Chapter 114: Great job on transferring the household registration!
"I want to find a partner, but you know my mother. I refused to give her my salary before, and she was very unhappy. If I want to find a partner, I need someone who can hold on." Wei Shanshan said, "And he can't be a foolishly filial person, who can't think that I am unfilial, can't..."
Wei Shanshan said this in advance to avoid all kinds of situations during the blind date. State your requirements first, and if they are not suitable, don't meet to avoid wasting each other's time.
"The most important point is that the betrothal gift must be given, but it must be given to me, not to my mother." Wei Shanshan said.
Wei Shanshan couldn't let Amelia Su take the betrothal gift. If Amelia Su took the betrothal gift, then Wei Shanshan wouldn't want a dowry. Amelia Su was a person who valued boys over girls. She only wanted to leave her daughter's betrothal gift money to her son.
"Where is your household registration?" a colleague asked Wei Shanshan, "Is it still with your parents? If it is with your parents, many things will be difficult to handle in the future."
"You reminded me." Wei Shanshan said, "Our hospital can register as a collective household."
"Sure." The colleague said, "You are already registered in Nancheng, and it's impossible for you to quit after working for a few months. You can find a way to transfer your registered residence out so that you don't have to live with your parents."
Wei Shanshan is a person who does what she says. She went to Wei Dashan to ask for her household registration book. She wanted to move her household registration out.
Why did Wei Shanshan not go to Su Yamei but to Wei Dashan first? It was because Wei Shanshan wanted to see if her father would help her. Her father always stood behind her mother, not daring to say anything, and always let her mother do those things.
"Dad, can you take out my household registration book?" Wei Shanshan asked.
"This...household registration booklet is in your mother's hands." Wei Dashan said, "It's locked in a drawer."
"Then you can't get your household registration booklet?" Wei Shanshan asked again.
"Let me try." Wei Dashan said.
"Dad." Wei Shanshan called Wei Dashan "Dad", "You are not only Wei Yaozu's dad, but also my Wei Shanshan's dad."
Wei Shanshan hopes that her father can take some responsibility and help her get things done. If Wei Shanshan faces Amelia Su alone, there will be a lot of things to deal with.
Wei Shanshan talked to Wei Dashan in the corner of the alley without letting Amelia Su know. After Wei Shanshan finished speaking, she left quickly.
When Su Yamei found out that Wei Shanshan had moved her household registration out, it was too late. Wei Dashan secretly took out the household registration book and asked Wei Shanshan to move her household registration out as soon as possible. Wei Shanshan was afraid of problems, so she asked her aunt for help and found connections to move her household registration out as soon as possible. After the matter was done, Wei Dashan put the household registration book back.
Amelia Su usually didn't pay much attention to the household registration book. She put it in a few books. When she opened the drawer, she also counted the money, but she didn't dare to keep too much money at home. Both of them had to go to the breakfast shop to open a shop, so they couldn't stay at home all the time.
On this day, Amelia Su flipped through the book. In addition to the household registration book, there was also money in the book. Amelia Su saw that something was wrong. Wei Shanshan's name was no longer in the household registration book.
"Wei Dashan!" Amelia Su immediately called Wei Dashan's name.
Amelia Su did not take out the household registration booklet herself, and it was even less likely that Wei Yaozu had touched the household registration booklet, so it must be Wei Dashan who had touched the household registration booklet.
"Did you give the household registration booklet to Wei Shanshan?" Amelia Su opened her eyes wide.
Amelia Su was originally thinking about making things difficult for Wei Shanshan with the user account issue, but she didn't expect Wei Shanshan to take action so quickly.
"I gave it to you." Wei Dashan admitted.
"Why did you give her the household registration booklet?" Amelia Su hit Wei Dashan twice. "She moved her household registration out, and she will not care about us anymore in the future."
"If she wants to move her household registration, let her do it." Wei Dashan said.
"She has already moved her household registration. What's the point of saying this?" Amelia Su gritted her teeth, "Where did she move her household registration to? Do you know? Did Amelia Su help her, didn't she..."
"No, Shanshan transferred her household registration to their unit." Wei Dashan said.
