Chapter 143 Breaking up and getting back together is no joke
"It's not good that your second brother has no place to live," said Xu's mother.
"He deserves it." Xu Ruyun said, "Believe it or not, if you lend him money to buy a house, he and that woman will get back together immediately. You can't lend them money to buy a house, and you can't give them a house. My second brother wants to buy a house in the name of that woman's son, and then the two of them can live in the smaller house."
Xu Ruyun had already found out that Bu Xiulan wanted to buy a house for her son, but Bu Xiulan herself didn't have that much money, so she set her sights on Xu Erge. If Xu Erge didn't have the demolition money and the factory dividends, Bu Xiulan would never have been with Xu Erge.
Bu Xiulan is now forcing Xu Erge to buy a house. If the Xu family refuses to lend money, Bu Xiulan will not let Xu Erge live at home. Bu Xiulan's plan is very obvious, and Xu Ruyun knows it at a glance.
There is nothing wrong with Bu Xiulan being good to her own son, but she cannot hurt others. Bu Xiulan's behavior is too unbearable.
"Mom, you can't do anything about it." Xu Ruyun said, "Even if you do, my second brother won't come back. When he gets old, people will kick him out and won't let him live there. What will we do then? Let his biological son take care of him in his old age? Then his life will be really comfortable. He can find another woman outside, and when he gets old, his biological son can take care of the aftermath, and he won't have to suffer. Mom, if you really want to do this for the good of your precious grandson, then don't worry about these things. You can take care of them for a while, but not for a lifetime."
"Alas." Xu's mother sighed, "How did your second brother become like this?"
"I don't know either." Xu Ruyun said, "It may be the nature of men. Many men like to be cheap. When life is good, they have to look for excitement and be with other women. Other women can give them a sense of freshness, while their wives at home can't give them a sense of freshness."
"Your second sister-in-law...she has a high degree, so your second brother is under pressure as well." said Xu's mother.
"What kind of pressure can Second Brother have? Does he create pressure for himself?" Xu Ruyun rolled her eyes. "When Second Brother married Second Sister-in-law, he was so proud that he said that he could marry a female student from South City University."
At that time, Xu Erge was really happy, and he listened to Yu Li very much. He felt that it was not easy for him to marry a woman like Yu Li. In fact, it was not difficult, but too easy. Xu Erge married Yu Li easily, which led to Xu Erge not knowing how to cherish Yu Li.
What's wrong with Yu Li? She is an excellent student and also a teacher in school. She has very good conditions in all aspects.
If it weren't for the special circumstances at the time, Yu Li would never have married someone like Brother Xu.
"Men are just despicable." Xu Ruyun said.
"Don't say that about your second brother." said Xu's mother.
"Even if he is my second brother, I have to say it." Xu Ruyun said, "This is the fact, he is a despicable person."
“……”Mother Xu was helpless.
"He has to find another woman because he thinks other women are pitiful. What's so pitiful about them?" Xu Ruyun said, "There must be something hateful about pitiful people."
"Well, things have come to this, there is nothing we can do." Xu's mother said. "How can there be no solution?" Xu Ruyun said, "Mom, if my second brother comes back, don't let my second sister-in-law remarry him. They can't remarry. If they do, my second brother will continue to make mistakes. Anyway, my second brother and his sister-in-law already have a child, so it doesn't matter if they don't remarry."
Xu Ruyun was afraid that her mother would foolishly persuade Yu Li to remarry. That was impossible, as it would be like rubbing salt into someone else's wounds. If it were Xu Ruyun, she would never remarry. The child was already that old, and the child didn't necessarily need his father to be around.
"It's not time to remarry yet." said Xu's mother.
"Not now, but what about in the future?" Xu Ruyun said, "Anyway, you should stop talking and don't ask them to remarry. Divorce is divorce, and such a big scar cannot be healed."
"That's your idea." Mother Xu said, "What if they want to remarry?"
"Why remarry?" Xu Ruyun said, "Second sister-in-law is living on her own now, which is fine. She can look at her son and only need to think about her son's problems, not other problems. If she and second brother were still together, she would still have to think about second brother's affairs."
