Chapter 97: Just ask Father and Mother Lu
Jiang Xian had never thought about how to move out of the educated youth site, but at least she had this idea in her mind.
Lu Bin brought up the matter so bluntly that she didn't know how to respond.
Jiang Xian opened his mouth, but found it somewhat difficult to speak.
Even if Lu Bin didn't care about the gossip of the villagers, Jiang Xian actually did care a little.
She was not afraid of anything, but Jiang Xian was more afraid of the Lu family and would be implicated with her.
She had seen the faces of those villagers and how terrifying they were.
Jiang Xian felt conflicted, especially when she saw Lu Bin's serious expression when he looked at her. She knew how serious he was about what he said.
If she didn't reply seriously, it would be a waste of the man's feelings.
But if they were to reply, after all, this matter was not as simple as they had imagined.
If they want to move into the Lu family ahead of time, they also need to seek the opinions of other members of the Lu family. After all, the Lu family is not their territory.
It’s not easy to just move in.
At least we should respect the opinions of Mr. and Mrs. Lu. If they care about it and feel that it is inappropriate, then there is no need to cause trouble.
Time just passed by, minute by minute.
During this time, Lu Bin kept staring at Jiang Xian, waiting for her answer.
In fact, Lu Bin was quite nervous when he proposed this idea. After all, it was a bit abrupt, and he didn't know whether Jiang Xian would think that his proposal was a bit presumptuous.
But he was indeed concerned about Jiang Xian's safety.
There is no selfishness at all.
The two of them are about to get married, and even if they haven't had the wedding yet, it won't take long, so there's no need for him to rush.
In the end, if Jiang Xian is upset, it would be counterproductive.
Jiang Xian, on his part, was struggling over how to talk to Lu Bin and explain things clearly.
The two people's eyes met in mid-air, and they could tell from each other's eyes that the other had something to say.
Lu Bin and Jiang Xian are not the type of people who are good at beating around the bush. They are also quite straightforward in expressing their emotions.
The two people basically said in unison:
"You go first."
"You speak first!"
After they finished speaking, the two looked at each other, and instantly, they couldn't hold it back anymore and both started laughing.
There was a long silence again.
Jiang Xian was still sorting out how to talk to Lu Bin.
Before Jiang Xian could figure it out, Lu Bin spoke first:
"Since you have something to say, I'll give you some time to organize your words."
Lu Bin could see the struggle in Jiang Xian's heart, so he chose to speak first and express his thoughts, and then wait and see what Jiang Xian would think after hearing what he said.
"Don't be anxious, just listen to what I have to say first, and don't think too much."
"I asked you to move into our house ahead of time. I didn't have any other intentions. I was mainly thinking that you couldn't get along with those people at the educated youth center. Besides, they always bullied you. I was afraid that you would be unprepared and if you were bullied again like today, there would be no one to support you."
"If you move to our house, you can avoid these troubles to a large extent. I don't mean any other things. I'm just putting myself in your shoes and thinking about your safety. Don't think too much."
Lu Bin was afraid that Jiang Xian would think his proposal was rather presumptuous. After all, in this era, girls have always been more concerned about their reputation. Living together before marriage is not good for a girl's reputation after all.
Even if we don't live in the same house.
Living in the same yard, those gossipers in the village will also gossip about each other.
To be honest, the situation between him and Jiang Xian is quite special. After all, they have already obtained the marriage certificate. In the legal sense, they have long been husband and wife.
Now all that’s left is a wedding.
Normally, when couples in the village get married, they would hold a wedding ceremony first. However, a situation like his and Jiang Xian's was rather rare.
Even if I moved to the Lu family, as long as I didn't live in the same house, there were so many houses in their house, some of which were vacant. Even if the villagers knew about it, they probably wouldn't gossip about it. Besides, the environment in the educated youth site was really not very good.
If so many people live together, not only will they not be able to get a good rest, but they won’t even have any privacy at all.
"I was also thinking that there are so many people at the educated youth site, and they get up early every day to go to work, which may be different from your schedule. If you are woken up by them, it will affect your rest."
Lu Bin was also putting himself in Jiang Xian's shoes and thinking about him. There was no trace of his own intention in his words.
To be honest, if Jiang Xian were to live in their house now, it would be quite troublesome.
If Jiang Xian wasn’t here.
In their home, usually, the three of them just eat whatever they can get.
When it comes to eating, there is definitely no particular requirement. After all, their family conditions are there.
Even nowadays, we are not so poor anymore, but we cannot indulge ourselves in eating and drinking lavishly. After all, the money is saved from every penny.
But if Jiang Xian came to their house, he would definitely not be able to fool around with the food as he did before.
There is definitely room for improvement in living conditions, and to improve the basic living conditions, it will certainly cost a lot of money.
If he had any selfish motives at all, he would not have taken the initiative to suggest that Jiang Xian move into their house before the wedding.
No one likes to cause trouble for themselves.
It was because he cared about Jiang Xian and couldn't bear to see Jiang Xian suffer in such an environment as the educated youth center.
They were bullied, so they wanted Jiang Xian to move into their house early, which could avoid a lot of trouble and bullying.