Wei Shanshan did not transfer her household registration to the one-bedroom apartment that Su Xueqing asked her to live in. If she really wanted to transfer her household registration there, Su Xueqing would agree. It was impossible for Su Xueqing to push Wei Shanshan back when she wanted to jump out of the quagmire. When Su Xueqing learned that Wei Shanshan wanted to transfer her household registration, she also said that Wei Shanshan could transfer her household registration to the one-bedroom apartment first. Wei Shanshan said no, she could just move to the workplace.
One should not be too greedy. Wei Shanshan did not want to rely on her aunt for everything. Her aunt had helped her so much, and she could not be ungrateful. If Wei Shanshan needed her aunt's help for everything, her mother would also make things difficult for her aunt. Wei Shanshan thought that since she was already working, she should try to solve those problems by herself.
The reason why Wei Shanshan told Amelia Su about the transfer of household registration was that she was afraid that Amelia Su would find out before she finished it. Wei Shanshan didn't dare to believe her father. You know, her father was very afraid of her mother. She was afraid that her father would tell the matter soon, and then it would be over. If things were done as soon as possible and the dust settled, Wei Shanshan wouldn't have to worry about Amelia Su taking the household registration book back.
"Wei Shanshan asked you to give her the household registration booklet, and you gave it to her? Didn't you discuss it with me first?" Su Yamei was angry.
"It's just a small matter..."
"A small matter? This is a small matter?" Amelia Su pointed at the household registration book, "There is one person missing in the household registration book. Wei Shanshan is really capable, and you are also capable. You actually hid it from me. If I hadn't opened the drawer and taken a look at the household registration book, I wouldn't have known that you are so capable. You are so capable. Wei Dashan, you are awesome!"
Su Yamei was so angry that her hands were shaking. Wei Shanshan had moved her household registration out, so what could she use to control Wei Shanshan?
“…” Wei Dashan was silent, letting Amelia Su blame him.
Amelia Su cursed Wei Dashan and Wei Shanshan at home, and the neighbors on both sides heard it.
Su's mother and others didn't know about Wei Shanshan's relocation of her household registration. Only Wei Shanshan, Wei Dashan, Su Xueqing and her husband and the relevant staff knew about it. Wei Shanshan didn't know whether Su's mother and others would stand on her side. Su Yamei was Su's mother's biological daughter. Wei Shanshan didn't dare to take risks. She was sure that her aunt would definitely help her, so she went to her aunt.
When Su's mother learned that Wei Shanshan had moved her household registration out, she sighed.
"Shanshan... I didn't even know about this." said Su's mother.
When Mrs. Su heard what Su's mother said, she was not surprised that Wei Shanshan would do that. Su's mother was good to Wei Shanshan mainly because of Amelia Su. Su's mother often told Wei Shanshan not to blame Amelia Su, saying that Amelia Su had a hard time. Su's mother wanted Wei Shanshan to be filial to Amelia Su in the future. She felt that Wei Yaozu was unreliable, and Amelia Su and her husband would have to rely on Wei Shanshan in the future.
Not to mention Wei Shanshan, even Su Sansao could feel Su's mother's love for Amelia Su. Wei Shanshan was just an appendage of Amelia Su. Su's mother did often ask Amelia Su for Wei Shanshan's living expenses and tuition fees, but Su's mother's most important thing was for Amelia Su.
"Mom, Shanshan didn't tell you because she was afraid that the news would leak out." Mrs. Su said, "Walls have ears. The more people know, the more risks there are. Big sister... there is no way she would be willing to let Shanshan move her household registration out at this time. She will definitely keep an eye on it. Big sister has a lot of contact with you. If you accidentally say something wrong, Shanshan will be in trouble. Besides, if you know, you can't help, and you will have to suffer. Shanshan doesn't want you to worry too much."
"..."Mother Su looked at Su San's wife. She didn't think that Wei Shanshan didn't want her to worry. Wei Shanshan was on guard against her.
Su's mother was somewhat disappointed. She thought Wei Shanshan would tell her when she did these things, but she didn't expect Wei Shanshan to get things done without saying a word.
"It would be a good idea to move the household registration out." said Mrs. Su.
"I heard that the house might be demolished." said Su's mother.
"Demolition, that's just talk, we don't know when it will be demolished." Third Sister Su said, "Shanshan's household registration is with eldest sister, and eldest sister can't give her the things."
