Chapter 137: Too bad, it’s so hard to choose
“……”Wu Qinfang thought she had heard it wrong, and she rubbed her ears.
"He must have another woman outside." Su's mother said, "Maybe not now, maybe a long time ago."
Wu Qinfang really wanted to shake Su's mother's arms, "Please wake up, please."
"That's not true. Your husband is such a family man, it's impossible for him to have a woman outside." Wu Qinfang said. She didn't want Su's mother to continue to toss and turn. If she has Alzheimer's, then she has dementia. Just be quiet and don't be like this.
Su's mother now does things without any logic, it just depends on what she wants to do. If Su's mother suddenly thinks of something, she will do it.
"Do you know something? Are you hiding it for him?" Su's mother asked.
"What can I hide for him?" Wu Qinfang said, "You are my friend, so I should hide him for you. It's okay, don't think too much. He is so old, how many women would like him. Does he have a lot of money? If he has promiscuous relationships with men and women, he will be arrested."
"That's right. Having casual sex between men and women is considered hooliganism and should be arrested." Su's mother nodded.
"Yeah, don't think too much about it." Wu Qinfang said, "Look at him, he goes home every night and spends all the money he earns at home. He doesn't have that much money."
"It takes some money to support a family," said Su's mother. "I also have to send money to Yamei. Yamei's life in the countryside is not easy, and I have to send her money. There are not many things in the countryside, and it is difficult for Yamei to buy anything she wants. She has to buy more things. When I go to buy things, they say I don't have enough money. One dollar can buy a lot of things. They say one dollar is too little. They just want to cheat me of my money."
In Su's mother's memory, prices were not as high as they are now, one dollar was still a relatively large denomination, and one cent could buy things. But now, who still uses one cent? No one uses it.
"They are not lying to you, things are just so expensive nowadays," said Wu Qinfang.
"It's too expensive, who can afford it?" said Su's mother.
"There is always someone who can afford it. If you can't afford it, others can." Wu Qinfang said.
"Those people are too rich." Su's mother sighed, "I want to buy something for Yamei, but I can't buy anything good. It's so expensive, I don't dare to buy it. But I have to buy it. Yamei's life in the countryside is too difficult, so I still have to buy it for her."
"Then buy it." Wu Qinfang said.
Su's mother went to the post office to mail things, but of course those things were not sent to Amelia Su. The Su family took the things away later, but they couldn't leave them in front of Su's mother, for fear that Su's mother would know. The Su family simply gave the things to Su Yanan, which was better than Su Yanan, and Su Yanan didn't need those things, so Su Yanan sent them directly to the welfare home. They were all brand new things, and the welfare home would accept them.
Su Yanan didn't want her mother to come to her house and see something familiar, because her mother would say that she had taken Su Yamei's things. Su Yanan didn't want to deal with her mother, because dealing with her would only make her sad.
When Su Sansao and the others knew that Su Yanan didn't want those things, they didn't give them to Su Yanan, but gave them to others. Su Sansao thought that Su Yanan was right. If Su's mother found out that the things were not sent out, Su's mother would definitely have something to say.
This is also why Mrs. Su San and her husband did not dare to leave those things at home.
Wu Qinfang accompanied Su's mother to buy some things, and she also paid some money.
"How can this be possible without you having to pay?" Su's mother refused Wu Qinfang to pay in the store.
"I didn't pay for everything, just a little bit." Wu Qinfang said, "Don't be polite, you and I are such good friends, who cares?"
"Okay, then I won't be polite with you." Mother Su said, "By the way...how is my little sister?"
"Well, she's living a good life. That family treats her very well." Wu Qinfang almost didn't come to her senses.
"That's good." Su's mother said, "Things are so expensive nowadays. If she were still at home, I really don't know how she would survive. I'm afraid she would starve to death."
"..."Wu Qinfang understood why the Su family was unwilling to talk to Su's mother. Su's mother really shouldn't have said those words.
While walking on the road, Su's mother talked about Su's father again, "After being married to him for so many years, he is less and less willing to listen to me. When I talk to him, it's like talking to a piece of wood."