Although he proposed this idea, he still respected Jiang Xian's opinion.
If Jiang Xian didn't want to, he wouldn't force her.
You can't force someone to do something. If Jiang Xian doesn't want to, even if he has good intentions, Jiang Xian will feel uncomfortable living in his house.
Suddenly, looking at Jiang Xian's hesitation, Lu Bin suddenly felt that he was too hasty.
He just said this thought and completely forgot that he was not the only one living at home, but also his parents were there.
What if Jiang Xian takes his parents into consideration, or what if his parents disagree? This is a realistic problem that lies before us.
Lu Bin frowned, thinking that he was too careless.
Thinking of his father and mother at home, Lu Bin added:
"If you are worried about my parents, I can go and tell them for you. You don't have to worry about that. My parents like you very much. If you can live in our house in advance, they will be very happy."
In fact, to be honest, although he said so, Lu Bin was not worried at all about Mr. and Mrs. Lu. After all, the old couple had been looking forward to a daughter-in-law for so many years.
They wish Jiang Xian could move into their house as soon as possible.
Now that the old couple has regained their energy and spirit, they are immediately planning their wedding.
I wanted to get the wedding done as soon as possible so that I wouldn't have to worry about my daughter-in-law flying away again.
Sometimes, the old couple, Mr. and Mrs. Lu, even kept persuading Lu Bin to communicate with Jiang Xian more often and improve the relationship between husband and wife.
They were afraid that the daughter-in-law they had finally married would escape halfway and they would regret marrying their son.
Lu Bin was really helpless about this, but he also knew that the old couple had been very enthusiastic about this for so many years.
It is understandable that they are anxious, but all of this must respect Jiang Xian's wishes.
If Jiang Xian doesn't agree, then we can wait until after we get married. That's not a problem.
When they discussed the wedding before, they had almost booked the date, which would be about half a month later, because their family didn't want to rush into marrying the girl.
Things about weddings, even if you are poor.
If the family conditions are not good, then you still have to hold a grand ceremony. No matter what, you can't be perfunctory and your attitude must be correct.
Lu Bin explained again and again, fearing that Jiang Xian might misunderstand his meaning and overthink it.
But in fact, it was not the case. After listening to the man's clumsy explanation, Jiang Xian just felt like laughing.
Of course Jiang Xian could hear the nervousness in Lu Bin's words, and he also knew that this man was always very proper and cautious when treating him, for fear that he didn't like him.
But to be honest, she is actually quite easy to get along with.
Everything that Lu Bin was worried about was beyond his scope.
It's just a little redundant.
In the future, the two of them will get married and spend the rest of their lives together. Since she has already traveled to this era, she doesn't know if she will have the chance to travel back again. So, she has always had the idea of making the best of things.
Now that I have come this far, I can only face this reality.
No matter what, she and Lu Bin were destined to be together. There was no need to create misunderstandings over trivial matters, which would end up making both parties unhappy.
Jiang Xian is not the kind of person who likes internal friction. She likes to make things clear and written down. So, when she saw Lu Bin's worried look, she spoke immediately to ease the man's uneasy mood.
"Don't think too much. I don't have so many other thoughts. I'm hesitating here because I think that we haven't had the wedding yet. If I move directly to your house at this moment, will it have some negative impact?
I'm not afraid of what the neighbors say, but I'm afraid that they might gossip and make a scene in front of your parents. They're both recovering from their illness, and if they get angry because of this, it will be detrimental to their recovery and affect their health."
After all, Jiang Xian is a girl, so when she thinks about something, she tends to be more delicate than Lu Bin, a grown man.
There are many things to consider. She doesn't care about her reputation, but she is worried that those gossips in the village will make trouble in front of Lu's father and mother. Then it will be difficult to deal with.
She did not hide anything and directly expressed all her concerns in front of Lu Bin.
It is better to make some things clear. In case, when you end up living together, conflicts may arise, you need to proactively resolve them.
In her previous life, Jiang Xian had seen too many scenes of battles between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law on the Internet, so to be honest, she didn't know what kind of people Lu Bin's parents were.
If there are conflicts in the future, there will definitely be some frictions that are inevitable in life.
The most difficult thing is to solve these problems and how to deal with them. Although from yesterday's contact, Father and Mother Lu are indeed very good people, but after a long time, she doesn't know what kind of people are. After all, people's hearts are hidden, and you can only know the face but not the heart. Some things still need to be considered in advance.
She is already so old, it is impossible for her to act like a child and do things without considering the consequences.
Even after she married into the Lu family, there were only three of them, Lu Bin and his father and mother.
They are just a family of three. From the beginning to the end, she is just an outsider. If there is really a conflict, Lu Bin would be caught in the middle and would probably be in a very difficult position.
After Lu Bin heard what Jiang Xian said, I was silent for a moment. Obviously, he had not taken the problem Jiang Xian mentioned into consideration at all.
If you think about it again, it is just as Jiang Xian said. There are two sick elderly people in his family. Letting Jiang Xian move in early is indeed a bit hasty.
No matter what, he should at least ask the opinions of the two elderly people in the family first.
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