After hearing these words so many times, Gu Sang could only respond with silence.
The idea of favoring boys over girls has always existed, even in modern times, not to mention the ideas of ancient people.
Seeing his beautiful sister busy in the kitchen, Gu Sang got up and went to the kitchen to help.
Although he was stopped by the beautiful sister, Gu Sang still saw that some vegetables had not been washed, so he helped to clean them in the sink.
"Sister, your daughter is so well-behaved. You are so good at raising a daughter." Gu Sang praised.
The beautiful sister is not like most parents who only belittle their children.
Or say something negative.
She didn't, she just nodded in agreement, with a smile of pride in you in her eyes, and said:
"She is indeed very obedient and rarely gives me any worries."
"In fact, although children are young, they also know how to think. It is mainly us adults who need to educate them. For example, when we hit or scold them, we should also tell them where they have done wrong."
"Children have simple minds. You have to tell them what they did wrong so they know how to correct it."
Hearing these words, Gu Sang couldn't help but laugh.
"Yes, it reminds me of an incident when I was a child. I stole my grandma's medicine because it was sweet and tasted like sugar water."
"I would steal my grandma's medicine every day. At first, she didn't notice and thought she had misremembered it."
"Later, she bought it again and I ate it all secretly again. That's when grandma started to get suspicious. When she asked me about it, I admitted it and then she beat me."
"But I didn't know why my grandma hit me. I thought she was hiding the delicious food from me. Later, I went to my classmate's house and saw the medicine there."
"I even instigated two classmates to make the medicine and drink it together."
The beautiful sister laughed happily, shook her head and said, "Hahaha, how did you find out that this medicine can't be drunk?"
"My classmate was even greedier than me. I secretly took one packet a day, but he got up in the middle of the night and secretly made pills. He finished a box of more than 20 packets in one day. Do you think he could go unnoticed? Later, he was severely beaten by his parents, who told him that this was medicine and he couldn't drink it carelessly."
"Luckily, we were lucky enough not to die from eating it."
Laughter rang out again in the kitchen.
The man opened the door and came in. He heard the laughter in the kitchen and asked with a smile:
"What are you talking about so happily?"
After a while, the man took off his suit jacket and brought in some fruit to wash.
After washing, the man drove Gu Sang and his wife out of the kitchen, put on an apron, handed the fruit plate to his wife and said:
"Ms. Gu Sang, come and have some fruit. You are a guest, how can you enter the kitchen?"
"Wife, you should go out and chat with the guests."
"I'm going to show off my cooking skills. At noon, I'm going to let you taste my cooking."
Gu Sang and Meiyan sister came to the living room, sat on the sofa, ate fruit and chatted, and then talked about the issue of children's talent education.
"Actually, I like the guzheng very much and I really want my daughter to learn it."
"But she already has dance and painting classes. If she signs up for a guzheng class, she won't even have time to play."
Gu Sang asked, "Have you asked her if she likes the guzheng? Actually, children nowadays have a lot of homework, unlike us in the past when we had less homework."
"If she wants to learn the guzheng, she can just sign up when she wants to learn it later."
"And to be honest, if you like it, you can go and learn it. Guzheng is not difficult to learn, but mastering it is difficult."
"But we're not going to participate in professional competitions. We just need to learn basic skills, such as being able to read music and play."
The beautiful sister smiled, sighed and said, "I was born tone-deaf and know nothing about music. I'm afraid I'm too stupid to learn."
"However, what you said makes sense. We'll see when the time comes."
"Maybe I'll get inspired someday."
"It's better to save some money for now and let the children learn first. After all, various talent training classes are quite expensive nowadays."
Gu Sang nodded: "I know this, it is indeed a bit expensive..."
At this point, Gu Sang changed the subject and asked, "You've enrolled your daughter in so many training classes. Has anyone said anything to you?"
The beautiful sister replied: "Yes, many people think that signing up for so many training courses is useless, but in this society, everyone has signed up for training courses, so we can't not sign up."
"This isn't vanity or comparison; it's forced internal competition. It's impossible for all her friends to participate in some competition and leave her out of the picture."
"Since I gave birth to her, I must do my best to give her a good life. I can't let her feel inferior to others and live in inferiority."
Gu Sang nodded in understanding. They all had some inferiority complex when they were young.
Some of them were slandered by their parents in front of outsiders, and some of them were because all their friends were learning English while they didn’t pay for it…
Because Gu Sang asked on purpose and wanted to let the ancients know some of the later generations' ideas about children's education, the beautiful sister also told him everything she knew. When talking about the previous education, both of them revealed some depressed emotions in their eyes.
When their parents do not defend them in front of outsiders when they are young, they will develop a sense of inferiority in their hearts, and this inferiority complex will accompany them as they grow up.
The ancients who heard the conversation between the two were all lost in memories.
Then they sadly discovered that it seemed that all parents in the world were the same and liked to belittle their children in front of outsiders.
Because people in the Central Plains advocate education of humility.
No parent would ever say, "Yes, my child is great and amazing" when others praise their child.
At this moment, they suddenly realized that when they were young, they hated their children and swore that they would praise their children after they had them. But when they really grew up, got married and had children, they were just like their parents. In front of outsiders, they would only say, "Oh, my child is ignorant. He is not as lively and lovable as your child."
They were so immersed in such memories that they forgot to mention what was the point of teaching girls so much.
It wasn't until the hostess's mother-in-law called the hostess via video that the ancients' attention was diverted back.
The live broadcast did not show the mother-in-law's face to the ancient people. Everyone could only guess by listening to her voice that the mother-in-law was very young.
Mother-in-law: "Xiao Qian, I sent you some local specialties. They will probably arrive around tomorrow. Please pay attention to answer the courier's call tomorrow."
"The last time you went back home, the vegetables in the fields were not ripe yet. Now they are ripe and I sent them to you. Remember to eat them while they are fresh."
The beautiful sister smiled and thanked politely: "Thank you, Mom."
After hearing his grandmother's voice, the child ran to his mother and called out sweetly into the phone, "Grandma, I'll dance for you next time I come back. The teacher praised me for my talent in dancing."
The child's grandmother said with a smile, "Okay, my good granddaughter is so good. Granddaughter, what do you want to eat? Grandma will give you a red envelope..."
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