"Men are all like this. They talk less. As long as they work hard and earn money to go home, that's good enough." Wu Qinfang said, "It's not okay to have such high expectations of men."
"He lied to me, saying that the house we lived in was allocated by our company, but it turned out to be a relative's house." Su's mother said, "We lived with our son in their house... The couple didn't have their own son, and they just wanted our son to take care of them in their old age."
"..." Wu Qinfang looked at Su's mother. This angle was too strange. What should she say? "He is your biological son. No matter how much others give him, he is still your biological son. This cannot be changed. A biological child is a biological child. You don't have to be so careful when talking to your biological son. Others have to be very careful, for fear of making your son unhappy. You can see that things outside are so expensive now. If your son can live with them, he can at least eat more. A half-grown boy needs to eat a lot."
"Ah, isn't it because he can eat?" Su's mother said, "I didn't say I was going to move out. When he eats, I always watch him. I serve him rice and press it down. That way, I don't have to serve too much rice, and it looks better."
"Okay..." Wu Qinfang said.
That was the son of Su Sange and his wife, how could they let their son go hungry? In other words, Su's mother felt that others were starving Su Xudong, and she treated Su Xudong as her own son and her own son as a relative.
When Su Xueqing went to the Su family again, she knew that her third brother and his wife had become relatives of the Su family.
It’s absolutely amazing! It’s really amazing!
Su Xueqing really didn't expect that after a person has Alzheimer's disease, there will be so many strange things. People around her couldn't expose Su's mother. Even if they did, Su's mother wouldn't believe that the person was really sick. She had her own logic. Su Xueqing didn't stay in front of Su's mother for long, but went out for a walk with Su San's wife.
"Sister-in-law, I'm sorry for putting you in such a difficult position." Su Xueqing said.
"A few days ago, Mom followed Dad. She suspected that he had another woman outside." Mrs. Su sighed helplessly, "We told her that he didn't have another woman, but she didn't believe it and just followed us."
"Let her follow." Su Xueqing said.
"Dad is retired, isn't he? He doesn't go to work, he just watches people play chess, and sometimes he plays chess or poker himself." Mrs. Su said, "Mom asked about it, and Dad said he was laid off. He said the factory was not doing well, so they asked their sons to go to work, and he himself was laid off."
"Then what?" Su Xueqing asked.
"Mom went to the room to look for money everywhere to see how much money she had left. Her passbook was for her own savings, and we didn't take it away." Mrs. Su said, "Dad asked us to take the passbook away before, but we didn't dare to take it, but we took out most of the money in it. Dad said that if the money was kept with mom, we wouldn't know when she would give the money to my eldest sister. We took out some of the money earlier, so we can feel more at ease."
Anyway, the money will be used on Su's mother, so let's focus on her first.
"Mom found the passbook and calculated it over there. She said that prices are so high now and they don't have any salary now." Mrs. Su said, "Mom is holding a rag and wants to work now. She is afraid that we will kick them out."
"Didn't we hire a nurse for her? Who would hire a nurse for someone who is going to be kicked out?" Su Xueqing said.
"We said it, but Mom doesn't think so." Mrs. Su said, "No matter what we say, it's useless. You know, Mom lives according to her own ideas now, and she ignores what others say."
Mrs. Su San and her husband have tried very hard to be nice to Su's mother, but Su's mother obviously doesn't think so.
"Mom felt that she was living under someone else's roof, and she said that she should eat less and let her son eat more, that is, let Xudong eat more." Mrs. Su San said, "Doesn't Xudong have to go to school? When he was not at home, we said he was working in the factory. Mom wanted to go to the factory to bring food to Xudong, but we stopped her, so she didn't go. But Mom secretly hid some food in the room, so there were many cockroaches in the room."
Mrs. Su San couldn't take care of too many things. She had already done everything she could.
"If that doesn't work, let Mom move out, or you can move to another house." Su Xueqing said.
"No, we can just live together." Mrs. Su said, "If we live in another house, it will be hard for us to look after Mom too much. We can't let Xudong come back home and face Mom alone. We should still be there to watch over her, to avoid any problems."