"..." Mother Xu looked at Xu Ruyun, "It's better for a woman to have a man."
"Wrong, a woman doesn't have to have a man, especially a woman who already has a child." Xu Ruyun said, "After a woman has a child, the man is dispensable and can stand aside."
"You." Xu's mother asked, "How is your son-in-law?"
"Okay." Xu Ruyun said.
"What if he..."
"If he has a woman outside, I will not divorce him. That's because he has enough money and a lot of assets. And my second brother, how much does he have?" Xu Ruyun said.
Xu Ruyun looked down on people like Xu Erge. If Xu Erge was not her biological brother, Xu Ruyun might have found someone to beat him up.
"Mom, you can't be soft-hearted at this time. You can't do anything else." Xu Ruyun said.
"I know, I know." Xu's mother said, "Don't worry, I already know everything. I won't lend him money."
"My second brother still has a salary. If things really don't work out, he can just go out and find a room or rent a house." Xu Ruyun said, "He has food and shelter by himself, and the money he has is more than enough. If it's not enough, it's probably because he gave the money to that woman."
Xu Ruyun said that none of the Xu family could lend money to Xu Erge, and Xu Erge's friends didn't want to lend money to him. They were worried that Xu Erge wouldn't be able to pay back the money, and they couldn't ask Xu Erge's biological son to pay back the money. Xu Erge could still work, but he couldn't work forever, and he might be laid off at any time.
Bu Xiulan originally thought that Xu Ruyun would agree to lend money to Xu Erge, but she never expected that even though Xu Erge was living outside, the Xu family still refused to lend money to Xu Erge. The Xu family was determined and those people just refused to give Xu Erge more money.
In this case, Bu Xiulan thought that she didn't need to be with Brother Xu anymore.
Yan Yichen didn't care about the Xu family's affairs, at most he would ask a question occasionally. The Xu family's private affairs still had to be taken care of by the Xu family.
In the bedroom, Yan Yichen sat there and took a short rest.
"Did you really not borrow money?" Yan Yichen asked.
"I can't lend it to you." Xu Ruyun said, "It's better to suffer a short pain than a long one."
"You can arrange it." Yan Yichen said, "He's your brother. If you want to lend him money..."
"It's impossible." Xu Ruyun said, "He made such a big mistake, why should I help him? If Second Sister-in-law didn't want to stay in South City, would she marry him? When they got married, Second Brother was very happy, but now he says Second Sister-in-law and he are not a good match, and Second Sister-in-law doesn't know how to understand him. How can Second Sister-in-law understand him?"
Xu Ruyun sneered, "Does he think he is a hot commodity? He himself doesn't have much ability, so he shouldn't even think about soaring to the sky."
"Don't be angry." Yan Yichen said.
"I don't like to talk about whether I'm angry or not." Xu Ruyun said, "I originally thought that my second brother would not look for another woman if my second sister-in-law was so good..."
Xu Ruyun felt upset when she thought about it. She thought that as long as she was there, the Xu family would behave themselves. Xu Ruyun once thought that even if something happened to Brother Xu and Sister-in-law Xu, there would be no problem between Brother Xu and Yu Li. It was Xu Ruyun who took it for granted. She had understood that it was her own problem. The Xu family was not that good. It was just because those people were Xu Ruyun's relatives that she thought they were not bad.
"Mom wants my second brother and his wife to remarry, but I say don't let them do that." Xu Ruyun said, "If a man can find a woman outside once, he can find one a second time. If they remarry, it will cause secondary harm to my second sister-in-law. If my second sister-in-law wants to remarry, I support her."
Yan Yichen looked at Xu Ruyun for a second longer. He didn't expect Xu Ruyun to say that.
"Am I wrong?" Xu Ruyun said, "In this era, men can find other women outside, and women can certainly remarry."
"Yes, that's right." Yan Yichen said.
"Don't worry, if you find another woman outside, I won't divorce you." Xu Ruyun said, "There are many things involved between us. You can have a woman outside, but it's best not to have an illegitimate child, and don't let the illegitimate child compete for the family property."
"There is no other woman, and no illegitimate child." Yan Yichen really did not look for another woman. For him, love or not is not particularly important. What is important is to live a more comfortable life.