"It's always good as long as the household registration is there." said Su's mother.
"It's not good for Shanshan, but it will cause a lot of trouble." Mrs. Su said, "It's better to move the household registration out as soon as possible. Demolition, demolition, there is no sign of it yet. No one has heard that our area is going to be demolished, it's because other places are going to be demolished, and those people are wondering if our area will be demolished as well."
If Wei Shanshan's household registration is under the name of Amelia Su and her husband, Wei Shanshan will not be able to get the demolition compensation, and will be controlled by Amelia Su. The most likely outcome is that Wei Shanshan and Amelia Su will break up, Wei Shanshan does not want money, and Amelia Su agrees to let Wei Shanshan move her household registration out.
"What if it takes three to five years to demolish the house? That's still a short time." Mrs. Su said, "What if it takes six to seven years, or even ten years, to demolish the house? Shanshan is getting older, and she'll have to get married in the future."
Mrs. Su thought it was better for Wei Shanshan to move her household registration out. Wei Shanshan could handle the matter herself without involving Su's mother. How great it was. Amelia Su couldn't blame Su's mother, so Su's mother didn't intervene in this matter.
"Shanshan and Yamei are mother and daughter after all. How could it become like this?" said Su's mother.
"Mom, please help elder sister take care of Shanshan. If elder sister doesn't treat Shanshan well, she can't blame anyone else." Third sister Su said, "Shanshan is so old now. It would be bad if she is still as stupid as she was when she was little."
Anyway, Mrs. Su is on Wei Shanshan's side. Wei Shanshan is grown up, and it's time for her to think about herself. She can't always think about whether Mother Su or Amelia Su is happy or not.
Amelia Su didn't go to Su Xueqing after all. When she got to Su Xueqing, what could she say? Did she question Su Xueqing and ask if it was Su Xueqing who instigated Wei Shanshan? Amelia Su knew in her heart that it might not be Su Xueqing who instigated it. Wei Shanshan had been pretending in her early years. Wei Shanshan had endured for many years just to give her, her mother, a knife.
Su Xueqing knew that Wei Shanshan had not told her mother, so she did not force Wei Shanshan to tell her mother. When Su Xueqing learned that Wei Shanshan's household registration transfer had been exposed, she bought some things to visit her mother, fearing that she would be unhappy.
"So you knew it a long time ago?" Su's mother asked.
"That is, Shanshan found out two days before she got her household registration." Su Xueqing said, "Shanshan was afraid that she would encounter other problems and couldn't transfer her household registration quickly. So Shanshan told me to help her find someone to help her transfer her household registration quickly."
"..." Mother Su was silent for a while, "Yes, you will help her. If she comes to me, I..."
Su's mother thought that if Wei Shanshan came to see her, she would persuade Wei Shanshan not to move her household registration out, and asked Wei Shanshan to wait, saying that it would be in time to move her household registration out when Wei Shanshan got married, and there was no need to rush. Su's mother mainly stood from Su Yamei's perspective, and she didn't want Wei Shanshan and Su Yamei to get too awkward.
It is very difficult to get Su's mother to help Wei Shanshan transfer her household registration. Su's mother can help Wei Shanshan with some other things, but she also has her own insistence on some things.
If Su's mother didn't want to, she might tell Amelia Su. She thought that if she asked Amelia Su to be nicer to Wei Shanshan, this matter would be solved well. The reality is that Amelia Su can't be nice to Wei Shanshan. If she knew that Wei Shanshan was going to transfer her household registration, Amelia Su would definitely hide the household registration book and tell Wei Dashan not to touch the household registration book.
"I'm old and I can't take care of these things." Su's mother was lonely.
"Mom, please don't worry about these things. They are not easy to manage." Su Xueqing said, "The relationship between Shanshan and the eldest sister has been strained for a long time. It's too difficult for you to ease the relationship between them. You have been trying to ease it for so many years, but is it useful? The eldest sister still goes her own way. She doesn't care whether Shanshan is happy or not. She only cares about whether she is happy or not, and whether Yaozu is happy or not. Is Yaozu's attitude towards Shanshan the same as his attitude towards his sister?"