"That's true." Su Xueqing said. Others could hide, but it was hard for Su Sange and his wife to hide. They couldn't tell Su's mother to give Su Sange to someone else to raise. It was unrealistic. Su's mother had finally given birth to a son, so of course she had to raise him by her side instead of giving him to someone else.
If it was a daughter, Su's mother would believe it. For example, when Su Yanan told her that Su's mother gave Su Xueqing to someone else to raise, Su's mother believed it. Su's mother did not doubt it too much, nor did she think about going to see how Su Xueqing was. At most, she would ask Wu Qinfang. If Wu Qinfang said that the child was fine, Su's mother would not worry anymore.
"Mom is like that. She may not remember what happened the next day." Mrs. Su said, "Sometimes she says she has to do something, but she forgets it. Don't worry about Mom. Your brother and I are still here. We will take better care of her. With the nurse here, she can keep an eye on her. Then you don't have to worry about her not being able to find her way back home."
"It would be troublesome if Mom couldn't find the way back." Su Xueqing said, "If the caregiver thinks Mom is troublesome, just give her a little more money."
"The money we give to the caregiver is already enough." Mrs. Su said, "No need to give more. Mom is pretty good. She doesn't bother the caregiver too much, and she doesn't go out for a walk in the middle of the night or take a bath in the middle of the night. Some elderly people in their families have to go out for a walk in the middle of the night, take a bath several times a day, and need the caregiver to help them take a bath and wash clothes. That's troublesome."
Su's mother can at least walk and take a bath. As for clothes, they can just throw them into the washing machine. Some elderly people require caregivers to wash clothes by hand, saying that only by hand can clothes be washed cleanly. They also have various requirements for caregivers, such as not allowing caregivers to eat with them, and not allowing caregivers to eat family meals.
Su's father told Su's mother that the caregiver was hired by Su San's wife and her husband, so Su's mother didn't dare to say much or make too many requests.
"Mom thinks she's living under someone else's roof, so she doesn't dare to do many things." Mrs. Su said, "If not for herself, but also for her son, she has to endure it."
"Yes..." Su Xueqing was also convinced. Her own mother couldn't live a good life, but she had to live under someone else's roof. What else could she do?
It's not Su's father's fault that they fooled Su's mother. If they didn't fool her, Su's mother might still do something bad, which would be really embarrassing. Everyone in the Su family hoped that Su's mother could be quieter and didn't want her to mess up those messy things.
Su Xueqing did not go upstairs again, but went back directly. Su Xueqing was in the same state when she went to see her mother, and her mother did not recognize Su Xueqing.
Mrs. Su went back upstairs and saw her mother sitting in the living room watching TV.
"This relative of yours is really polite." Su's mother said, "She brought so many things with her. She gave you so many things, do you have to give her something as well, or is she here to ask you to do something for her?"
"She didn't come to ask us for help. She's a very close relative." Mrs. Su said, "She's my sister."
"This relationship is indeed very close." Su's mother said, "Is her family rich?"
"Their family is richer than ours," said Mrs. Su San. "So we won't be polite to her. She doesn't ask us to do anything, but sometimes we have to ask her to do something for us."
"That's not easy." Su's mother said, "It's still quite troublesome to deal with people. You can't always take things. You have to give things to people. Otherwise, others will gossip."
"My sister is a very good person. She doesn't care about these things." said Mrs. Su.
"It's hard to say what will happen in the future if you don't care about it now," said Su's mother.
"..." Third Su's wife was silent. Sometimes they felt a little suffocated when talking to Su's mother, not to mention Su Xueqing.
Su's mother couldn't recognize Su Xueqing, and she was still on guard against Su Xueqing. Su Xueqing didn't say anything, and Su San's wife felt aggrieved for Su Xueqing.
No wonder some people always say that people tend to degenerate as they get older. It is true that when Su's mother didn't have Alzheimer's disease, no matter how partial she was, she was not so disgusting. After she developed Alzheimer's disease, Su's mother often made people feel speechless when doing things, and what she said was not very pleasant to hear.
