Chapter 154: Strong Medicine

Her son's place in further studies is Liang Chunhua's life.

No matter how arrogant she was, she would not dare to act like a spoiled brat in front of her son's leader.

The little hoof's lover and his brother were sitting in the back.

Liang Chunhua is now like a grasshopper roasted on a fire, wanting to jump but unable to.

He didn't even dare to glare.

She held back her anger and tried to put on an ugly smile: "Doctor Jiang, please say it again. I am an old woman with poor hearing and didn't hear you just now."

Seeing her look of being angry but not daring to speak, Zhang Qiu sat down with his head down, trying not to laugh.

Jiang Nianzhi is deliberately making an example.

She didn't want to listen, but she insisted on instilling it in her.

"Oh, so your hearing is not good. Then please sit in the front."

Liang Chunhua: “…”

"Mom, hurry over there, the leader is watching from behind." Zhang Qiu urged her.

Liang Chunhua held back her anger again and moved her stool to the front.

Jiang Nianzi then repeated her question: "What I just asked was how a woman's baby came into being, old lady, please tell me."

Not only did she have to ask questions, but she also had to stand up to answer them, which made Liang Chunhua feel inferior.

She cursed Jiang Nianzi countless times in her heart, always making trouble but appearing to be listening attentively.

She moved her lips a few times, suppressed the anger in her heart and said, "The child in the woman's belly, isn't it after having sex with a man, ahem, that she got it?"

“That’s absolutely true.”

Jiang Nianzi nodded at her: "Sit down."

She drew two circles on the blackboard, very casually.

Pointing to one of the circles, Jiang Nianzi said: "Everyone knows that after a man and a woman have sex, there is a high probability that they will have a child. What happened during this period? How did they get a child?"

Yeah, what happened?

Many sisters-in-law who had never been educated at all blushed and felt ashamed. Isn't it just that after doing that, the child was born?

What else could happen?

Seeing everyone's puzzled expressions, Jiang Nianzi smiled and continued, "I compare this circle to the egg discharged from the woman's body, and the other one is the man's sperm. The process of child formation is the process of sexual intercourse between a man and a woman. The man provides the sperm and the woman provides the egg. The sperm and the egg combine to form a fertilized egg. This fertilized egg slowly runs into the mother's uterus, and then develops and becomes an embryo, which is our little baby..."

"Everyone knows that when babies are born, some look like their mothers and some look like their fathers. Why is this? The answer lies in the topic I just mentioned, because the sperm provided by the father and the egg provided by the mother both carry their respective genes..."

Jiang Nianzi spoke slowly. Unlike everyone else's blushing faces, her expression was natural and her tone was calm.

It even gave people the feeling that what she was talking about was just a very ordinary question, not such an embarrassing one.

Her generosity and elegance even made her good sister-in-law feel that she was too shy.

Shen Cheng watched from behind and was gradually attracted to her.

She always seems to have a kind of magic, a magic that makes people want to get close to her.

Even Jiang Pengyu, who felt embarrassed at first, was gradually infected by her natural attitude.

Jiang Nianzi talked a lot. There were many things that the sisters-in-law didn't understand, but they also absorbed some knowledge points.

Finally, Jiang Nianzi concluded: "After saying so much, let's give the most vulgar example. I believe everyone understands this example. That is, before having sex with a man, a woman will never get pregnant."

"So if you want to have a baby, you can't have a baby without healthy sperm from the man or healthy eggs from the woman. Both are indispensable. Some people also say that some men and women are married and have sex, but still don't have children. Everyone has seen and heard of this phenomenon. What is the reason? Are there any sisters-in-law who can answer this question?"

The loud-voiced sister-in-law raised her hand and stood up again.

"I know, I know. Doctor Jiang just said that children are formed when a man's egg and a woman's sperm combine. If you can't have a child, is it because the man's egg or the woman's sperm is not good?"

Jiang Nianzi's mind almost corrected itself out of habit.

I was just about to compliment this sister-in-law, but when I looked at her happy smile, I suddenly realized something was wrong. It seemed right, but also not quite right?

The sister-in-law saw Jiang Nianzi staring at her blankly and touched her head uncomfortably.

"Hey, Doctor Jiang, I'm just an old rough man, maybe I said something wrong."

Jiang Nianzi came back to her senses and said with a smile, "Half right."

"Which half?"