Yan Yichen's father has an illegitimate child, and Yan's mother has mental problems. Yan Yichen doesn't want his children to grow up in a bad environment. Yan Yichen wants his children to live a more comfortable life. He wants his children to have the happy life that he never had. If he is like his father, then his children may not have a good life.
That means generation after generation will live unhappy lives, which is truly a sin.
"That's good. If you want to be with another woman, just tell me." Xu Ruyun said, "Let me know who that person is. Don't wait until she shows up with her child before letting me know."
"There won't be that day." Yan Yichen replied.
Ning Jiaxuan and Su Xueqing did not eat desserts with Yu Li, nor did they get together. Ning Jiaxuan and Su Xueqing basically just listened to other people talking about Yu Li. Now the matter has progressed to the point where Brother Xu broke up with his lover, and the house was not bought. Brother Xu's lover found another man. Other men were willing to buy a house for Bu Xiulan, so Bu Xiulan naturally chose another man. The other man was older, but the important thing was the house, and the house could be written in the name of Bu Xiulan's son.
Bu Xiulan made great sacrifices for her son. It is not easy for others to say whether Bu Xiulan did anything wrong. As for whether Bu Xiulan's son will be filial to her in the future, that is not certain.
"The belated affection is cheaper than grass." Su Xueqing said, "Besides, Xu Ruyun's second brother has been with another woman. It can be said that Xu's second brother has no other choice but to come back. For such a person, what's the point of letting him come back? It will only make himself uncomfortable."
"That's right." Ning Jiaxuan saw the puppets on the sofa and asked, "Are these puppets from the cartoons made by Yuhao?"
"Yes." Su Xueqing nodded, "They sell peripherals. Yuhao sent them here specially. There are all kinds of them."
"I live next door, and Yuhao didn't even know how many he gave me." Ning Jiaxuan said.
"Didn't he give it to you?" Su Xueqing wondered, "That shouldn't be the case. I saw that he brought the one for you."
"Give it to you?" Ning Jiaxuan opened her eyes wide. "That's right, Yuhao gave it to you, so there's no way he wouldn't give it to me. If he didn't give it to me, I would say something bad about him. How would he explain it to his parents when he got home?"
"Maybe it was for your family, and your family forgot to tell you." Su Xueqing said.
"..." Ning Jiaxuan thought about it and said, "I'll go look for it."
"Do you want me to help you look for it?" Su Xueqing asked.
"Okay, help me look for it." Ning Jiaxuan said.
Su Xueqing and Ning Jiaxuan went to look for it together. They soon found it in the storage room. There were several dolls in the bag. Those dolls were delivered two days ago, not a long time ago. If it was a long time ago, Ning Jiaxuan would have found it.
"I knew it would be like this." Ning Jiaxuan said, "It was most likely put there by my husband and his men, not by the maid."
The servant would tell Ning Jiaxuan when she put something in the storage room. It is very likely that the servant was not at home, and Ning Yuhao happened to come to deliver something at that time, and met Lou Mian and his son, and then the thing was put in the storage room. When Lou Mian went to do research, he forgot to eat, and he might not remember these things.
"I really can't count on them." Ning Jiaxuan said, "If I didn't know their personalities and thought Yuhao didn't send it to me, I would have gone straight to my sister-in-law and told her. How embarrassed would I be then."
"Not really." Su Xueqing said, "Would you go over and tell her about these things?"
"I was just joking." Ning Jiaxuan said, "I don't really care about these things, but I will still make jokes. Many people are like this, they like to say something jokingly. Even though it's just a joke, if you're not careful, people will take it seriously."
Ning Jiaxuan felt that she should have a good talk with her husband. Couldn't this thing be placed directly in the room? If it was placed in the bedroom, Ning Jiaxuan would have seen it immediately after returning home, without Lou Mian saying anything. Ning Jiaxuan felt that Lou Mian was the most likely person, and her son would not have put things in the storage room.
"In fact, we didn't search for long." Su Xueqing said, "It only took a few minutes and we found it."