"Brothers should settle accounts clearly." Su's mother said, "If you settle accounts more clearly, the relationship will last longer."
Mrs. Su San really wanted to say: Have you figured things out with your eldest daughter?
Mrs. Su didn't say what she wanted to say. She couldn't even roll her eyes in front of Su's mother. Mrs. Su didn't think she was wronged. Su Xueqing was the most wronged.
Although Su Yanan was often ignored by her mother before, when Su Yanan came over, her mother still recognized her.
"Some things need to be settled more clearly." Mrs. Su San replied.
When Su Xueqing returned home and had dinner with Ning Yanjing, Ning Yanjing asked about Su's mother.
"It's okay." Su Xueqing said, "Mom is still the same, she just doesn't recognize me. She can still eat and go out for a walk, and she treats Xudong as her son, which is still good."
"It's indeed considered relatively good." Ning Yanjing said.
"Mom followed Dad a few days ago, suspecting that he had someone else outside. Now that she knows Dad has been laid off and unemployed, she has become much quieter." Su Xueqing said.
"Won't Mom realize that Dad wasn't laid off?" Ning Yanjing asked.
"In mom's memory, dad was still working at this time. If he wasn't working, he would have been laid off." Su Xueqing said, "Don't worry too much. Mom lives over there. She thinks she's living under someone else's roof, like a relative. She should be a little more careful. Mom was holding a rag to wipe the table or something. Third sister-in-law didn't let her do those things."
Su's mother is really not young anymore, and Su San's wife dare not let her do those things, for fear that something bad will happen to her. Su San's wife asked her mother to watch more TV and go out for a walk, but not to work.
"Third sister-in-law and his family are having a hard time." Su Xueqing said, "They have to face mom every day. Sometimes, money is really not a problem, what matters is the heart. Mom has become like this, and third brother and sister-in-law are still treated as relatives, which makes them feel even more uncomfortable."
"There's nothing we can do about it." Ning Yanjing said.
"There is no way." Su Xueqing said, "Now all major hospitals have not been able to cure Alzheimer's disease."
In her previous life, Su Xueqing saw a piece of news about Alzheimer's disease. Some foreign papers were fake, which led to the wrong research direction in China. Su Xueqing was not a medical student, so she didn't understand. She talked about this with others, but she didn't know when others would produce results if they did research.
People in China are also helpless because foreign technology is too advanced. Many times, everyone will subconsciously believe those excellent foreign papers. Who would have known that those people would actually forge the data, and the forgeries are so serious.
If a person is too honest, he will easily suffer losses.
"Mom, this is actually good for her." Su Xueqing said, "At least in her heart, she and Big Sister still have a good relationship. The rest of us are not important. What's important is her and Big Sister."
"You have become my child bride." Ning Yanjing said.
"Isn't this good?" Su Xueqing raised her eyebrows.
"Okay, okay." Ning Yanjing said, "I also want to meet you sooner."
"If we meet too early, there may not be any result." Su Xueqing said, "It's better to meet at the right time."
In the evening, Mrs. Su San talked to Brother Su San about Su's mother. Su's mother still asked them to settle things with Su Xueqing.
"When mom didn't have Alzheimer's, Xueqing would send something to her, and mom would send something to Xueqing. I originally thought mom was just caring about my younger sister, but now I think maybe mom wanted to be more clear." Third sister-in-law Su said, "Mom didn't want others to think that she took advantage of my younger sister too much, so she sent something so that others wouldn't say too much about her."
"Mom, did she...did she say that in front of my younger sister?" asked Brother Su San.
"No, my mother said this to me after my younger sister left." Third Sister Su said, "Brothers should settle accounts clearly."
Mrs. Su San had long known how biased Su's mother was, and when she heard those words, she felt bad. Su Xueqing was filial to Su's mother, but she was filial to her mother to the point of being wrong.
"Mom has been so clear with my younger sister, why doesn't she settle things with my eldest sister?" Third Sister Su said, "It's not that I don't allow Mom to make it up to my eldest sister. Mom has been making it up to my eldest sister for such a long time. Even when Mom was sick, she still remembered my eldest sister. Even you, you are not that important in Mom's heart."
