Gu Bin waved his hand, "There's no need to thank me. We're from the same hometown, so it's only right that we help each other out."
After saying that, he walked towards the restroom. He had already achieved his goal, and Xie Yan seemed to be doing well, so he should take care of his personal needs as soon as possible!
Xie Yan watched Gu Bin walk away, thinking to himself, "No wonder he's a rich man from the capital! Look at him, he doesn't believe in doing good deeds anonymously!"
Moreover, he not only mentioned his concern for her, but he did it so naturally. Xie Yan really admires this kind of person! Look how well he handles people!
If this were her in her past life, tsk tsk, she wouldn't have said such a verbal relationship to the other person without taking any action.
Of course, sometimes even if you do a good deed, you might not tell your friends about it, because it feels like you're being too deliberate, like you're asking for credit!
Sigh! No wonder he could only be an ordinary wage earner in his past life, working himself to the bone, and the boss wouldn't even notice!
If he had that kind of eloquence in his past life, he would have been promoted and received a raise long ago! He wouldn't still be just an ordinary employee!
You really can't compare people; comparing people will only make you miserable, and comparing goods will only make you want to throw them away! There's absolutely nothing wrong with that!
Xie Yan suddenly remembered a sentence he had heard in his previous life: "What makes you think that ten years of hard study can be worth three generations of business for someone else!"
These words may sound disheartening at first, but if you think about them carefully, you'll realize that they make a lot of sense!
You ordinary people are different from those raised by aristocratic families!
Their connections, resources, speech, knowledge, and experience are on a different level from ordinary people like us. So the biggest watershed in life is being born into the right family!
Xie Yan's family in this life is just an ordinary working-class family. Both her parents are ordinary workers, so Xie Yan can only envy those who are born into good families!
Having lived two lives, Xie Yan had come to understand a principle: "You must love yourself more than anyone else. No one can defeat you through other people's belittling, dragging down, or sarcasm. Only when you acknowledge and believe their words will you truly suffer and be hurt by them, allowing them to see you fall to the bottom!"
"You must love yourself the most, the very most. No one deserves your love more than you! Loving yourself is the prerequisite for loving others and this world. Believe in yourself, and save yourself from danger a thousand times over! Don't fantasize about anyone else saving you!"
Once a person is saved by someone else, they are most likely to regard that person as their savior, and their spirit and emotions will be placed on him/her.
However, one's spiritual and emotional anchor can be books, mountains, rivers, or anything else, but never people.
People are changeable and complex; they are not static. If you invest too much of your spirit and emotions in someone, you are very likely to end up hurting yourself!
"Never have too many expectations of others. Think about it, you can't even fully control yourself, so how can you expect others to remain unchanged!"
So you can dream of being saved by a hero riding on a colorful cloud, but you must understand that it's just a dream. In reality, you are your own hero!
Lowering expectations for everything and everyone is the best lesson Xie Yan has learned in his life. When your expectations are low, if the feedback you receive from this matter or the person is normal or slightly higher, you will be pleasantly surprised. If it happens to be slightly lower, you will not be disappointed!
"Although this mindset is pessimistic, it can protect you to the greatest extent!"
Xie Yan looked at the other busy educated youth. The saying "misfortune may be a blessing in disguise, and a blessing may be a misfortune in disguise" was vividly displayed in front of him. There was no more appropriate way to describe this group of people.
They are having a hard time now, but things will get better in the future! We live in a good era!
The country is developing, and it is truly an era where knowledge can change one's destiny!
This is truly an era where hard work will be rewarded!
There's a saying that goes, "If you stand at the forefront of the times, even a pig can fly!"
These people just happened to catch up with this era, and as long as they work hard in the future, their names will appear on the rich list!
Xie Yan secretly vowed that he would also stand at the forefront of this trend in the future!
Thinking of those unscrupulous companies in my previous life, they engaged in all sorts of fraud and wanted people dead in every industry. They covered everything from food and drink to clothing, shelter, and transportation, leaving no stone unturned and omnipresent!
Since I have foresight in this life, I must curb their development and nip them in the bud, so that ordinary people in this future world will not have to live such difficult and painful lives!
Of course, these beautiful visions will only be realized in the future, and they are not something that Xie Yan can do alone!
Xie Yan's first problem is that he has nowhere to put his luggage. He thought that this educated youth settlement should at least have a locker, right?
As it turned out, Liu Yihong told him that they had all had their trunks made by the village carpenter themselves! Apart from the kang (heated brick bed), the educated youth settlement really had nothing else!
Now, they bought all their own things little by little themselves!
Actually, there weren't so many things at the beginning. When Liu Yihong went to the countryside, he came with the dream of building the rural areas. But after arriving, he found that he was completely useless in the countryside and even the most basic thing, supporting himself, was difficult!
He should have learned from the farmers here! Later, he gradually developed the idea of ​​returning to the city, but he couldn't go back. He sent letter after letter to his family, opening the letters again and again with hope, only to be met with disappointment.
Moreover, another group of educated youth arrived the following year, and he felt that his return to the city might be a long way off! The letter he had written and was about to send was also swallowed up by the fire!
Since he couldn't go back to the city, he decided to settle down here. Gradually, he accumulated more and more belongings, such as tables and chairs.
Seeing Xie Yan and his group of educated youth arrive, Liu Yihong became even more certain of his previous thoughts! His hope of returning to the city in this lifetime was slim!
After getting the carpenter's address from Liu Yihong, Xie Yan and the other newcomers went to Li the carpenter's house as a group. Li the carpenter was an old carpenter in the village.
His father was a carpenter, and he passed on the craft to his son when his son grew up!
Carpenter Li's craftsmanship is also excellent. Not only do people in Xiliu Village ask him to make furniture, but people in the neighboring Xiaohe Village also ask him to make furniture.
When Xie Yan and his group arrived, Carpenter Li told them very directly that he was busy with farming recently and had no time to do carpentry work. If they wanted to build something new, they would have to finish the farming season!
Fortunately, Li the carpenter had some boxes that had been made beforehand, so the five of them each bought one box for 50 cents each.
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