My sister-in-law was full of curiosity. She thought she had listened very carefully and there should be nothing wrong.

Jiang Nianzi said: "It's right in theory, but it's the other way around. Men have sperm, not eggs."

"Huh? Is that so?" The sister-in-law laughed when she heard that.

Jiang Nianzi asked her to sit down, and then said to everyone: "There are only two reasons for not being able to have children. The first is that the man's sperm cannot successfully combine with the woman's egg."

"Secondly, even if the pregnancy is successful, miscarriage may occur due to poor embryo quality. There are many complex pathological reasons involved, so I won't go into detail."

"I say this to make everyone understand that having children is not something a woman can decide on her own."

"No matter which of the two parties has problems, it is impossible to give birth to a healthy child."

"So when we encounter a problem, we need to learn how to prescribe the right medicine. Of course, it is our job as doctors to prescribe the right medicine. What everyone needs to do is not to blindly think that if a woman cannot have children, it must be her problem."

"If the problem is with the man and the woman is fine, even if you take the woman to the best hospital and see the best doctor, it won't help, right?"

After hearing this, most of the sisters-in-law understood. Isn’t this the home of Captain Chang?

The affairs of Chang Ming's family were no secret in the family compound.

The couple has been married for six years and still has no children.

Old lady Liang Chunhua takes her daughter-in-law to the hospital every day.

I tried all kinds of folk remedies and traditional Chinese medicine, and I don’t know how many medicines I took.

Anyway, ever since these two mother-in-law and daughter-in-law came here, there has always been the smell of medicine in their house.

Moreover, Liang Chunhua told everyone that her son was good in every way except that he had a bad fate because he married a wife who could not have children and he was afraid to divorce because of his status.

Of course, in addition to Liang Chunhua, some old ladies and middle-aged women also think that infertility is a woman's problem.

After listening to what Jiang Nianzi said today, many people with open minds and high acceptance quickly understood this truth.

Many people don't understand what sperm and egg are.

But it should not prevent them from understanding from the most vulgar explanation that the inability to have children is not a problem of women alone.

Yes, if a man does not have sex with a woman, the woman will not have children.

Then how come the inability to have children has nothing to do with men?

So one by one, they looked at Liang Chunhua with slanted eyes.

The intentional or unintentional glances made Liang Chunhua blush.

What are you looking at? All of you are listening to this little bitch's nonsense.

She said it was a man’s problem, so does that mean it is a man’s problem?

Anyway, she didn't think there was anything wrong with her son. He was so strong and healthy, and it was not like he couldn't have sex. So how could it be her son's problem?

She had eavesdropped on her son and daughter-in-law having sex several times, and she could tell from the noise that her daughter-in-law couldn't stand it.

This is enough to prove that there is nothing wrong with her son.

Liang Chunhua moved her lips several times, wanting to refute, but she didn't dare to say anything because there were leaders behind her who were one level higher than her son.

In fact, there are still many people who cannot accept that being unable to have children is a man’s problem.

Jiang Nianzi looked at the old lady's stubborn expression and shook her head helplessly.

I believe that many of the elderly here also think the same way.

It seems that gradual progress and popularization of knowledge are only effective for women who are highly receptive.

For this kind of antique, drastic measures must be taken.

So Jiang Nianzi coughed and said seriously: "I have said so much, many people can't understand, so let me tell you one thing, a couple has not been pregnant for many years after marriage, so, what is the purpose of seeing a doctor?"

Zhou Dongqing's sister-in-law raised her hand and said, "Give birth to the baby."

"Yes, that's right."

Jiang Nianzi glanced at Liang Chunhua and said in a cold tone: "Then I will tell those comrades who cannot understand and think that the inability to have children must be a woman's problem. That is - if the problem is with men, you will always think that inability to have children is a woman's problem and will not treat men. Then, the children and grandchildren you want will never have in your lifetime."

"It is said that raising children is a way to provide for one's old age. This is what everyone is thinking. If the core of the problem is not resolved, then you will end up alone in old age and will not be able to continue the incense and inheritance that you talk about."

In order to change the thinking of these old-fashioned people, Jiang Nianzi is determined to do it.

Get to the heart of the matter.

People of this generation care most about passing on their family line and raising children to take care of them in their old age.

Don’t you believe that the inability to have children is a man’s fault?

Yes, but then you can only wait to live your whole life without having children.