"Whatever, mom." Brother Su San said, "If mom wants to take care of big sister, there's nothing we can do."
"How can we solve this problem?" said Mrs. Su. "We all want to give in to her. With her current state, it's hard to say who she will remember in the future. But one thing is for sure, even if mom forgets us, she can't forget big sister. Even if she wants to forget big sister, it will take a long time, and she will have to do it one by one. Of course, it doesn't have to take a long time, it depends on how long your mom can maintain this state and whether it will get worse."
Mrs. Su San hoped that Mother Su would forget all her children, as if Mother Su had never given birth to any children. This would be better than Mother Su only remembering Amelia Su's kindness.
"Eldest sister doesn't look at mom. When they met outside, she pretended not to see her." Mrs. Su said, "Eldest sister thinks mom is pretending. Mom didn't intend to send her anything. Eldest sister also thinks we hid the things mom bought for her. Eldest sister is unhappy."
Su Sansao and his wife were unwilling to give the things to Amelia Su. Even if they threw the things on the side of the road, they would not give Amelia Su a penny. At this time, Amelia Su did not think about caring more about Su's mother. Amelia Su only thought about herself.
"Big sister..." Brother Su frowned. Their big sister didn't act like a big sister at all. She didn't consider them at all.
When the neighbors in the community learned that Su's mother had become like that, they all sighed. The most filial child was the first to be forgotten, and Su's mother thought she had sent her child away. This was like stabbing a knife into the heart of the most filial child and then twisting the handle a few times.
Fortunately, Su Xueqing had already accepted Su's mother like this. She was not too sad, nor did she want to show off in front of Su's mother. In Su Xueqing's view, it was enough to send more things, and the rest was not her business. Su Xueqing just helped Su's mother too much, which led to Su's mother getting more and more demanding.
Wei Shanshan went to see Su's mother, who also disliked her. Wei Shanshan simply stood farther away so as not to upset her. When Su's mother was walking outside, Wei Yaozu saw her and thought she was too troublesome.
At the end of the year, Wei Yaozu brought another girl home. This girl did not ask for a lot of betrothal money, but directly called Su Yamei "Mom".
This made Amelia Su feel that this girl was too bad. She used to dislike Deng Meixian for asking for a betrothal gift, and she also felt that Deng Meixian asked for a lot of betrothal gift money. But now, Amelia Su felt that this girl did not want a betrothal gift, and there must be something wrong with this girl.
"Just have fun, don't be with her, don't get married." Amelia Su said, "If you really want to get married, you have to wait until she gives birth to a son for you before you get married. People in many places are like this, they get married after giving birth to a son, and don't get married if they give birth to a daughter."
"We haven't gotten married yet." Wei Yaozu said.
The girl had good hearing, and she heard the conversation between Amelia Su and Wei Yaozu. She was unhappy, but she behaved very well. The girl worked in an Internet cafe, which was opened by Wei Yaozu. She knew that Wei Yaozu's family had relocation money, and she also knew that Wei Yaozu's Internet cafe had not yet recovered its investment, and he had invested a lot of money, but Wei Yaozu's parents still had a lot of money. If it weren't for the money, she would not have associated with Wei Yaozu.
Wei Yaozu himself is not a man with good vision. He can be easily cheated of his money and still regards others as his good brothers.
Su Xueqing went to the Su family to give New Year gifts. When she put the things down, Su's mother asked Su Xueqing to take the things back.
"Take some back, you don't need so much." Su's mother said, "Just send something to your sister, you don't have to send anything to us."
"..." Su Xueqing didn't expect Su's mother to react like this, "It's just a little thing, not worth much money."
"Keep it and take it back." Su's mother said, "We can't afford it."
"You don't want it, but we do." Mrs. Su San came out of the kitchen. She was away for a while and this happened.
Mrs. Su sighed, Su's mother just wanted to make trouble.
"Little sister, put the food here." Mrs. Su said, "Would you like to eat here?"
"No, we have to go back." Su Xueqing said.
Ning Yanjing stood beside Su Xueqing. He was not very happy when he saw Su's mother's actions. Su's mother noticed Ning Yanjing's displeasure and did not say anything else.