Su Xueqing thought that if Wei Yaozu was her son, she would definitely beat him up several times. Of course, if he was her son, Su Xueqing thought that her son would never become like Wei Yaozu. Wei Shanshan didn't treat Wei Yaozu badly. Even though she lived in the living room, Wei Yaozu would feel that Wei Shanshan had hurt his interests.
"Mom, if you have the time to take care of these things, you might as well eat more fruit cakes." Su Xueqing said, "Mom, tell me what you want to eat, and I'll buy it for you."
"Eat, you just know how to let me eat." Su's mother said.
"Food is the most important thing for people." Su Xueqing said, "In life, of course we have to eat more delicious food. Food can make people happy."
Su Xueqing peeled a banana for her mother and asked her to eat it quickly.
Mother Su took a bite of the banana and said, "When you were little, your family was poor and we didn't have much fruit to eat. Now that you've grown up and have a job, you can eat a lot of fruit and a lot of delicious food."
"Yes, so I eat a lot." Su Xueqing said, "Eat more delicious food. If I don't eat delicious food for a day, I feel that the day is incomplete. After eating, I have to eat fruit. When I sit there watching TV, I have to eat something. If I don't eat something, I feel that life is too meaningless. Mom, you too, eat more."
"I ate it, I ate it." Su's mother said, "Shanshan... her relationship with her mother has become like this... You... forget it..."
Su's mother originally wanted to say that Amelia Su and Wei Shanshan had a bad relationship, but Wei Shanshan would listen to Amelia Su, so she asked Amelia Su to persuade Wei Shanshan more. Thinking about it carefully, Su's mother felt that it was not right. Wei Shanshan was good to Amelia Su now. If Amelia Su really said those words, Wei Shanshan might not listen to Amelia Su.
Forget it, forget it. Amelia Su doesn’t feel sorry for Wei Shanshan. Amelia Su only cares about Wei Yaozu. It is enough for Amelia Su to have Wei Yaozu. She should not think about whether she has a daughter or not.
"Has the elder sister come to your place?" Su Xueqing asked.
"She has been here." Mother Su nodded. "Your eldest sister was very unhappy and said a lot of things. She said that we all doted on Wei Shanshan and spoiled her into this state."
"Is this considered pampering?" Su Xueqing was speechless. "She pampered Wei Yaozu, that's the real pampering. As for Shanshan, can we be considered pampering her? We just help her when she needs help. This is not pampering. We can't give Shanshan the motherly and fatherly love she wants. Shanshan once had hope for her elder sister. Her elder sister herself is not good to Shanshan, who can be blamed for this?"
Amelia Su had many opportunities to be nice to Wei Shanshan, but she didn't cherish them. She really thought Wei Shanshan was a disaster. Wei Shanshan had never offended Amelia Su, but Amelia Su was still so bad to Wei Shanshan.
Now that Wei Shanshan has rebelled against Amelia Su, it is impossible for Amelia Su to be good to Wei Shanshan. This is an obvious thing, and everyone can see it.
"If you ask me, Shanshan did a good job. She should have moved her household registration out earlier." Su Xueqing said, "If her household registration is kept with her parents, she will still be controlled by her parents."
"Your sister-in-law said the same thing." Mother Su said, "You all have similar ideas."
"That's how it is." Su Xueqing said, "There are many things that require the household registration book. We can't let Shanshan go to the eldest sister to ask for the household registration book every time. With the eldest sister's temper, will she directly apply for Shanshan's household registration? No, she will definitely make things difficult for Shanshan. The biological mother doesn't care about her daughter, doesn't think about whether her daughter lives a good life, and only thinks that her daughter doesn't listen to her. How can this be done? If the household registration is moved out early, Shanshan won't have to look for the eldest sister often, and won't be robbed and embarrassed. This is a good thing. It's better to suffer a short pain than a long pain, and there will be fewer conflicts between the eldest sister and Shanshan."
"I didn't say you were wrong." Mother Su sighed, "It's just..."
Su's mother thought she had done enough and thought that everything would be fine after Wei Shanshan graduated. But the household registration book incident broke out, and Amelia Su now said that Wei Shanshan was too cruel and that Wei Shanshan didn't treat her as her biological mother at all.
"Shanshan hasn't come back." said Su's mother.
