ears, and that his body would occasionally touch her elbow or back.
The man taught very well. After Kong Yun opened her mind according to his method, she finished the following questions very quickly.
After finishing all the questions, Kong Yun accidentally touched the man's chest when she straightened her back. Only then did she realize that they were too close, so close that she felt very uncomfortable.
"Dad, I need to go to bed." Closing the paper, Kong Yun subconsciously avoided the man's gaze.
The man stepped back a little and asked, "Xiao Yun, did you do anything bad?"
Kong Yun suddenly became nervous and didn't dare to speak.
The man picked up the doll, smoothed the fur on it with his hands, and continued, "My dear little Yun, I don't mean to blame you. I just want to remind you that this kind of behavior is very bad and will have serious consequences for your body."
Kong Yun was frightened by his serious tone.
She just rubbed it, could it really be that serious?
"I'm sorry...can you please not tell my mom?" Kong Yun said timidly, her eyes a little wet.
"Don't worry, no one will know."
Putting down the doll in his hand, the man reached out for her clothes and touched it tentatively through the thin cloth.
Hiss?!
The electric shock feeling became more obvious.
Kong Yun subconsciously stepped back and looked at him with horror.
Mom said that this is a very private place for girls and no one can touch it. He, he...!
"Aren't you feeling very uncomfortable? Daddy just wants to rub it for you to make you feel more comfortable." Instead of retreating, the man covered it with his whole hand and even lifted the cloth with his fingers.
Kong Yun's face suddenly turned red, spreading from her neck to behind her ears, and her heartbeat speed also gradually increased.
"My mom said, we can't do that here..."
"Your mother meant that you can't touch the inside, but I'm only rubbing the outside for you." The man explained with a smile, "You see, there are a lot of bacteria on your doll, and it's easy to get sick if you rub it. But my hands have been washed, so they're very clean. By massaging you like this, you can avoid getting sick."
As the man spoke, he intensified his hand movements.
Kong Yun really wanted to avoid him, but what the man said seemed to make sense, and this feeling... So she had to turn her head to the side, avoiding his meaningful gaze and his little hill.
It feels like riding a roller coaster, very dangerous, but the thrill is also very addictive.
Just like the man said, he didn't do anything more excessive. He just massaged her repeatedly outside. She didn't feel any discomfort, but instead spread her legs unconsciously.
After a few minutes, she peed on the man's hand.
The man did not blame her, but smiled and wiped his hands with paper. "How is it? Are you feeling better?"
Kong Yun blushed and nodded stiffly.
It was more than comfortable. During the process just now, she felt that all the pressure in her body disappeared, and her limbs were light...but she felt very tired and sleepy after it was over.
“Then don’t rub it anymore. Whenever you feel uncomfortable, tell daddy and he will give you a massage.” After wiping his hands clean, the man patted her shoulder.
Kong Yun asked worriedly, "Can I tell my mother about this?"
"What are you going to do if your mother doesn't allow you to do this again in the future?" the man asked.
Kong Juan did mention to her that girls should not always touch that part, especially during their menstrual period, and should also wear loose clothing on a normal basis.
If she knew, she would definitely object. But this feeling really made her...
Seeing that Kong Yun didn't say anything, the man continued to comfort her gently, "Be good, Daddy just feels sorry for you and doesn't want you to feel so bad. Let's keep this as a little secret between us from now on, okay?"
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