Xiaohua followed her heart and refused Heyu's offer to join her. Heyu was still persistent and came to find Xiaohua several more times, which made Xiaohua hide whenever she saw her.
After Xiaohua avoided her several times, He Yu had no choice but to give up for the time being.
Time flies like an arrow, and He Yan's vacation will end in a week, which means Xiao Hua will be even busier and more tired.
Not only did she have to keep an eye on the school's renovations, but she also had to take care of her own studies, work part-time jobs from time to time, and spend time with Kang'an when she got home.
As if things weren't going to go wrong, the busier she was, the more chaotic things became. Aunt Zhang, who had been helping her take care of Kang'an, quit her job because her mother-in-law had fallen seriously ill and she had to go back to take care of her.
Xiaohua couldn't find a suitable nanny for the time being, so she thought of having her parents come over and have her maternal grandparents take care of her. She could go to school while she was away working, so what was there to worry about?
She asked her parents to take care of Kang An. What would her parents think? Kang An has a grandmother at home who is idle, and the He family has hired a nanny. Why would her maternal grandparents come to help their daughter take care of the child?
Xiao Hua thought about it and decided to give up. Otherwise, if her parents came and saw that she hadn't moved into the He family home with her child, they would definitely suspect the problems in her relationship with He Yan.
It's better to avoid trouble. It's best not to create too much trouble for yourself. Otherwise, when her mother comes, her constant nagging will drive her crazy.
It would be best to hurry up and find a suitable nanny. He Yan is also helping to look, but they haven't found a suitable one after several days.
He said to Xiaohua, "I have an Aunt Chen in my family. She is over 60 years old now. Although she is quite old, she is very efficient and meticulous in her work. She took care of my sister and me when we were little."
She never married and had no children. Now that she's old, she lives with me and doesn't have much to do. We can't find a suitable caregiver anytime soon.
How about we have Aunt Chen come and lend a hand, and then we can send Aunt Chen back once we find a suitable helper? What do you think?
Xiao Hua didn't want to use it, but she really couldn't find a suitable person. At least the elderly in He Yan's family were safe, and she didn't have to worry about her abducting children or anything like that.
Will your mother agree?
Xiao Hua gets a headache just thinking about Su Qin's way of doing things!
“My aunt doesn’t listen to my mom, she only listens to my dad. She does whatever my dad tells her to do.”
Commander He is undoubtedly on Xiao Hua's side.
With that, Auntie's matter was resolved. Xiaohua felt a little uncomfortable, as if she owed He Yan another favor.
But then she thought about it and realized that she didn't really owe He Yan a favor. The child wasn't just hers; He Yan also had a share in it.
Solving some of the child's problems is what he should do, so why would she feel indebted to him? Thinking this way, Xiaohua felt extremely comfortable.
Xiaohua thought that as long as she didn't cause trouble for her family, everything would be fine. However, she didn't expect that even though she didn't want to cause trouble for her family, her brothers and sisters-in-law still wanted to cause her some trouble.
Sure enough, her sister-in-law Zhu Mei said anxiously on the phone: "Hua'er, your eldest niece refuses to finish junior high school. She doesn't want to study and wants to go out to work and earn money, but our family is outside, and apart from you, we don't have any other relatives to rely on."
"See if you can arrange a job for your eldest niece at sea. In a few years, find her a city man so she can stay in the city and enjoy a comfortable life like you."
After hearing this, Xiaohua just wanted to complain, "Is this a shelter? My eldest niece is here, so should my second brother's second niece come over too?"
And will all her nephews come to live with her in the future?
She was not opposed to her family coming to live with her in the future.
Overall, her brothers, sisters-in-law, and even her parents have treated her very well. They have never exploited or oppressed her, and she has never become a blood bag for her family to support her brothers.
But the premise is that she has already achieved success. Right now, she is struggling to make ends meet with Kang An. How could she possibly have the extra energy and financial resources to take care of her nephews and nieces from her maternal family?
“Sister-in-law, how old is your niece? Why is she out working? Let her study hard. The only way for a girl to leave the countryside is through education, not through marriage.”
Out of her own selfish motives, she simply didn't have the extra energy to take care of her eldest niece from her maternal family.
Another point is that she believes girls should focus on their studies and not think about dropping out of school early to work, then meeting a good man, getting married, and living a life of being a good wife and mother.
Most ordinary women's lives as wives and mothers are far from happy; they are filled with endless heartache and exhaustion.
Therefore, she did not want her niece to skip school and come to work for her.
"Isn't it because she doesn't want to go to school? If she wanted to go, your older brother and I would sell everything we own to make sure she could get into this school."
Besides, it's useless for girls to study. Look at you, you couldn't even read a single word, but you still married He Yan and became a military officer's wife. At least your niece is better than you; she even finished junior high school."
Zhu Mei's words made Xiao Hua laugh. Did she really think that girls could marry outstanding men even if they didn't study and were completely ignorant?
Little did they know that outstanding men seek out equally outstanding women, not just incompetent fools.
So what if she married He Yan? Apart from Commander He, everyone in the He family looked down on her and eventually kicked her and her daughter out.
She really wanted to tell her family that everything she had now was earned with her own hard work, not given to her by He Yan, and that she hadn't enjoyed the benefits of being a military officer's wife.
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