"Also, Qiushi, if your trip to military academy coincides with Xiaoxiao's labor, you need to make arrangements for what to do next. Your parents and I can help take care of her, but there's only so much we can do. In the end, Xiaoxiao will be the one who suffers the most."
Bai Hehua couldn't help but nod in agreement: "I can help with some trivial matters, but you'll have to make the specific arrangements yourselves."
As the mother-in-law, no matter how well she gets along with Lin Xiaoxiao, there is still an age gap. There will inevitably be differences in their ideas about raising and educating children. It's better for her to help with other things and interfere less in the childcare.
Lin Xiaoxiao would rather have a relative come and take care of the child than take care of the child herself.
Don't let things get out of hand and cause a rift between you and Xiaoxiao because of the child; that would be a huge loss.
Lin Xiaoxiao and Han Qiushi roughly understood what Bai Hehua meant, and both nodded in agreement with her suggestion.
Don't be fooled by our good relationship now, and how we seem to be able to talk things out. Who knows what will happen when something really happens?
One is their own child, and the other is Bai Hehua's first grandson. They both care about each other very much. Both believe they are doing what they think is right, but their views are different. Sometimes conflicts arise naturally, not because they dislike each other.
Now that both sides have reached an agreement, many conflicts will be avoided after the child is born.
After the family finished their meal, the old man was about to take his flashlight to the neighbor's house to watch TV, but Han Chengjun stopped him before he could even leave.
When Grandpa Han saw his son, he was annoyed. "If you have something to say, say it quickly. Don't keep me from watching TV."
"It's nothing much, just about Xiaomeng's schooling. I've thought about it and decided to let her study in Beijing. My idea is that she should get into a school in Beijing, and it would be better for her to develop her career here." Han Chengjun said directly that he had to consider it himself.
When the college entrance examination was first reinstated, the admission scores were the same across the country. There was no relaxation of policies just because you had a Beijing household registration. Han Chengjun didn't think about that. Instead, he was considering Han Meng's future job and resource opportunities.
Beijing is the political and cultural center of the country, and her family is all here. If Han Meng goes to university in Beijing, she can live at home and most of her classmates will also stay in Beijing in the future. This will be very helpful to Han Meng in the future.
If Han Meng continues to live in Haishi, she will only be in her workplace circle, and she will be with Xia Ri every day. I'm afraid that the child will be influenced by Xia Ri and will not have a big-picture perspective on many things.
No matter what, Han Meng is still her own child, so it's impossible for her not to make proper plans for her.
Upon hearing this, Old Master Han sneered: "If you want to arrange for Han Meng to study in the capital and live here with me, that's negotiable. But don't forget, not only am I here, but the Xia family is here too."
"Would it really be better for you to send Han Meng to study here?"
Han Chengjun nodded as he spoke: "I know Dad's concerns. I've also thought about this issue. So, I'm thinking of sending Xiaomeng to a boarding school in Beijing. You can send a car to pick her up on the weekends, which will avoid her having to go to the Xia family so often."
Grandpa Han thought for two seconds in silence, then nodded, seemingly quite satisfied with Han Chengjun's decision: "Alright, since you've made up your mind, I'll go and make a couple of trips." With that, he took his flashlight and left.
With the old man's approval, Han Chengjun called Han Meng and Xia Ri into the house and told them about his decision.
After Han Chengjun finished speaking about Han Meng studying alone in the capital, the atmosphere in the room instantly became quiet. Han Meng wanted to speak, but when she met Han Chengjun's gaze, she shut her mouth. She could only look at Xia Ri, with whom she had a closer relationship.
Han Meng glanced at Xia Ri, but Xia Ri didn't speak up for her. Instead, she shook her head and said, "Xiao Meng, I agree with your father's decision."
“The learning environment in Beijing is definitely better than in Shanghai. You can stay at school for a while, and I will come to take care of you after I have settled things in Shanghai.”
"No, I'm not going. I don't know a single person in the schools in Beijing. I don't want to go."
"Mom, I want to finish high school in Haishi. I promise I will study hard in Haishi and get into a university in Beijing." Han Meng anxiously pleaded with Xia Ri, without saying a word to Han Chengjun, because she knew very well that this trick wouldn't work on her father.
"Xiaomeng, be good. This time I agree with your father's decision. This decision is for your own good."
Han Meng shook her head frantically: "No, I don't want to go. It's a boarding school. Staying inside for so long will definitely suffocate me."
"I don't want to go. I want to study in Haishi and stay with you guys."
When Han Chengjun saw Han Meng start acting spoiled and throwing a tantrum again, completely unaware of his good intentions, his temper flared up instantly: "You don't want to go just because you don't know anyone there? You're going to study, not to play."
"Han Meng, look at how many children want to learn but don't have the opportunity. I'm just asking you to change schools, and you're already being picky. Is this how I've always taught you? How ungrateful are you?"
Seeing that Han Chengjun was truly angry, Han Meng immediately shut her mouth, muttering, "He said it was just a change of school. I just want to study in Haishi, it's not like I don't want to study at all. Why don't you know how to be grateful?"
Han Chengjun: "You... fine, fine, you don't want to study in Beijing, right? Then you can come back to Haishi with us. I don't care if you go to study or play, or whether you can get into university or not."
"When you go out into the world and find a job, even if you become a dishwasher, I won't care about you anymore. You can do whatever you want. From now on, it has nothing to do with me." Han Chengjun said, then shook his hand and walked out of the house.
"Fine, I won't care! He's always criticizing me or restricting me. I've had enough. Who wants him to control me..." Han Meng curled her lips in disdain.
"Xiao Meng!!" Xia Ri was unusually stern when she saw Han Meng speaking like that, but seeing the tears welling up in Han Meng's eyes, she instantly softened and rushed over to comfort her daughter. Xia Ri stayed by her daughter's side all night, explaining to her in detail why she wanted to study in the capital, and what the benefits of studying in the capital were...
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