When Su Yanan went to the Su family, Ning Yanjing and his wife had already gone back. After Su Yanan learned about Su's mother's actions from Su San's wife, she opened her mouth, but didn't know what to say for a while.
"Mom always gives me new insights." Su Yanan said.
"We didn't expect Mom to be like this." said Mrs. Su.
"Is mom like this to other people too?" Su Yanan asked.
"That's not the case." Mrs. Su said, "Maybe someone came to our house to give us gifts, so they didn't give us that many gifts."
"I don't think it's because other people didn't give so many gifts. Mom just subconsciously doesn't want to accept so many things from my little sister." Su Yanan said, "This is my biological mother. If she wasn't my biological mother, who would care about her?"
"Mom's condition hasn't gotten any worse lately," said Mrs. Su. "She just treats Xudong as her son."
"If the situation gets worse, she will lose her son. How can it continue to get worse?" Su Yanan snorted coldly.
Real life is not a TV show. In a TV show, no matter how badly the parents of the heroine have done, once the parents are sick or have Alzheimer's, the heroine will definitely quit her job to take care of her parents for a few more years. It's a pity that the heroine gave up her career just like that.
Su Yanan thought that neither she nor her younger sister could give up their jobs, and they could not be by her mother's side, and could not take good care of her. TV dramas are just TV dramas, and reality is reality.
There are too many things involved, and it cannot be explained in just a few words.
"Everyone hopes that time will stay at its best." Su Yanan said, "When the second day of the Lunar New Year comes...it's better not to have a dinner party."
The second day of the Lunar New Year was the day when married girls returned to their parents' home for a gathering. The Su family continued many customs and habits. Su's mother had already regarded Su Xueqing as a stranger. If Su Xueqing came back to eat with the Su family that day, Su's mother might have an opinion. What if Su's mother suddenly stood up and wanted to drive Su Xueqing away? That scene was too tragic. Su Yanan didn't dare to think about it.
Mrs. Su San also thought that they could not guarantee that Su's mother would not do something even more wrong in the future.
"Let's not have the dinner together next year." Mrs. Su felt that Su Yanan was right.
When Su Xueqing came over, Su's mother was always unhappy. The way Su's mother was on guard against Su Xueqing was too ridiculous.
Even the daughter-in-law Su Sansao couldn't stand it. Mother Su really didn't know who was the best person for her. A child who was too obedient was ignored and guarded against. People in the community felt that Su Xueqing was too good to her mother.
Maybe Su Xueqing didn't understand things that well and was not so kind to her family, so maybe her mother wouldn't treat her that way.
Ning Wenjun returned to China to celebrate the New Year with her family. She originally thought she would go to the Su family on the second day of the New Year, but she didn't expect her mother to not say anything.
On the evening of the first day of the Lunar New Year, Ning Wenjun couldn't help but ask Amelia Su, "Mom, don't we have to go to grandma's?"
"No need." Su Xueqing said, "You don't need to go tomorrow. You can go there another day."
"It has always been unshakable in the past." Ning Wenjun said.
"That was in the past. Now it's not the past." Su Xueqing said, "If you go there, your grandma won't recognize you. Do you think she is willing to have dinner with you? Go there once and come back, don't disturb your grandma."
"That's fine too." Ning Wenjun didn't like her grandma anymore. She used to think her grandma was okay, but now she thinks she's too much. Her mother was so nice to her grandma, but her grandma treated her own mother like this. "I don't really want to go there either."
"Your uncle and aunt are pretty good." Su Xueqing said, "You have to take a look at them."
"Then let's see." Ning Wenjun said.
On the second day of the Chinese New Year, the Su family was deserted. Su's mother did not ask Su Yanan and his wife to bring their children to dinner, and Su Yanan and his wife did not bring their children to dinner. Su Yanan thought that it was not easy for Su Xueqing to go to the gathering, so there was no need for her to go, so she let Su's mother think about Su Yamei.
Su's mother didn't expect that Su Yanan and his wife didn't come with their children, and asked Su's father, "Didn't you tell Yanan to come back for dinner?"
