Many women haven't figured it out yet and think that if they save money on men, they will treat them better.
Bah, that doesn't make sense. Men will only think you are cheap. It is always true that where a man's money is, his heart is also.
Shen Chuanzong followed up and said, "Just take it. I bought it, so I can't take it back. If my mother sees it, she will blame me!"
Okay, the two said so, and Xia Dongchun took it.
She was thinking about the food that her family had mailed, and she would send some to the Shen family in a couple of days, so that she wouldn't owe him anything.
She is the kind of person who is most afraid of owing favors to others.
Jiang Yan was a thief who was good at controlling the situation. Seeing that the two of them had no topic to talk about, she asked Shen Chuanzhong, "Chuanzong, this person was introduced to you. What does your mother say? Can you make the decision? Don't tell me that your parents don't agree when we're halfway through the conversation. Otherwise, I'll twist your head off and kick it like a ball!"
Shen Chuanzong quickly stated his position, "I can make the decision about my own affairs. My parents followed me. People are different, and educated youth cannot be generalized."
Xia Dongchun asked a crucial question, "If we really get together, and I still want to study after marriage, will you support me?"
She would never agree to give up studying and stay at home to take care of her husband and children.
What can you achieve if you stay in this countryside all your life? Even salted fish have to rush forward.
Shen Chuanzong said as a matter of course, "I'm so happy that you want to study. I'm not good at studying. My parents are old and worried. If there is someone in our family who studies, they will definitely come first."
Shen Chuanzong was a man who could afford to take the gamble. He didn't think that Xia Dongchun would abandon him after returning to the city.
Xia Dongchun was satisfied then. Good, he had some enlightenment.
Mainly because she usually listened to those old ladies speaking, her eyes went dark again and again. This was not getting married, this was going to the guillotine!
The Shen family is not as bad as she thought.
Jiang Yan said in a relaxed tone: "You have to take the exam. If you really get into college, then the Shen family will be honored. Mother Shen will have to support you. When the time comes, she will kick her son out and live with you. We will exchange hearts for hearts."
Being able to raise a person like Shen Chuanzong with a positive outlook on life, Shen's mother couldn't be that crooked. She had asked Zhang Yulan about all this.
Xia Dongchun blushed and said shyly, "I haven't even started yet, and you think I can pass the exam. Besides, the college entrance examination has been closed for so many years, and I don't know when it will be restored. I have to take the exam."
She was unwilling to not take the exam. She felt that all those years of studying had been wasted and she might as well be feeding pigs.
Shen Chuanzong peeled peanuts for her and said slowly: "Take the exam. It's inconvenient to study here, so we can rent a house in the county town.
Just like my sister-in-law said, if you pass the exam, we will also benefit from your help. When the time comes, we will have to beat drums and gongs and set off more firecrackers."
From Shen Chuanzong's few words, it can be seen that he is also a person with his own ideas at home, which avoids a lot of trouble.
Lu Li continued to sell him, "Comrade Xia, even if you don't believe him, don't you believe me? If there are really those crappy and rotten problems, we won't introduce them to you. Isn't that cheating you?
My brother, no doubt about it, is a man who loves his wife and is a henpecked man. If you marry him, you will be the one making the decisions at home."
Xia Dongchun was not sure: "With the mother-in-law around, how can the daughter-in-law make the decision? If this gets out, people will say he is unfilial. If he really breaks up with his mother because of me, they will say I instigated him!"
This is where most of the conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law come from. The mother-in-law guards against her daughter-in-law like a thief, and she will be unhappy if her son cannot get married.
It's normal for girls to have concerns about these things.
Shen Changzong thought for a while, and then said: “This mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not in harmony, most men are immoral, your position is my position, and we have to live this life together.
As for my mother, we should not give her less filial piety. If we really listen to her in everything, our home will be a mess.
Besides, the older generation’s ideas are different from ours, so let’s follow them.”
This was a great sincerity, which made Xia Dongchun's heart move.
She didn't hesitate and said readily: "Okay, let's try to contact him, it may not work."
Even after marriage, there are divorces, let alone when you are in a relationship, there is the possibility of breaking up at any time.
Shen Chuanzong smiled from ear to ear as if he had found a treasure, “Okay, I won’t give you a chance.”
Lu Li gave him a look, asking him to learn from him. Shen Chuanzong said he understood, and this meal was considered to be a great success.
When Shen Chuanzong came, many people saw him. His mother was carrying manure, and some people asked her with a gloating look.
"Sister-in-law, you are so careless that you let your son marry someone from another place. When he returns to the city, he won't even look at you straight in the eye. Don't think that men and children can tie them down. They are just a bunch of heartless ungrateful people.
Wouldn't it be better to find a girl from the village who is easy to give birth to? The educated youth are spoiled and hard to please. If she really marries into your family, it will definitely cause unrest in your family."
"Shufen, Chuanzong is not a child anymore, are you just letting him do whatever he wants? People's hearts are hidden in their stomachs, aren't you afraid that Chuanzong's brain will be dug out and eaten by others?"
Can Mother Shen not know what these people are thinking? They just can't stand her being good.
"Oh, what's wrong with marrying a city girl? The ugly one in your family is not even favored by the educated youth. My daughter-in-law is tall and straight, and she is also caring.
If the two of them really want to be together, their lives will definitely be better. Isn't it said that your son is seeking a divorce? Why don't you intervene?
It is so hard to find a wife these days. Even if he cheats on you, just bear with it. It's not a frequent occurrence. If it happens once or twice, it can be forgiven.
You have such a narrow mind, isn't it? We are both women, how can you not understand her difficulties?"
“And you!”
She turned her gaze to the other one, "Your daughter hasn't even gotten married yet, and her belly is big, but you're not afraid to get off. Your ancestors are so angry about you. Why? Didn't you teach her well as a mother? You've brought shame to your ancestors."
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