"If it's placed in a conspicuous place, it will be easy to see. It's in an inconspicuous place like this that it's not so easy to see." Ning Jiaxuan opened the bag and took out the dolls. "Can't Lou Mian just open the bag?"
"Maybe I forgot it for a moment." Su Xueqing said.
"He will never forget his research." Ning Jiaxuan said.
"Research is different. If it is done well, it will benefit the country and the people." Su Xueqing said, "It would be great if we find something. I'm just afraid that we won't find it."
"Can't find it? Even if he can't find it, Lou Mian won't feel sorry." Ning Jiaxuan raised her voice, "He only knows his draft papers."
"..." Su Xueqing looked outside the storage room.
"I would say this even if he was in front of me." Ning Jiaxuan said, "Don't worry, I didn't burn his draft paper."
Ning Jiaxuan knew how much Lou Mian valued those things, so she would not enter Lou Mian's study casually, and would not enter if she could avoid it, nor would she let the servants in. Unless it was time to clean the room, Ning Jiaxuan would tell Lou Mian and let the servants clean the room when Lou Mian was there.
Lou Mian puts things in a messy way, but for him, it is not a mess as long as he can find the things. If he lets others sort it out, Lou Mian will have a hard time finding the things.
"Tell me, why did I find such a man in the first place?" Ning Jiaxuan sighed.
"Uh." Su Xueqing looked at Ning Jiaxuan, and she listened to what Ning Jiaxuan said.
"If I argue with him about this kind of thing, I'll hurt myself. If I don't argue with him, I'll also hurt myself." Ning Jiaxuan said, "I really can't expect him to do these things well."
"It's just a small thing, it's okay." Su Xueqing said.
"They are just some trivial matters... If he dares to make a mistake in a big matter, I will make him pay." Ning Jiaxuan said.
Ning Jiaxuan took out the dolls. She was going to put them on the sofa downstairs. If she put them in the room, Lou Mian might not see them. No, if she put them on the sofa downstairs, Lou Mian might not see them. Lou Mian only had his eyes on research, so how could he see those things?
Ning Jiaxuan changed into clothes of different colors and styles, but Lou Mian couldn't tell.
Su Xueqing and Ning Jiaxuan put the dolls on the sofa downstairs, and Ning Jiaxuan also put two in the room. Putting them in one more place would increase the chances of Lou Mian seeing them.
"Are you playing hide and seek?" Su Xueqing joked.
"How can this be called hide-and-seek?" Ning Jiaxuan said, "Just put it over there. Anyone with eyes can see it."
"You can see it." Ning Jiaxuan said.
After a while, Su Xueqing went back first.
In the evening, when Su Xueqing and Ning Yanjing were having dinner together, the two talked about dolls. Su Xueqing felt that the relationship between Ning Jiaxuan and Lou Mian was still okay. It depends on the person. If it were Su Xueqing herself, she would not tolerate someone who was immersed in research, but Ning Jiaxuan could stand it.
Once upon a time, Su Xueqing thought that Ning Jiaxuan was such a lively person, and she should find a man with more vitality, but Ning Jiaxuan ended up finding Lou Mian.
"The doll was placed in the storage room, and the bag was not even opened." Su Xueqing said, "When we went there, we didn't look for it anywhere else, we went straight to the storage room and started looking there. I guess Jiaxuan has gotten used to it, she knows that most things are placed in the storage room."
"Lou Mian would indeed do that." Ning Yanjing said.
"Jiaxuan also said that he did it." Su Xueqing said, "It's probably not just once."
"Any time is fine." Ning Yanjing said, "As long as Jiaxuan feels that she can live like this, then it's fine."
If Ning Jiaxuan felt that she couldn't live anymore and wanted to divorce, Ning Yanjing would stand by her. Anyway, Ning Jiaxuan and Lou Mian already had a child, and their divorce would not affect the cooperation between the two families.
"Sometimes I really admire Jiaxuan." Su Xueqing said.
"She is lively." Ning Yanjing said, "She knows how to get along with Lou Mian."
"Well, marriage still depends on the individual. Others can't help that much." Su Xueqing said, "My former classmate with Jiaxuan, her ex-husband now wants to remarry her."
"Remarried?" Ning Yanjing wondered.