"Yamei didn't come, so why did Yanan come here?" Father Su said this deliberately.
Su's mother had made things like this, and Su's father really didn't want Su Yanan and the others to come. He came because he heard Su's mother say that Su Yamei didn't come back for the New Year.
When Su Yamei went to the countryside as an educated youth, during the Chinese New Year, Su's mother said a few words, saying that she didn't know how Su Yamei spent the Chinese New Year in the countryside. Su's father still remembers that he didn't expect to have to listen to Su's mother say those words now.
"Even if Yamei didn't come, it's not like Yanan can't come." Su's mother said.
Father Su felt that Mother Su was just asking a question as a matter of routine, just like Mother Su asking Wu Qinfang and Su Xueqing whether they were doing well. Mother Su had to ask a few questions. If she didn't, how could people know that she also cared about her other daughters?
"Yanan came here to listen to you talk about how Yamei is having a hard time. Is she happy?" Father Su said, "Back then, I told Yamei that if she found a partner in the city, she wouldn't have to go to the countryside. But she herself refused to find one. She has a stubborn temper and is afraid of finding a bad partner if she just picks one."
How many people try to stay in the city in order to avoid going to the countryside? Single men and women with jobs are very popular. It's not that Su Yamei can find someone anytime and anywhere. Su's father said to find someone for Su Yamei, but Su Yamei didn't want it. Su Yamei disliked others for their bad looks and for not knowing a few words...
Father Su now thinks of those things in the past, and he dislikes Amelia Su more and more. Father Su is not Mother Su, and he does not feel so guilty about Amelia Su.
On the third day of the New Year, Su Xueqing and her husband took Ning Wenjun there.
When Mother Su saw Su Xueqing's family of three, she also went to check the refrigerator and stood in front of the refrigerator door muttering, "I have to go buy some vegetables."
"We didn't eat here, we'll go back soon." Su Xueqing said.
Su Xueqing saw what her mother did and she understood what she meant. Her mother didn't want to keep Su Xueqing and her family for dinner.
"Next time we come, we must bring some dishes. If we don't, we won't have anything to eat." Su Yanan said.
Su Yanan found that Su's mother had done a lot of tricks. They had never seen Su's mother do so many tricks before, over and over again. Su Yanan was really impressed by Su's mother. Most people couldn't do those things.
"How can you be the same as them? They are serious guests." Su's mother said, "You can't be without food. When you entertain guests, you have to have food."
"..." Third Su's wife twitched her lips slightly. She had bought so many vegetables and put them in the refrigerator, but Su's mother said there were no vegetables.
"Third sister-in-law, let's go back first." Su Xueqing said. She didn't look at the refrigerator. She knew there were a lot of things in it.
Brother Su San and his wife were not stingy in this regard. They invited Su Xueqing and others to come for dinner, so they prepared enough food. But they obviously did not expect Su's mother to do that. Fortunately, Su Xueqing could accept such a Su's mother.
I'm used to it!
Su Xueqing was really used to it. She couldn't help but get used to it. Every time Su Xueqing came to see her mother, her mother would do something. Su Xueqing saw it all and she understood that her mother didn't like her.
Then don’t like it. Su Xueqing doesn’t need Su’s mother’s love.
Su Xueqing didn't know how things turned out like this. If it turned out like this, then let it be. Su Xueqing didn't want to face Su's mother any more. It wasn't that she was avoiding it, but there was no need. "Okay, you go back and eat." Su San's wife said, "You have a special chef at home to cook, and those dishes are good dishes."
Mrs. Su raised her voice and spoke for Su's mother to hear.
"You guys are already giving us face by coming here," said Mrs. Su.
"Third sister-in-law, it's okay." Su Xueqing said.
"Drive slowly on the road." said Mrs. Su San.
Ning Yanjing looked at Father Su, "Dad, we're leaving."
Su's mother had sharp ears. She heard what Ning Yanjing said, and she immediately rushed to Su's father and said, "Well, you said you have someone else outside, and he calls you dad."
When Ning Wenjun saw this scene, she just thought her grandma was too crazy.
