She knew that Lin Xiujuan was doing this for her own good, so no matter what he said, Shen Youran was always smiling and happy.
Because this is the real feeling of mother's love.
"Leisurely."
Shen Youran had just walked out when her two sisters-in-law came in, carrying baskets full of eggs.
In addition to eggs, they also prepared clothes for the child and gave them to Shen Youran after entering the house.
The two men rubbed their bodies a little embarrassedly. "We made this dress ourselves, but the fabric we bought is good, pure cotton and warm. Let Captain Lu wash it and hang it in the sun. After it's dry, you can give it to the child. There will be no problem."
The reason these military wives came here was because Shen Youran had taught them some moves before, and they benefited from it.
That's why I came to see Shen Youran and give her a gift.
"Sister-in-law has really skillful hands. I can't make clothes like this. The child should wear more of this kind of clothes!" Shen Youran took their things with a smile and put them into the house.
Then he wrote down their names and the gifts they gave him in the small notebook he carried with him.
These are favors that must be repaid in the future.
Shen Youran invited her two sisters-in-law to sit in the yard.
After a while, some more military wives came together. They had heard that there was a dinner party today, so they came to give gifts. They had no plan to eat here and would leave after giving the gifts.
"Since my sisters-in-law are here, we must eat. I have prepared enough for today. Let's eat well!"
Shen Youran could see that they came to congratulate her sincerely, so of course she had to keep them for dinner.
As more and more people came, Lin Xiujuan and Wu Yun made new plans and set up several tables in the yard and in the backyard in the afternoon.
Mo Xiaoyun and Wang Xiuping were among them.
Wang Xiuping was pushing two strollers. The children were very well behaved and were placed in the house with the newborn girl from Shen Youran's family.
Wang Xiuping sat among the crowd while eating, and people would occasionally talk about her giving birth to twins. She would smile and say that she was blessed.
"Sister Youran," Wang Xiuping had been a little irritable recently, and found an opportunity to talk to Shen Youran in the house, "Tell me, how come this person became such a mess after having a child?"
Shen Youran didn't quite understand what Wang Xiuping meant.
"I always get angry at home, and I always find my brother Jun particularly annoying!"
"Why am I like this? Sometimes I get annoyed when I see my two kids. When they start crying, I feel like I'm going crazy."
As Wang Xiuping spoke, she lowered her head, pinched her temples with both hands, and then grabbed her hair. She was really too upset.
Shen Youran knew what was going on as soon as she heard it. After all, she had lived in that developed world for so long.
This is probably what everyone calls postpartum depression.
"Do you feel any changes in your body? If you feel any discomfort, you can tell me."
Wang Xiuping sighed heavily after hearing what Shen Youran said, "I just feel like I can't sleep at all. I feel very irritated. I can't describe how I feel, but I just feel uncomfortable."
Shen Youran understood after listening to it.
"Have you ever thought about continuing to work?"
The fundamental reason for postpartum depression is insufficient care, coupled with the huge difference between previous life and current life.
That's why it happens.
"I thought about going to work, but I couldn't bear to leave my children."
"My mother-in-law always says she'll come over to help me take care of the child, but if she does, I have a different idea. I'm afraid we'll quarrel all day long, and my brother Jun will be in the middle!"
After listening to Wang Xiuping's description, Shen Youran knew that this was a problem that most people would encounter.
There is somewhat of a generation gap between the two generations, and there is no way to reach a consensus.
"What do you think about hiring someone to help you take care of the kids?"
"Hire someone to help take care of the kids, and then you can come along and take people to the store. You've made so much money, wouldn't it be good to buy yourself a car?"
Shen Youran suddenly spoke, and Wang Xiuping was stunned for a few seconds after hearing her ideas.
"I know it will be like this when raising a child, but as long as you get through it, there will be light at the end of the tunnel."
"You can sort yourself out now. If you don't want to take care of the child in the early stage, then ask two people to help. Anyway, you have plenty of money. Isn't the purpose of making money to make yourself more relaxed?"
"Have two people come to help take care of the kids, and you can spend the rest of the time studying, driving, makeup, or anything else you want to learn, and try to open a store further away in the future."
"You have your own business. Don't get bogged down in these little things. Even if you're worried, you'll have to let go of your child one day. Or you can ask someone to go with you and take care of the child in the store."
"Or you can find two reliable people to take care of it at home."
After Shen Youran finished speaking, Wang Xiuping lowered her head and thought for a while.
"I'm going to go out and talk to my sisters-in-law. You think about it here." After that, she walked out of the room, leaving Wang Xiuping with space to think.
This girl is actually quite smart. If you give her a few pointers, she should be able to figure it out quickly.
If you figure it out, everything will be over.
They said a few words, walked around the crowd, and thanked everyone for coming to eat there.
The reason why Shen Youran and the others decided to treat everyone to a dinner at this time was that they didn't want to hold a full moon banquet.
Because once the full moon comes, Shen Youran plans to return to the army.
She also plans to hire a military wife to take care of the children.
And there is already a candidate.
Shen Youran turned around and was about to call Mo Xiaoyun to go to the room to talk to Wang Xiuping, but when she turned around, she met Wang Xiuping's husband.
"Sister Youran."
Xu Weiguo lowered his head and shouted, "I want to talk to you."
Shen Youran nodded and took him into the house.
Xu Weiguo sighed and told Wang Xiuping about her recent situation. "Sister Youran, I am also very worried about Xiuping's condition. Can you think of a way to make her feel better?"
"Sometimes, if I say something harsh, she'll burst into tears, and I feel really bad for her."
"I try not to say harsh words, but she doesn't like everything about me. If this continues, will there be something wrong with her?"
Xu Weiguo was scratching his head as he spoke. He was also troubled by this matter and hoped that Shen Youran could come up with a better idea.
He not only hoped that Wang Xiuping's mood would improve, but also hoped that the whole family could move forward.
There's no point in arguing like this every day.
"I've already told Shuhei the solution that needs to be addressed. As for you, just be more considerate of his emotions. Sometimes it's more important to put her first. As for the child, as long as it doesn't involve some major problems, you can put it aside for now."