"There is no need to remarry now." Su Xueqing said, "In my opinion, there is no need to remarry. If you remarry, you will have to take care of one more person, so it is better to be alone. It doesn't matter whether you remarry or not, unless you really want someone to accompany you. If you don't want someone to accompany you, then live by yourself and have a child. That's enough, you don't have to suffer."
When women in China remarry, they basically have to do a lot of housework and suffer a lot.
Su Xueqing felt that if Yu Li was smarter, she would not choose to remarry unless the Xu family gave her great benefits. If there were not so many benefits, why would Yu Li remarry? It would only disgust herself.
"Yu Li is pretty good." Su Xueqing said, "She didn't use cold violence against her husband, and she didn't look for another man. It's just... sometimes it's not that the woman is bad, but that the man doesn't know how to cherish her."
Even though Yu Li had done something wrong, how many people have not done something wrong when they were young? When Yu Li married Xu Erge, she did a lot of things and even accompanied him to set up a stall. Yu Li lived with Xu Erge seriously, but Xu Erge found another woman.
Su Xueqing thought about Yu Li's situation, and she felt that Yu Li had suffered a great loss. But in the eyes of some people, Yu Li did not suffer a loss. Yu Li stayed in Nancheng, had a stable job, and now had the demolition compensation. She had a child, and she didn't have to worry about her future. But Yu Li was a woman after all, and she was betrayed by her husband, and her heart was also hurt.
"The forest is big, there are all kinds of birds." Ning Yanjing said.
Ning Yanjing has seen many situations in his business. Some people have wives at home and lovers outside. Some people want to send women to Ning Yanjing, but Ning Yanjing naturally cannot accept it. Those people like to talk about women when they are together. Ning Yanjing does not waste time talking about those things with those people. He does not look for a lover. Su Xueqing is enough for him.
Others said that Ning Yanjing and Su Xueqing had been married for so many years, and they had long passed the seven-year itch. There was not so much passion in their life, and Ning Yanjing should find another woman. Ning Yanjing was so rich, he should enjoy making money.
Ning Yanjing ignored such people, as their minds were always thinking about finding women.
At this moment, Ning Jiaxuan asked Lou Mian, and Lou Mian remembered that he put the things in the storage room. Ning Jiaxuan asked Lou Mian to sit on the sofa, and Lou Mian did not notice any difference in the dolls. Ning Jiaxuan asked Lou Mian to take a look, and Lou Mian asked Ning Jiaxuan if she bought new dolls, saying that these dolls were not bad.
This made Ning Jiaxuan speechless, and she had to speak frankly. If she didn't speak frankly, Lou Mian wouldn't know about those things.
"I forgot." Lou Mian said, "I just put the things in the storage room."
"You are really handy." Ning Jiaxuan said, "Can't you just put the things in the room?"
"It's not good to put it in the room, it takes up space." Lou Mian said, "Put it in the storage room, and you can get it when you need it."
"If you don't tell me, how would I know where the things are?" Ning Jiaxuan asked, "Can't you just tell me?"
“I didn’t pay attention and forgot about it for a moment.” Lou Mian explained.
"You really forget." Ning Jiaxuan said, "I don't even know why I fell in love with you in the first place."
“I don’t know either.” Lou Mian muttered.
"..." Ning Jiaxuan was silent for a while. What else could she do? This was the husband she chose, and this was the only way he could stay with her.
As long as Lou Mian doesn't act like Second Brother Xu, everything will be fine.
In fact, there were female students in the school who wanted to get closer to Lou Mian, but Lou Mian didn't get too close to them. Lou Mian only focused on research and didn't think about having a romantic relationship with female students. When the female students showed some understanding, Lou Mian immediately reported the matter to the relevant leaders, letting them know that he had no thoughts about female students and that his teacher ethics were not a problem.
When the students in the school learned about Lou Mian's actions, they all admired him very much.
Xu Erge bought some things and went to visit his son, and also saw Yu Li. Xu Erge's son Xu Feiyang let Xu Erge into the house. Yu Li was not very happy to see Xu Erge. Yu Li did not stop Xu Erge from visiting the child, but it did not mean that Xu Erge could enter the house.