"Why did she come back?" Su Xueqing asked, "Is she coming back to be scolded by her elder sister?"
"this……"
"If Shanshan stood in front of big sister, big sister would definitely say something bad about Shanshan." Su Xueqing said, "Mom, you also know big sister's temper. When nothing happened, big sister's attitude towards Shanshan was not good. Now that something has happened, big sister has more reason to treat Shanshan badly, and it is even more impossible for her to treat Shanshan well."
"Alas." Su's mother sighed again, "Your eldest sister has changed a lot since she went to the countryside as an educated youth."
"I think she has returned to the city physically, but her heart has not returned to the city yet." Su Xueqing said, "As for the relationship between her and Shanshan, Mom, don't think they will get along well. Big sister has given Shanshan living expenses and tuition fees, and Shanshan will still help big sister in the future. When big sister can't move, when big sister is old and sick, Shanshan will not completely ignore her. But now, big sister should stop interfering a little."
"Okay." Su's mother said, "You all said so one by one. Indeed, it is better to do as you said."
"It doesn't mean you have to do what we say." Su Xueqing said, "We don't care about those things. Shanshan is a free person. She has grown up and has her own life. We shouldn't force her to do things she doesn't want to do. When she was young, there was no other way. She had no ability and could only listen to adults. Now, she is older, has a job, and is financially independent. She can do what she wants."
"What does she want to do?" Su's mother asked, "Change her household registration?"
"Mom, how can it be just a relocation of the household registration?" Su Xueqing said, "Even if the household registration is relocated, Shanshan is still my eldest sister's biological daughter. Mom, let Shanshan live her own life."
"She..." Su's mother opened her mouth but didn't know what to say.
"Shanshan is a sensible child. She knows what she is doing." Su Xueqing said.
"Okay, let her do whatever she wants." Mother Su waved her hand. "I'm old, and I really can't take care of these things. It's up to her."
After all, Su's mother did not run to Wei Shanshan and did not ask Wei Shanshan to apologize to Amelia Su. Things have come to this point, it is not useful for Wei Shanshan to apologize to Amelia Su. If Wei Shanshan apologized, Amelia Su would not simply forgive Wei Shanshan. Amelia Su would definitely make a request, or a request that Wei Shanshan was unwilling to do.
When Amelia Su left the Su family, she happened to meet Amelia Su.
“Big sister.” Amelia Su opened her mouth to greet Amelia Su. After calling her, Amelia Su planned to leave regardless of whether Amelia Su responded or not.
This is the door of the Su family. If Su Xueqing doesn't call Su Yamei "big sister", Su's mother will be unhappy if she finds out. Su's mother has always hoped that the brothers and sisters can live in harmony. Su's mother doesn't want them to have conflicts. Su's mother often tells Su Xueqing and the others that there are only brothers and sisters in this life, not brothers and sisters in the next life.
“Amelia Su.” When Amelia Su was about to leave, Amelia Su turned around and called Amelia Su who was passing by her.
“Sister, is there something wrong?” Amelia Su stopped and looked at Amelia Su.
“Amelia Su, are you very happy now?” Amelia Su asked.
"What?" Su Xueqing asked, "Why should I be happy?"
"Shanshan always speaks well of you outside, and now she has moved her household registration out." Amelia Su said, "Shanshan doesn't need to be controlled by me anymore, she can fly freely."
"Shanshan is your daughter, elder sister." Su Xueqing reminded Su Yamei, "I can't control whether her household registration has been moved out." "How can you not control it? You can help her." Su Yamei said.
"Did I give her the household registration booklet?" Su Xueqing raised her eyebrows. "Isn't the household registration booklet in your own hands? Did I pry open your door? Did I force you to take out the household registration booklet? Big sister, there is a conflict between you and Shanshan, don't always involve others. Yes, I did help Shanshan, but it was because you did something bad first that Shanshan came to ask me to help her."
"you……"
"Whether it's Shanshan or other weak women who come to me, I will help as long as I can." Su Xueqing said, "Why should women make things difficult for other women? That person is your biological daughter, and you are a woman yourself, can't you feel a little more sorry for her? Sister, don't always say that your life is bad. You have a house, a shop, and a son and a daughter. How bad can your life be?"