These words were spoken in a very stern tone, and the women and the elderly, who had originally been reluctant to listen, were completely frightened when they heard them.

What should I do if I really can’t have children in my lifetime?

Liang Chunhua's wife has been seeing doctors for many years, but the child's problem has not been solved.

Maybe it is Captain Chang who is really ill.

These words completely awakened the stubborn thinking of those old-fashioned people.

What is more important than who is responsible is whether or not you can have a child.

As long as the baby can be born, does it matter who has the cause? If you are sick, you can just go to the hospital.

Not to mention others, even Liang Chunhua felt like she had been hit hard.

She opened her mouth, her expression blank.

Yes, the most crucial issue is that the Chang family’s incense will not be cut off, right?

If there is really something wrong with your son, then you should get treatment right away, otherwise you won’t be able to have children when you are older.

The old lady suddenly became worried.

Jiang Nianzi saw her expression change and many women who had been perfunctory at first also looked serious, and she felt relieved.

This trick still works.

Gentle educational methods are only suitable for women who are easily receptive to new things and new ideas.

For these antiques, drastic measures must be taken.

Today’s results seem good.

After Jiang Nianzi got angry, she made a final summary: "So if there is a problem, we must solve it accordingly and not act blindly."

"Also, let me tell you something: gynecological diseases not only seriously affect pregnancy, but also affect women's physical health."

"The most common cause of gynecological diseases is hygiene problems, so everyone must wash frequently. Not only you need to wash frequently, but your men must also pay attention to maintaining personal hygiene, especially before having sex. Do you understand?"

It could be that Jiang Nianzi talked too much, or it could be that her attitude was too normal.

So everyone went from being shy at first to gradually becoming serious.

Jiang Pengyu looked at his sister who was explaining seriously and suddenly felt that his sister was even more capable than he had imagined.

He began to be proud again.

Looking back again, he found that Shao Yang and Shen Cheng were looking at Jiang Nianzi with admiration. Jiang Pengyu's proud heart quickly swelled to a hundred pounds.

Xu Cancan also looked at Jiang Nianzi with sparkling eyes.

Oh, oh, oh, you are worthy of being the director, your aura is different.

Doctor Jiang looks serious and dignified.

She likes it so much and wants to be a shining person like Dr. Jiang.

"Okay, that's all for today, everyone go back and think about it carefully."

You can't talk too much in one day. If you talk too much, people won't be able to digest it.

Just as Jiang Nianzhi was about to go back, Liang Chunhua ran over and blocked her way.

Jiang Nianzi raised her eyebrows and looked at her.

Liang Chunhua clasped her hands together and looked at Jiang Nianzi with an uneasy expression: "Um, Doctor Jiang, I, I have something to tell you."

"You say." Jiang Nian glanced at her coldly.

She does ideological work for these old ladies, not trying to make them better.

But we don’t want them to use this kind of thinking to oppress women who have been wronged and have nowhere to complain.

Liang Chunhua saw that Jiang Nianzi didn't like her, and thinking of her actions a few days ago, she said guiltily: "Well, I want to ask, can you really cure my son's disease and let his wife get pregnant?"

Jiang Nianzi shook her head: "No doctor can make a 100% guarantee. I can only say that I will treat every one of my patients seriously and try my best to solve their problems. Don't hold too much hope."

For such a person, Jiang Nianzi didn't even want to tell her 50%, let alone a 100% guarantee.

Because I didn't want to have any trouble in the future, I could only tell her that I would do my best.

Chang Ming's illness is not a matter of life or death, so just tell Chang Ming and his wife the success rate. As for other family members, be conservative.

When the old lady heard this, she immediately became unhappy, but Jiang Nianzi didn't care whether she was happy or not.

Turned around and left.

Liang Chunhua was depressed and dissatisfied, but she was indeed awakened. Forget it, her grandson was the most important, so she had to cure her illness first.

Jiang Nianzi left. She thought these words had only changed many people's minds, but she didn't know that they had also changed many relationships between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

For example, some couples have been married for only one year and the daughter-in-law has no children. The mother-in-law is not very satisfied at first, but gradually she starts to stop worrying about it. What if the one with the problem is her own son?

Although military marriages cannot be divorced, if you make your wife angry, the problem will ultimately be on your son.

What should I do if the daughter-in-law starts to neglect the family?