I’m single now, but at least my menstruation is normal and I’m not pregnant. My salary is enough for me and my family loves me. Why should I go to my husband’s house and work as a free long-term worker?
Everyone shook their heads and gave up the idea of getting married. They still wanted to devote their lives to the country. Men were not part of their plans.
Song Jingtian also said, "If you meet the right person, get married first. If you haven't met the right person, just work hard on your career first.
Do what you want to do at your age, and don't let your age grow too high, or you'll end up with someone who's been married for a while and has kids, which will cause more conflicts."
Although this may not sound good, it is very realistic. It is indeed difficult for a woman to find a partner when she gets older.
Everyone said they understood and would consider this.
After the training, Song Jingtian went back and heard Qin Huan say, "Now you know how popular Xiao Li is, you should be nicer to him and don't exploit him too much.
If someone is a bit good, he would like to stuff it into your mouth. Look at you now, how bright your clothes are! Aren’t they made by him for you? This kid has a good heart.
By the way, let me ask you something quietly. How are things going between your brother and Zhixia? He's hiding from me and your dad, and he's not happy about it.
Who am I doing this for? I just want to get him married so that your father and I can live a peaceful life. How come you don't understand our efforts?"
As Qin Huan spoke, he shook his head and sighed, looking very worried!
Song Jingtian sat aside with an innocent look on her face: "You're asking me about my brother, why are you asking me? How would I know about his affairs?
However, he seems to be in a good mood recently, so there should be some progress, and there will probably be good news soon. Don't worry, this matter cannot be rushed.
You have to let him pick one he likes, so that he won’t have a bad life in the future and blame you and my dad for pushing him.”
Qin Huan clapped his hands and said earnestly, "You think I want to control him? I'm just afraid that he will be a bachelor for the rest of his life. Your brother is a man with no sense of purpose.
Shouldn't we consider him? This time it's all thanks to your sister-in-law. Hey, didn't her family say they were going to buy New Year's goods?
I'll call your grandmother later and ask her to mail some local specialties from Beijing, and I'll send some over when the time comes."
She walked into the house without looking back: "Mom, you can arrange it. I haven't gotten married yet, so these things won't fall on me. I'm going to bed first. I'm very sleepy."
Qin Huan didn't disturb her. As a soldier, she was under great mental stress and it was rare for her to have a good rest at home. She also felt bad for her own children.
The candies to the Hu family were sent by Lu Yan. Hu Xueer was writing lesson plans at home. After the New Year, school will start again. Shouldn't she make preparations early?
Seeing Lu Yan coming, she smiled sweetly, "Brother Yan, how come you have time to come here? Come in quickly, it's very cold outside."
After Lu Yan entered the house, he handed over the basket in his hand. Aunt Hu took a look and said in surprise, "Oh, you specially sent candy here. You are so thoughtful. Is it for us or for Xue'er to eat?"
The more Aunt Hu looked at her son-in-law, the more satisfied she became. He was a close family member and had a lot of free talk, so she liked to make fun of the younger generation.
Lu Yan said generously: "Mom, this is made by my brother and sister-in-law. Let me send it to you to try."
When Aunt Hu heard that it was Jiang Yan who did it, her expression became even happier. "Xiao Yan did it. I have to share in her good fortune. How is she doing recently? I haven't seen her out for several days."
Lu Yan nodded: "She has regular prenatal checkups every month, the baby is healthy, her husband is with her, and she will probably give birth in February or March."
Aunt Hu grinned, "She's blessed with three babies this time, maybe two boys and one girl! It'll be a good combination, you two should hurry up and get married next year."
You are not a child anymore. Don’t just focus on your career. There is never-ending work. While I can still move, I will give birth to a baby and help take care of it for a few years.
If time goes by, the baby will grow up, right? The sooner you have the baby, the sooner you can enjoy it."
When Hu Xueer heard what her mother said, her face turned red and she said shyly, "Mom, please stop talking. Brother Yan and I will make a plan. Didn't you say you would make two of your specialties for him? Go now!"
Seeing that she felt embarrassed, Aunt Hu didn't continue to embarrass her and turned to go to the kitchen.
Hu Xueer poured him a cup of tea, coughed, and said seriously: "Don't listen to my mother's nonsense, there is no rush to get pregnant."
The key point is that you can get pregnant just by waiting for three to five months, right? The more you push, the more anxious you become, and the more anxious you become, the less likely you are to get pregnant. It's a vicious cycle.
Her mother was also influenced by those old women. Didn't they say they wouldn't urge her to give birth? If they urged her again, she would lose her temper.
Lu Yan laughed quietly, "I'll listen to you. We'll give birth whenever you say so, as soon as possible."
Hu Xueer felt sweet inside, and she asked tentatively: "What if I don't want to have a baby?"
Nowadays, if a woman does not have children, she is breaking the law of heaven. After all, the purpose of marriage is to continue the family line.
Lu Yan said as a matter of course: "The belly is yours, you have the right to control it, I am your man, I listen to you."
Hearing this, Hu Xuezhen felt that she had found a good man. Aunt Hu also heard this and sighed in her heart that the Lu family was really good at educating boys and respected women very much!
If other gentlemen were to say this, they would never be able to say it. After all, in their opinion, women are just tools for reproduction. If they can't give birth to babies, they are just hens that don't lay eggs and have no value.
Fortunately, she acted quickly, otherwise who knows who would have gotten the benefit from Lu Yan!
Aunt Hu was feeling smug in her heart. Hu Xiaoyi came in and saw that her mouth was grinning from ear to ear. He said with a straight face, "What! Did you pick up money? Why are you grinning like that? Is the food ready?
Xiaoyan is here, but you don't even offer a treat. It's really rude of you. You're not afraid of being laughed at if it gets out. You even specially send candy to you guys."
Even though Hu Xiaoyi had a cold face, he was more satisfied with Lu Yan than anyone else. He thought that this young man was well-behaved, honest, good to his daughter, and filial to his parents. He liked everything about him!
Aunt Hu glared at him and said, "Can't you see I'm making arrangements? You're blind! Your son-in-law is here, and you're just scratching your head. Why don't you go out and have a drink with him?"
This hit the nail on the head. Hu Xiaoyi took out the medicinal wine he had made and went to find Lu Yan.
Jiang Yan thought about the supplies in the space, and she discussed with Miao Xiuying: "Mom, I have to go to the Xinhua Bookstore in the provincial capital before the New Year to hand over the New Year's goods to the boss. You and Dad don't have to worry about the New Year's goods, I will arrange it."
Lu Li raised his hand and said quickly: "Sister-in-law, do you want me to drive you there? And I can help you carry your things."
Lu Xiao also rushed to say: "Yanyan, there's me too!"
Seeing the two of them looking anxiously, Jiang Yan compromised: "Okay, let Xiao Li take us there, and you two will wait for me in the car, and I will find someone I know to get the goods."
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