"I……"
"How many people can live as comfortably as you do?" Su Xueqing said, "You said you are tired of running a breakfast shop. If you don't want to run a breakfast shop, then open another shop where you can serve lunch and dinner."
“If I can do it, why would I need to open a breakfast shop. No, Amelia Su, can I live as well as you?” Amelia Su said.
"Why are you competing with me?" Su Xueqing said, "I have worked hard to have the life I have today, okay? My parents didn't introduce me to a partner, and they didn't take care of my child, they took care of your child. Among all the brothers and sisters, except for my third brother, you are the one who has got the most."
"you……"
"Don't always think that I got more." Su Xueqing said, "Calculate carefully, who got more?"
Amelia Su didn't want to argue about these things with Amelia Su. If Amelia Su really wanted to argue, Amelia Su could also accompany Amelia Su to argue a little. Amelia Su watched Amelia Su leave, she was angry, but she could do nothing about it.
Su's mother heard the noise outside, but she didn't go out. Amelia Su and Su Xueqing are sisters, so if they want to talk to each other, let them talk.
“Mom.” Amelia Su walked into the living room, “You heard what my little sister said just now, right?”
"What?" Su's mother asked.
“Mom, you…” Amelia Su was unhappy, “Are you pretending to be deaf and dumb?”
"I'm old, and my ears don't work very well." Su's mother said, "If you have something to say, just say it directly."
“Shanshan doesn’t give me face, and my younger sister doesn’t give me face either. They all trample on my face.” Amelia Su said, “My younger sister also said that I got the most, and I…”
"You really get the most." Su's mother nodded.
“…” Amelia Su wanted Su’s mother to say that what she got was not the most, or that those things were what she deserved, but Su’s mother said this directly.
In the original novel, Su Yamei and her husband lost Wei Shanshan, and Su Yamei resented Su's mother, who felt guilty towards her. Su's mother gave many things in the house to Su Yamei, which made Su San's wife very unhappy. But now, Su's mother is still good to Su Yamei, and several of her children went to the countryside to be educated youth with Su Yamei, so Su's mother has more patience with Su Yamei.
"Don't think about those things." Su's mother said, "They keep talking about your daughter and your younger sister. Do you think they will give you face?"
“I…they are so hateful.” Amelia Su said.
"Say less." Su's mother said, "You also know that your relationship is not very good, but you still have to say this, your relationship will only get worse."
Back home, Su Xueqing saw Ning Yanjing sitting in the living room. Ning Yanjing did not work overtime today. Ning Yanjing rarely worked overtime. If he had time, he would basically accompany his wife and daughter.
"How is Mom?" Ning Yanjing asked, "Does Mom blame you?"
"Mom didn't say she blamed me, but she blamed me a little in her heart." Su Xueqing said, "Mom hopes that the relationship between big sister and Shanshan can be good. She doesn't want Shanshan to move out so quickly. Mom just thinks things are too good. When Shanshan was young, she would maintain the superficial peace. Now that Shanshan has grown up, she can no longer maintain the superficial peace, and big sister doesn't give Shanshan the opportunity to maintain the superficial peace. If big sister had said less to Shanshan and stopped thinking about taking Shanshan's salary, things wouldn't have come to this point."
"Explain to mom, I won't blame you." Ning Yanjing said.
"It's no use explaining." Su Xueqing said, "Mom wants my eldest sister to be with Shanshan, and she also thinks about the relationship between her and us daughters. Mom is old, and she is afraid that we will treat her badly. She is much more cautious when talking to us."
Amelia Su is Su's mother's first child, so it's normal for her to care more about her. Su Xueqing is Su's mother's youngest child, but she lives a good life, eats well, dresses well, and has good conditions in all aspects. Su's mother subconsciously favors Amelia Su, who lives nearby. When she thinks about the past, she feels that Amelia Su has suffered too much in the countryside.
Even if Su Yamei didn't lose her child in the original novel, Su's mother still favored Su Yamei, but it was better than the original novel. Su's mother didn't keep giving Su Yamei things at home, and it was still within the range that Su San's wife and her husband could tolerate. Su's mother favored Su Yamei, but there was a limit.
Before, when Wei Shanshan hadn't graduated from school, Amelia Su felt that Su's mother was partial to Amelia Su. Amelia Su was not a three-year-old child, she had grown up long ago and knew how to handle her emotions.