"You're back so late? I cooked dinner." Brother Xu said, "Would you like to eat something?"
"Are you here just to see the child, or do you want to do something else?" Yu Li asked.
"I..." Brother Xu said, "Can we remarry?"
"No." Yu Li said, "There are already big cracks in our marriage. There is no need to continue to maintain it. The best option is for each of us to be well. If you want to see the child, then come and see him. After you're done, you can go back."
"Mom, there is an empty room at home..."
"Xu Feiyang." Yu Li looked at Xu Feiyang. "You are already so old, do you lack fatherly love? If your father and I don't remarry, will you not be able to live? The most important thing for you now is to study hard so that you can take the college entrance examination."
Yu Li glanced at Brother Xu and said, "Don't even think about starting with your son. Your son can understand you, but I can't. Don't say that a prodigal son who returns is more valuable than gold. I'm lucky that I didn't find a stepfather for Feiyang."
Xu Erge has been visiting Xu Feiyang recently, and Xu's mother has also said something to Xu Feiyang. They all want Yu Li to remarry Xu Erge. Yu Li is unwilling to remarry, and Xu Ruyun also wants Yu Li not to remarry. Of course, if Yu Li wants to remarry, Xu Ruyun will not stop her. But if Xu Erge looks for another woman next time, Xu Ruyun will not care.
Yu Li felt that Xu Ruyun was right and that it was better not to remarry. Yu Li couldn't always ask Xu Ruyun to make decisions for her, so she had to handle these things herself.
"After you finish looking after the children, you can go back." Yu Li didn't plan to let Brother Xu live at home.
Xu Erge and Bu Xiulan broke up, so what? It wasn't Yu Li who made them break up, it was Bu Xiulan who saw that she couldn't get any benefit from Xu Erge, so she broke up with Xu Erge. If Bu Xiulan could still get some benefit from Xu Erge, she would definitely stay with Xu Erge.
"I..." Brother Xu looked at his son.
Xu Feiyang avoided his second brother Xu's gaze. He couldn't say anything more because his mother was unhappy.
After Brother Xu left, Yu Li looked at Xu Feiyang again.
"Don't think about your dad." Yu Li said, "I won't stop you from meeting. If you want to go out with him, that's fine. If you want to follow him, that's fine too. But you have to know that there's no chance between your dad and me. You haven't even started college yet, you haven't graduated yet, if you follow your dad, will he consider you? If he really considers you, he wouldn't be with another woman. You haven't even taken the college entrance examination yet, and he did this."
Yu Li was worried that Xu Erge's affairs would affect her son's college entrance examination. She didn't ask her son to be admitted to Nancheng University, but her son had to be admitted to a university anyway. Only if her son was admitted to a university could he find a good job in the future. Don't say that it doesn't matter whether you go to university or not, and that people with low diplomas can also become big bosses. Everyone's situation is different. Others with low diplomas can become big bosses, but it doesn't mean Xu Feiyang can do the same.
"You are a student, and the most important thing is to study." Yu Li said, "You don't need to interfere in adults' affairs."
"Mom, are you looking for a partner?" Xu Feiyang asked.
"No." Yu Li said, "I'm not looking for him now, and I probably won't look for him in the future. Having a terrible ex-husband like your dad is enough. I don't want to serve others."
Is it easy for these people to get married?
For most women, when they get married, they serve their husbands. They do housework at home and don't have a job, so their husbands criticize them. If they go out to work, their husbands still criticize them.
"You don't have to worry about having a stepfather who wants to take over your property." Yu Li said, "You don't have to listen to those people, understand?"
Yu Li said these words to Xu Feiyang bluntly, perhaps her son thought she was going to find another man and she didn't want a stepfather.
"I'm not not looking for a stepfather for you because of you, but because I don't want to suffer." Yu Li said, "It's enough that I've fallen into such a big trouble with your father. Your father made a mistake and went out to have fun. Now you still want to remarry? Dream on."
Yu Li thought that she was a living person, not a toy in the hands of Brother Xu, and she would never allow Brother Xu to manipulate her.
Brother Xu wanted to remarry Yu Li and resume their previous life. He went to find Xu Ruyun and asked her to persuade Yu Li.
