"The saying goes, 'It's easy to fall in love, but hard to stay together.' To truly walk hand in hand, you need mutual tolerance and balance. And you just haven't met the person who is willing to change for you yet."
Seeing that she was listening, Fen Tianming continued with a smile, "Even if it's someone you like, you have to make them learn to change for you, instead of you always giving in and sacrificing. Otherwise, no matter how much you feel touched or guilty, it will all become taken for granted over time."
"Perhaps you are right."
Thinking about her relationship with Junran, not to mention Junran, even with Dongfang Jing, she has always been sensible, always thinking of the other person, and never quarreling.
Perhaps that's why she lived in a self-satisfied fantasy, never knowing what the other person's feelings were or what their true thoughts were.
For example, she only realized now that she didn't really understand Junran at all.
If she hadn't pressured Junran so much back then, he might not have left without saying goodbye, and perhaps they wouldn't have ended up as strangers today.
At that moment, she suddenly remembered that she had once asked a very loving and exemplary elderly couple why they had never argued in their entire lives.
They said that since all the arguments were resolved during their courtship, things naturally settled down after marriage.
Looking back now, she was indeed too sensible.
Yes, she didn't make any mistakes, but in matters of the heart, sometimes being sensible is itself a mistake.
"You seem to know a lot."
After a long silence, Murong Qin looked at Fen Tianming with a probing gaze.
How old do you think I am this year?
Fen Tianming smiled helplessly and said, "If a man in his forties has never been in a relationship, wouldn't he be laughed at? Unfortunately, I'm not as lucky as Junran. The girl I like looks down on my background and is not willing to change for me."
"Ah Ran..."
A hint of sadness flashed in Murong Qin's eyes. Unwilling to say more, she changed the subject, saying, "But aren't you changing for her? With your current status, no girl should be able to easily refuse you anymore, right?"
Although Fen Tianming's appearance is not as monstrous as that of Di Moyu and others, it is definitely above average. Coupled with his current cultivation talent and the status of the vice leader of the Black Martial Gang, he can be ranked among the top young talents in the entire Imperial Continent.
It's hard to imagine that any girl wouldn't like him.
"As I've said before, love requires both parties to be willing to change for each other."
Fen Tianming shrugged and lay down on the ground with a relaxed tone, looking at the red glow in the sky and said, "She didn't want to wait for me, she didn't believe me. Even though I tried my best, I still couldn't catch up. My father said she got married five years ago."
"Is that so?"
Murong Qin felt a bit sorry for Fen Tianming at this moment and, not wanting to provoke him further, changed the subject, saying, "That Miss Zhao treated you very well, why did you..."
"Stop, stop. I really only see Xiaojie as a younger sister."
Upon hearing this, Fen Tianming immediately interrupted, saying seriously, "Love is love, and not loving is not loving. I cannot hurt a girl's feelings just because I want a few laughable feelings of superiority. When it comes to feelings, I am very devoted."
"Pfft... I was just joking, don't be so serious."
Seeing his alarmed expression, Murong Qin knew he was afraid of being entangled with Zhao Shujie again, and couldn't help but chuckle.
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