Su Xueqing didn't say anything bad about Su's mother, nor did she say that Su's mother was bad. Su's mother treated whoever she wanted well. Su Xueqing didn't often come to Su's mother, and Su's mother didn't ask Su Xueqing to be nicer to Su Yamei. Su's mother still made what Su Xueqing liked to eat, and sometimes sent food to Su Xueqing, which was enough.
If we really compare, the second sister Su Yanan should have fainted in the toilet crying.
"Mom may not be in a good mood now, but she will be fine in a few days." Su Xueqing said, "I really can't tell her about Shanshan's relocation so early."
"I'm sorry to embarrass you." Ning Yanjing said, "This has nothing to do with you, and yet you're caught in the middle."
"Shanshan has begged me, how can I not help her." Su Xueqing said, "Shanshan has had a hard time. She finally graduated from school and has a stable job. Shanshan is right. She should move out of the household registration as soon as possible. Don't think about whether there will be other benefits in the future. Those benefits will not fall on her head."
"You've done a good job as an aunt." Ning Yanjing said.
"Shanshan only begged me this once." Su Xueqing said, "She won't have to beg me again in the future. She can live her own life."
Su Xueqing didn't want to pour cold water on Wei Shanshan when she was about to live a good life. "I help Shanshan not for my elder sister. I just can't bear to see Shanshan live such a miserable life. I can't control other people's children, but I can still help my niece."
"Help." Ning Yanjing held Su Xueqing's hand tightly, "If the elder sister dares to say anything to you, I will stand in front of you."
"I actually met my eldest sister when I came back. She was very unhappy." Su Xueqing said, "I don't care whether she is happy or not. I said something to her. She is the one who got the most out of us sisters. Let's not talk about my brother, just talk about the three of us sisters. My eldest sister got a lot, but she still had the nerve to complain that it was hard and that we got a lot."
Amelia Su put on a bad face in front of Amelia Su, and Amelia Su did not follow Amelia Su's lead. Wei Shanshan knew how to give Amelia Su a bad look, and Amelia Su also knew it.
"I said it directly." Su Xueqing said, "It was right at the door of the house. Maybe my mother heard what I said."
"If you want to say something, just say it. Don't keep it in your heart. If you keep it in your heart, you will get sick easily." Ning Yanjing said.
"Yeah." Su Xueqing nodded.
"Didn't you talk to your sister-in-law?" Ning Yanjing said.
"Yes." Su Xueqing said.
"Sister-in-law is telling you not to endure it. If you endure it, you will only get hurt." Ning Yanjing said, "We all support you."
Everyone in the Ning family stands on Su Xueqing's side, and it doesn't matter how Su Xueqing handles those things.
"My eldest sister-in-law is the real capable one. She works in the Women's Federation and often has to deal with trivial matters, but she can handle them well." Su Xueqing said, "Many people are grateful to her. If I were her, I would definitely not be able to handle those things."
"It is precisely because my sister-in-law often faces those things that she can understand you better." Ning Yanjing said.
There was basically no conflict between Su Xueqing and Ning Dasao. Ning Yuhao and his brother often came to play with Su Xueqing. Ning Dasao was a very gentle person. She knew some things about Su Xueqing's family. She felt that Su Xueqing did the right thing, especially in the matter of Wei Shanshan.
Sister Ning has seen many people, and she knows that sometimes some girls just need a simple hand from others, just a hand. But many times no one helps those girls, and those girls end up in a bad way. Sister Ning has helped many people and seen too many things.
Su Xueqing understood what Ning Yanjing meant. Ning Yanjing wanted Su Xueqing not to worry about the Ning family's dissatisfaction with her. Some people said that the Su family always had various things, and Su Xueqing always had to help deal with them. They thought that Su Xueqing used the resources of her husband's family to help her family, and the Ning family didn't think there was a problem with that. What's more, Su Xueqing didn't really use the Ning family's resources to help the Su family. If Su Xueqing didn't help the Su family, the Ning family would think that Su Xueqing was cold-blooded.
When Xu's mother went to Xu Ruyun's place, she told her about Amelia Su's help to Wei Shanshan, and also about how Amelia Su and Su almost had a big fight in front of the Su family's door.