If it weren't for the fact that Second Brother Xu broke up with Bu Xiu Lan, Second Brother Xu would not have been able to enter Xu Ruyun's home.
"Don't think about it." Xu Ruyun asked someone to pour a glass of water for Brother Xu. "Everyone has to be responsible for their own actions. You are sorry to your second sister-in-law. It's not her fault that she doesn't want to remarry you now. It's your fault."
"But……"
"Don't say buts." Xu Ruyun said, "You have a salary, so you can rent a house. I also told you that I will give you a small house with one bedroom and one living room. The house cannot be transferred to you, but you can live in it. This is already very good, what else do you want?"
"I just made a mistake that many men would make." Brother Xu said, "I won't do that again in the future. I..."
"Later? Who told you later?" Xu Ruyun said, "If you can trust a man's words, even a sow can climb a tree."
"Ruyun." Brother Xu frowned, "Whose sister are you?"
"I'm your sister and Feiyang's aunt." Xu Ruyun said, "For everyone's sake, don't remarry. If you do, there will be more trouble."
"Can't you just give me a chance?" Brother Xu said, "Wouldn't it be OK if I just don't make mistakes in the future?"
"Don't make mistakes in the future?" Xu Ruyun sneered, "Do you believe it? Anyway, I don't believe it, and my second sister-in-law can't believe it either."
"..." Brother Xu's expression was not very good.
"Brother, you can live on your own, not that you can't." Xu Ruyun said, "Throw your clothes in the washing machine and wash them. If you don't want to clean the house, ask the housekeeper to do it. It's nothing."
"Is it really impossible?" Brother Xu said, "Mom tried to persuade her, but it was useless."
"Mom just felt too bad for you, so I said something I shouldn't have said." Xu Ruyun said, "I told mom a long time ago, don't think about remarrying, don't think about remarrying. At this time, mom is still helping you. It's your problem, not your second sister-in-law's problem. If you have any shame, do more things and don't just talk about remarriage."
Xu Ruyun hated the way men wanted to settle things as soon as they opened their mouths. Brother Xu had done so many wrong things, but he didn't seem to really reflect on himself. He just wanted to rely on the people around him to persuade Yu Li. This was her brother, not someone else. Xu Ruyun rolled her eyes.
"Don't say that in front of me in the future." Xu Ruyun said, "If you really treat Second Sister-in-law and Feiyang well, prove it with your actions."
Two days later, Xu Ruyun went to see Yu Li and told her that Second Brother Xu was looking for her.
"Second sister-in-law, I call you Second Sister-in-law because I only recognize you as my Second Sister-in-law, but you don't have to remarry Second Brother." Xu Ruyun and Yu Li walked on the school track, "You don't have to care about what your parents think. Whatever they think is useless. When Second Brother divorced you, he left the house with nothing. We signed a contract, and the contract counts. If Second Brother comes back, you don't have to accept her."
"You are really different from them." Yu Li said.
Xu's mother told Yu Li that it was enough, and Xu's sister-in-law also persuaded Yu Li to remarry. Even Yu Li's family members said that she could remarry.
If a man makes a mistake and is willing to turn back, everyone will say that such a man is still worth keeping and asks women to be more tolerant. But Yu Li doesn't want to be tolerant. If they really remarry, Brother Xu will still find fault with Yu Li in the future.
Yu Li has tried very hard to be nice to Xu Erge. In front of Xu Erge, she did not say profound words, nor did she force Xu Erge to agree with her. Yu Li knew that Xu Erge was not well educated, so she also accommodated Xu Erge and did not look down on him. Yu Li used Xu Erge to stay in Nancheng, and she did not want to be an ungrateful person.
If Yu Li wanted to find another man, she would have done so long ago, but she didn't. It's not that Yu Li didn't meet someone she could talk to, but she didn't talk to him for too long because she knew that if she talked to him for too long, she would easily fall into ruin.
"I am naturally different from them." Xu Ruyun said, "We are all women. Women should not embarrass other women too much. We should be more considerate of each other."