"It's not dad, it's uncle. In the local dialect, dad and uncle sound a bit similar." Su Xueqing explained, "It's ba, the second tone."
"Is that so?" Su's mother was puzzled.
"Of course." Su Yanan said, "Mom, you also understand the local dialect, tell me, is that how it is called?"
"That's right, I didn't say it wasn't like that." Su's mother looked at Su Xueqing again, and she looked at Su's father again.
"She is my friend, not my father's illegitimate daughter." Su Yanan expressed her mother's doubts.
Who can bear the fact that a legitimate biological daughter becomes an illegitimate daughter?
Anyway, Su Yanan couldn't bear it anymore, so she had to say it out.
"No, I didn't mean that." Su's mother looked embarrassed.
"Let's go back." Su Xueqing said.
This time, Ning Yanjing did not speak, and Ning Wenjun did not call Su father, but called Su Sansao and his wife uncle and aunt.
"Uncle, aunt, let's go back." Ning Wenjun waved his hand.
After leaving the Su family, Ning Wenjun finally understood that her grandma had become very different. Ning Wenjun couldn't like such a grandma, who was clearly looking for trouble.
"Mom, how do you bear it?" Ning Wenjun asked Su Xueqing.
"Come over occasionally, not often, then it's fine." Su Xueqing said, "Don't hold out hope, then it's fine. Mom is no longer at the age of longing for maternal love, and it's good for Mom to have a precious daughter like you."
"Yes, I'm all that's needed for mom, and there's also dad." Ning Wenjun smiled and took her mother's hand.
"Let's go and have dinner." Ning Yanjing said.
"Let's have a big meal." Ning Wenjun said.
"Okay, anything is fine." Su Xueqing chuckled.
Su Yanan and her husband did not take all the children away. She did not tell Su's mother much about her children. Her own children are so big now, and Su's mother might think they are someone else's children. Explain more and make more mistakes, and talk less and you will never go wrong.
"What's going on?" Su's mother asked. She felt that these people were acting strange.
Tian Caixia glanced at Su's mother. Her grandmother was indeed a bit hateful. Her grandmother did such a thing, but she could still ask those questions with an innocent look. Su Yanan pulled Tian Caixia and told her not to go to see Su's mother.
No matter what Su's mother becomes, it has nothing to do with the younger generations like Tian Caixia. These younger generations do not need to take care of Su's mother, because Su's third brother and his wife will take care of her.
When everyone was sitting at the table eating, Su's mother opened her mouth and said, "Yamei..."
"Eat, eat the chicken leg." Mrs. Su San picked up a chicken leg for Tian Caixia, "Caixia, are you going to find a partner?"
"We're going to find it," Tian Caixia said. "We'll try to find it this year."
"Not bad, not bad." Mrs. Su said, "Eat more."
At the dinner table, it is very easy for people to pretend. They just serve more food to others or say that the food tastes good.
Wei Yaozu's girlfriend spent the New Year at Wei's house, and she asked Wei Yaozu to buy her gold jewelry, saying that there must be gifts, not without gifts. Wei Yaozu agreed, and he asked Amelia Su for money before the New Year. Amelia Su refused to give more money, fearing that Wei Yaozu would spend it on his girlfriend. As soon as Wei Yaozu's face fell, Amelia Su immediately gave him more money.
A man must have money. A man cannot be without money. If he has no money when socializing, he will be laughed at.
Without Wei Yaozu saying anything, Amelia Su started to make up for him. She told herself that she was doing it for her son, not for his girlfriend. Amelia Su also repeatedly told Wei Yaozu not to spend too much money on that woman, to be frugal, and not to invest so much since they were not married yet, or they would lose money.
In the gold shop, Wei Yaozu's girlfriend tried on a bracelet and then a necklace. The woman wanted to try on a thicker bracelet, but the clerk didn't let her. Gold is not very hard and is easy to deform, especially the old-style bracelets. Once the bracelet is deformed, it will be difficult to sell.
"Both styles look great." The girlfriend said, "Yaozu, which one do you think looks good? It's so hard to choose."
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