"Su Xueqing did a great job." Xu Ruyun said.
"Did she do well?" said Xu's mother.
"What else?" Xu Ruyun asked.
"Su Xueqing is an aunt, so she shouldn't care so much." Xu's mother said, "Wei Shanshan's household registration is everywhere, let Wei Shanshan handle it herself. If she can move out, then move out. If she can't, forget it."
"Why let it go?" Xu Ruyun frowned. She looked at her mother. Her mother's generation basically favored boys over girls. They also liked to pay attention to the so-called family affection. "Wei Shanshan's mother treated her so badly. She should have moved her household registration out earlier. She went to ask her aunt for help. Her aunt saw how miserable she was. How could she not help her?"
Xu Ruyun recalled the past life. When Amelia Su returned to the city, she had a conflict with her mother. Amelia Su and her husband took Wei Shanshan away, but they lost Wei Shanshan. Amelia Su and her husband had a falling out with the Su family. Later, Amelia Su gave birth to Wei Yaozu. Amelia Su and her husband said they wanted to find their daughter, but they did not look for her at all and blamed the Su family for all the mistakes.
The child was lost near Amelia Su and her husband, not in the hands of other people in the Su family. Amelia Su still had the nerve to blame the Su family.
Xu Ruyun had no good feelings towards Amelia Su. She herself had a daughter, and she especially looked down on those women who favored boys over girls. They were all women, but they still favored boys over girls and didn't even know how to be nice to their daughters.
"Su Xueqing is very kind to her elder sister." Xu Ruyun said, "Su Xueqing helped Wei Shanshan so much. Without her help, Wei Shanshan would definitely hate her mother even more. Mom, please don't say nonsense outside, saying that Su Xueqing did something wrong. Su Xueqing did nothing wrong. It was Amelia Su who did something wrong."
"You..." Mother Xu didn't expect her daughter to say that.
"To be honest, I've met so many people, and Su Xueqing is a very good person." Xu Ruyun said, "She is a good aunt, a good sister, and a good daughter."
"You...you like Su Xueqing very much." said Xu's mother.
"Who wouldn't like such an outstanding person?" Xu Ruyun said, "Sometimes when I think of her, I think of myself. She is so outstanding, so hardworking, and has a good character."
After rebirth, Xu Ruyun was confused for a while and thought she was about to do something wrong. Xu Ruyun thought about plotting against Ning Jiaxuan and also thought about dealing with others. When Xu Ruyun learned that Ning Jiaxuan did not let anyone deal with her and even spoke up for her, and Su Xueqing also came to attend the child's full moon banquet, Xu Ruyun really felt that Su Xueqing and the others did a good job.
This made Xu Ruyun understand that it was not easy for women to live in this world, as men were always hidden in the dark. Women should help each other instead of stepping on each other. If others had not offended them, they should not stretch their hands too far, and should not think that others would hurt them, so they should take the initiative.
Xu Ruyun's mentality gradually changed. She was no longer as extreme as when she was reborn, and she gradually calmed down. There are many things in this world that are not absolutely right or wrong. If you are too extreme, you may not collapse at the beginning, but over time, you will definitely offend many people and suffer sooner or later.
Take Yan's mother for example. She shows everything. Even if she didn't show everything, others would not like her.
"Mom, this era is different from the past." Xu Ruyun said, "Don't always use the so-called filial piety to oppress people. It will be ridiculous. People are free and independent individuals with their own thoughts. They should do what they want to do instead of being trapped by their parents."
"Okay, okay, times have changed. I'm just saying this in front of you, I'm not spreading it everywhere." said Xu's mother.
"I'm serious." Xu Ruyun said, "There are some things that you shouldn't be involved in. There are some things that you should be involved in, and you have to take action."
Maybe some people think that Su Xueqing is stretching her hand too far, but Xu Ruyun doesn't think so. Su Xueqing is just helping a poor little girl. If she doesn't reach out, who will? Su Xueqing's small action can bring a bright future to a little girl.
When Xu's mother returned home and saw Su's mother, she told Xu Ruyun what she had said, "My daughter praised your little daughter, saying that your little daughter is so filial to you. She took care of all those things herself, and you didn't have to do it."
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