Chapter 154 If people are really so good at disguising, how can you see through a person's disguise?
Bai Nuan was shocked when she heard this.
This Liu Ming... he is really daring!
"Do you know what happened? Why did he do this suddenly?" Bai Nuan asked.
"I only saw that they broke out into a fierce quarrel. It should be Fang Ying who exposed her cards to him and proposed to break up, otherwise he would not have done this." Zhong Di guessed.
Bai Nuan thought so too.
She just wanted to say... Fang Ying is so naive.
If it was Bai Nuan, then after the ex-wives said those things, she would never go back to that house again, and she would definitely not meet Liu Ming alone.
If you have doubts about the words of the ex-wives, you can investigate it clearly before going back.
Because a person with violent tendencies is too dangerous, and this kind of danger can really pose a great threat to one's own safety.
It is estimated that the reason why Fang Ying went back was probably to ask Liu Ming in person whether he had done those things.
"Have you notified her family?" Bai Nuan asked Zhong Di.
"No, I told you as soon as I knew it. You asked me to do this, and even if there is something, you should tell the Fang family." Zhong Di had no intention of intervening.
As long as the Fang family was told about this, the Fang family would definitely owe him a favor.
But the reason why Zhong Di interfered with Fang Ying's affairs was because of Bai Nuan's commission. Bai Nuan spent money and gave gifts to treat herself, so she should receive this favor.
Bai Nuan was silent for a while after hearing this, thanked her, and called Fang Ying's mother Liu Li.
"What??? I'll call the police now." Liu Li was shocked at first, but soon calmed down, "Nuannuan, is Yingying safe now?"
"Yes, Liu Ming now probably just wants to force her to give up the breakup, or wants her to ask for money from her family, so Yingying's safety is not a problem at the moment." Bai Nuan said.
But... she might suffer a little.
For example, Liu Ming will beat her, not give her food or water, etc.
But Bai Nuan thinks that for Fang Ying... it is not necessarily a bad thing to suffer a little.
"Got it. Send me the address." Liu Li took a deep breath. "Nuannuan, I'm so sorry for this. When Yingying comes back, we will definitely come to thank you."
"You're welcome, Auntie. The most important thing is to ensure Yingying's safety. You all be careful."
After hanging up the phone, Bai Nuan sighed.
There are always people who think that love is one's own business and has nothing to do with anyone else. As long as she likes it, it
's fine. If the other party has no problem, it is indeed her own business, and the people around her can't benefit from it anyway.
But if she finds the wrong person, then others will have to suffer with her.
Friends will inevitably be treated as trash cans, and her family will have to worry about her all the time.
The Fang family handled this matter very quickly and went directly with the police and lawyers.
Less than an hour later, Bai Nuan received a call from Fang Ying.
"Nuannuan, thank you... I was wrong."
Fang Ying cried and gasped.
"It's good that you're okay. Take a hot bath and have a good rest. When you wake up, it will be a new day." Bai Nuan was relieved. "
Tonight I finally understood what you said to me before." Fang Ying blamed herself very much. "You advised me like that, but I didn't understand it at that time... Nuannuan, I'm so stupid."
After she was rescued, her parents didn't say a word against her. They just let her go back to her room and sleep, and talk about it tomorrow.
"Remember to call Nuannuan to let her know you're safe. She was the one who notified us about your matter." Her mother finally reminded her.
How could Fang Ying sleep? After she returned home, she was both relieved and regretful. She cried for a while, and then called Bai Nuan.
"It's enough to do stupid things this time. With this one time, you will learn from it. And there is still a chance to make up for the stupid things you did when you were young, so you don't have to blame yourself too much." Bai Nuan said calmly.
"Nuan Nuan, I really don't understand why he is such a person... He was so good to me before..."
Fang Ying said with a sob.
"When choosing a person, you can choose him because of his many advantages, such as his handsome appearance, his good family conditions, his high level of knowledge and broad ideas, his humorous way of speaking, and his strong working ability... Because these are real things, but don't choose him because he is good to you." Bai Nuan said.
Fang Ying was stunned. "Why? Those things you mentioned are all his own and have nothing to do with me. Only things that are good to me are mine..."
"A child saw a kitten and thought it was soft and cute. He insisted on buying it and would cry if he was not given it. His family paid for the cat and brought it back. The child liked it very much. He held it in his arms, touched it, and fed it. But within two days, the child found that the cat would urinate and defecate anywhere, and would cry at all times of the day and night. He and his family did not want to spend time disciplining the cat and just thought it was troublesome, so they threw it away after three days."
Fang Ying was a little dazed after hearing this.
"When the kitten followed the kid home, she thought she had found her place and felt that he was very good to her. But it was actually just love at first sight and a three-minute enthusiasm. And liking someone is just a feeling, it can be faked." Bai Nuan said.
"Then... what is the most important thing, and how can we tell?" Fang Ying asked stupidly, "Nuan Nuan, in the matter of Liu Ming, if you were me, how would you judge whether he is a trustworthy person?"
"We should choose someone who is good in himself, not someone who is only good to you."
Bai Nuan heard that there was no obsession with Liu Ming in her words, but only confusion about her own wrongdoing.
Fang Ying probably really didn't understand: she obviously saw the excellent side of Liu Ming and chose him, but why can even these things be fake?
If people are really so good at pretending, how can you see through a person's pretending?
So Bai Nuan calmly advised her:
"To see whether a person is a good person or not, you have to look at his circle. For example, his attitude towards his parents, his interactions with friends, and his relationships with colleagues. In addition, there is his attitude towards irrelevant people, such as whether he yells at the waiter during a meal or is polite to him, and whether he looks down on some low-level workers in society and feels superior to them. Another important point is...his views on social current affairs."
"What are your views on current affairs?" Fang Ying asked quickly.
"For example, there are news stories about a man who filed a lawsuit to get his wife back for her betrothal gift after divorce, an old man who had five children but none of them took care of him in his old age, a man who had an affair and his wife stabbed him to death, etc. You should pretend to mention it casually when chatting and observe his first reaction after hearing it. If you tell your boyfriend: I saw a news story about a man who abused his wife for 16 years and his wife filed for divorce several times but to no avail, and the first thing he says after hearing it is: If she did nothing wrong, why did her husband beat her? Do you think such a person is a normal person?"