In her previous life, the people around Xu Ruyun all told her not to divorce, saying that Liao Jiankai had just made a mistake that many men would make, and that Liao Jiankai and Deng Manni should just separate. Those people just said something and wanted Xu Ruyun to do what they said, without considering how sad Xu Ruyun was.
Those people asked Xu Ruyun to think more about the child, saying that it would be difficult for Xu Ruyun to find a partner as good as Liao Jiankai. One by one, Xu Ruyun compromised. Xu Ruyun did not compromise, but she was reborn.
After rebirth, Xu Ruyun told herself not to fall in love with a man easily and not to devote herself to a man. This is the case between Xu Ruyun and Yan Yichen. They know each other well and can live without deep love.
"If you don't want to remarry, then don't remarry. If you remarry, it will be difficult to divorce again." Xu Ruyun said, "No matter who the second brother finds to persuade you, you just need to be firm in your thoughts. Don't worry about whether what they say is nice or not. Those people just think that women can't live without men."
"Well, I really don't want to remarry." Yu Li said, "Feiyang is worried that I will find him a stepfather. He wants me to remarry his biological father. I also said that I can't remarry his father. Feiyang is in high school. If I want to keep him from being affected, I will remarry his father... After a while, there will be other things."
"That's right." Xu Ruyun nodded. "It's better to suffer a short pain than a long one. Feiyang is still young, so it's inevitable that he will be a little scared. It's okay. Explain it to him clearly, and he will understand."
"I don't plan to find a stepfather for him, nor do I plan to remarry his father." Yu Li said, "I told him that having him as my son is enough."
Yu Li said this to Xu Ruyun. Xu Ruyun can make the decision for the Xu family. If Xu Ruyun knows these things, the Xu family will believe it. If Yu Li says it herself, those people will think that Yu Li is just talking nonsense and they will think that Yu Li will remarry in the future.
Xu Ruyun could understand Yu Li. She shared the same idea as Yu Li that women did not have to remarry. As long as they lived a good and comfortable life, that was more important than anything else.
When Xu Ruyun told her mother about Yu Li's idea, her mother still didn't believe it, "Do you really believe that she won't remarry soon?"
"I believe it." Xu Ruyun said.
"If she really meets someone she likes, she will still remarry." Xu's mother said, "If she really doesn't plan to remarry, then she should remarry your second brother."
"Second brother, he is not worthy!" Xu Ruyun still said the same thing. Second Brother Xu is not worthy of Yu Li.
"Your second brother has already realized his mistake." Xu's mother said, "Can't you help your second brother?"
"I can't help you." Xu Ruyun said, "Second brother doesn't know he is wrong, but he is thinking about turning back because he is not comfortable with his life now. If his life becomes comfortable, will he turn back?"
"How can you say that about your brother?" said Xu's mother.
"It's because he is my brother that I said it so directly." Xu Ruyun said, "If he wasn't my biological brother, I wouldn't care about him."
"It would be great to remarry. Your second sister-in-law is old and she needs someone to accompany her..."
"Is there someone accompanying my second brother?" Xu Ruyun said, "Let my second sister-in-law take care of my second brother? If he really needs someone to accompany him, then hire someone."
"It's inconvenient to hire people, and we don't know if those people will play tricks." said Xu's mother.
"We have relatives here, and my second brother and his wife have children, so what are we afraid of?" Xu Ruyun said, "Mom, don't worry so much about my second brother. He became like this because of his own actions. We didn't ask him to find another woman, he did it on his own."
"Feiyang is about to take the college entrance examination..."
"Feiyang is not a reason for the second sister-in-law to remarry the second brother." Xu Ruyun said, "Mom, do you want to become like Su Xueqing's mother?"
"Forget it, I'm old and can't care so much." Xu's mother was afraid when she heard Xu Ruyun's words. She was afraid that Xu Ruyun would not care about her. Xu's mother now lives a very comfortable life with the money Xu Ruyun gives her every month.
On this day, Lou Mian was reported by a female classmate at school. The female classmate said that Lou Mian asked her to go out for dinner together in order to harass her. The key point was that there were other students eating together. The school allowed those teachers to teach a few undergraduates, and the school also provided funding. Undergraduates could not do much, so some teachers simply invited undergraduates to dinner.
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