Sometimes she would even borrow oil, and Huang Xiufang would lend it to the other party once or twice out of politeness, but the other party never paid it back.
Huang Xiufang complained to her husband, who said it was just some small thing and she shouldn't be so petty.
Sometimes Huang Xiufang wished she could dump all the housework on her husband's face, so he would know that if she didn't fuss over every little thing, the family would go hungry.
“You have no idea how outrageous my husband is. When that neighbor took advantage of us, he even said I was being petty.”
"If he's so capable, why doesn't he take care of all the household chores, from food and drink to toileting? He acts like a hands-off manager all day long, and then he says I'm too stingy."
"I'm so angry with him," Huang Xiufang couldn't help but complain to everyone about her husband's behavior.
Tan Xiaojuan also agreed with Huang Xiufang's words, saying with empathy, "Yes, men always think that we have it easy because we don't work and are only busy with housework."
“They think taking care of children, doing laundry and cooking is easy, they have no idea how hard we work.”
"That's right, that's right." Huang Xiufang had a lot of grievances to say. Her husband was usually very good, but sometimes he felt that she seemed to be very relaxed and did not understand her at all.
The same applies to Tan Xiaojuan's family.
Just like last time when her husband Wang Shengnan accused Chen Suwen of sowing discord between his parents, her husband just felt that she was bad at studying and that she didn't do any work and only knew how to be lazy.
He never said anything when he saw her working, but she just delegated some of the housework to others and was busy studying, and he felt that she was slacking off.
"We've been married for over ten years, and I really can't live with this guy anymore," Tan Xiaojuan said angrily.
Actually, she was hesitant to get a divorce, mainly because she had been married to her husband for over ten years, and her family no longer had a place for her.
If she gets a divorce, not to mention others, her own family will be extremely opposed and will definitely curse her to death.
Then they quickly found her a new husband and urged her to get married as soon as possible.
When she remarries, the man she marries will definitely not be as good as the man she is now.
So she could only endure any grievances she might suffer, because she wouldn't be able to live a good life after the divorce.
"Just let them do the housework, don't say things like 'a grown man can't do housework,'" Chen Suwen urged them.
They are soldiers of the People's Liberation Army. Didn't they have to wash their own clothes when they first joined the army?
"Their military service requires them to be up to standard in terms of housekeeping. How come they could wash their own clothes before they got married, but now that they're married they can't?"
"Leave the housework to them. When they realize how hard it is to do housework for a whole family, they will be more understanding of you."
As for things like buying vegetables and grains, they may not have time to care, but so what?
If they continue to be hands-off managers, they will be even less likely to appreciate the hardships their wives endure.
Men work very hard to earn money outside, but is it not hard for their wives to be full-time housewives and take care of the home?
Actually, they don't want to complain about their men, but since they don't know how to be considerate of their wives, it's understandable that they have some grievances.
"You're still spoiling them too much. It would be better if they did some housework."
"And the children at home, they're all grown up, they don't do any work, how can they understand the hardships of being a mother?"
If it's really that hard, then distribute the work among yourself and take on all the tasks yourself. If you don't suffer, who will?
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