Chapter 354 Lu Bo Ming's reflection

"What happened?"

Li Yue'e went to the family in the village who made good soybean paste to exchange some soybean paste for Lu Xiaolan to take to school to eat with vegetables. When she came back, she saw Lu Fengqin running out crying.

Lu Fengqin ignored Li Yue'e, ran home and lay on the kang, crying loudly, as if someone had done something to her.

"Are you talking about her again?" Li Yue'e asked after entering the house.

Among the nephews, Lu Xiaolan took care of Lu Fengqin the most. She only took care of An An and Lele for three years, but she took care of Lu Fengqin until she was six or seven years old. Naturally, her feelings were deep. Seeing the child grow up like this, she was also heartbroken. When she came back from vacation, she disciplined her more.

As the saying goes, the deeper the love, the more severe the blame. In order to correct Lu Fengqin, Lu Xiaolan, who has always been kind to her children, could not help but be strict with her.

"Mom, Fengqin really needs to be taken care of, otherwise she will really grow up to be a bad child."

Li Yue'e sighed. She had said a few things before, but the eldest couple did not express their views. As a nurse, it would not be good for her to say too much, so as to avoid being blamed for favoring boys over girls.

"I'll find time to talk to your eldest brother." Li Yue'e said.

Lu Xiaolan thought for a while and said, "No, I'll talk to grandpa, and let grandpa talk to eldest brother."

The eldest brother probably forgot what his mother said after a few days, but it was different when grandpa said it.

At noon, after Lu Qing'an and Lu Boming came back, Lu Xiaolan told Lu Boming about the matter. Lu Boming was a little surprised. He didn't expect that his great-granddaughter would become like this.

Lu Fengqin lived in the school dormitory and only came back one day a week. She didn't like to visit Lu Boming very much. As a man, Lu Boming couldn't always pay attention to his great-granddaughter who was only fourteen or fifteen years old. He really didn't know that she had become like this.

Besides, when girls grow up, they will love to be coquettish to some extent, so even if there are some changes, he didn't pay much attention to them.

After lunch, Lu Boming called Lu Xingjun to the room.

"I heard Fengqin crying this morning. What happened?" Lu Boming asked.

"Her aunt said a few words to her, and the child has a strong sense of self-esteem, so she couldn't stand it and started crying." Lu Xingjun didn't think it was a big deal. "

Fengqin is 15 after the Chinese New Year, right? She's not young anymore, there are some things that need to be properly guided, otherwise she will grow up to be a bad person."

Lu Xingjun was shocked, "What's wrong with this?"

"Do you know why her aunt said that to her?"

Lu Xingjun was a little embarrassed, he really didn't know.

He asked the girl why she was crying, she just said that Lu Xiaolan scolded her, so he didn't ask any more. He didn't think there was anything wrong with Lu Xiaolan scolding her, it was normal for the elders to scold the children.

"She asked Xiaolan for the skirt that Xiaomo sent back, but Xiaolan refused to give it to her. After

she said a few words to her, the aunt and nephew started to snort." Lu Xingjun looked at Lu Boying, waiting for him to continue, with confused stupidity in his eyes. He really didn't understand. As for this skirt, if he didn't want to give it to her, then he didn't give it to her. It was nothing. How could you give a child whatever he wanted? If you do that, no matter how much family property you have, it would not be enough to spend.

Seeing Lu Xingjun's expression, Lu Boying felt powerless and had to continue, "The skirt that Xiaomo sent to Xiaolan was bought at the Haishi Department Store. I heard it cost more than ten or twenty yuan each."

Lu Xingjun was shocked, "So expensive?" This skirt was almost his wife's monthly salary, and his third brother's wife was really willing to spend it.

"Xiaolan has several skirts there. When your daughter-

in-law asked for them, she just went for the expensive ones." Lu Xingjun smiled awkwardly, "Maybe she doesn't know how expensive they are."

"No, she knows."

"She never used the hair oil and clam oil your wife bought for her. Instead, she asked for the hair oil and vanishing cream that Xiaomo sent to your mother. Your mother thought she wouldn't use them much, so she gave them all to her."

"Your mother said that she never asked for them before, and it's only been in the past year or so."

"During the Chinese New Year, the third child's family sent each of the children a piece of cloth enough to make a piece of clothing. I heard that Erya used the piece and made herself a new dress. Erya wore the old clothes she didn't want this year during the Chinese New Year."

In the past few years when Su Mo was not at home for the Chinese New Year, she would send something to each child as a way of giving out New Year money.

"This... Daya has grown taller, and her previous clothes are a little short for her, so..."

"If she needs clothes, just ask you to buy cloth for her. Why do you have to snatch your sister's cloth? You just think that the cloth sent back by Haishi is better, and she will look more proud when she wears it." Lu Boying interrupted.

Lu Xingjun was stunned, remembering that he also asked Liu Yuzhi to buy cloth at the beginning, but Lu Fengqin said that there was ready-made cloth at home, and there was no need to buy cloth and waste money. Her old clothes were still in good condition, so they could be given to Erya.

Lu Xingjun and Liu Yuzhi were also frugal people. Seeing that Lu Fengqin's old clothes were indeed in good condition and there were no patches, they did not buy cloth anymore in line with the principle of not wasting.

"Besides, haven't you noticed that Daya doesn't do the housework anymore, and Erya has been doing it all the time?"

"This... the child is under a lot of pressure from studying, and I want to let her spend more time studying so that she can get into high school." Lu Xingjun tried to save face.

You really don't know until you say it, and you'll be shocked when you hear it.

After Liu Yuzhi took over Lu Xiaolan's job, Lu Xingjun took care of more housework every day when she went to work. Especially this year, Lu Fengqin lived in the school and only came home one day a week. Lu Xingjun had long been accustomed to Lu Aiqin doing the housework, and he really didn't realize that Lu Fengqin no longer did housework.

"Study is important, but character is more important. If you really grow up to be selfish, you will suffer in the future. Your parents and I are old and can't take care of the younger generation too much." Lu Boming reminded.

"Don't rush back and scold others. Think carefully about how to teach your children."

"Yes, I know, grandpa." Lu Xingjun said embarrassedly.

Seeing that everything that needed to be said had been said, Lu Boming waved his hand and let Lu Xingjun go out.

After Lu Xingjun went out, Lu Boming also reflected on himself.

It takes three years to learn well and three days to learn badly.

Lu Fengqin has only changed in the past year. It is impossible for a person to become bad without reason. It is estimated that he went to middle school and made some bad friends. Children are not firm in their hearts. If they are instigated by people with ulterior motives, it will take only a few minutes to go astray.

In addition, the eldest couple was a little confused, and the parents did not give positive guidance, so this is how it turned out?

The third family knew how to behave, and sent gifts to their family during the holidays. In addition, he gave most of the gifts sent to him by the leaders to his two families, which made them have other thoughts.

His original intention was to be considerate of his children and grandchildren, but he did not expect that his good intentions would lead to bad results.

It seems that he can no longer give Fengqin pocket money in the future. Maybe it is the pocket money he gave that allowed those bad people to make friends with Daya and take advantage of her.

Since Lu Fengqin lived in the school dormitory, Lu Bo Ming felt sorry for her hard work in studying, and gave her a pocket money of fifty cents and one yuan every week so that she could have a good meal at school.

The next day, Lu Xiaolan left for school. The day after Lu Xiaolan left, Lu Fengqin also had to prepare to go to school, and they were also going to start school.

Lu Fengqin had been waiting, but Lu Boming never gave her pocket money. It was already mid-afternoon, and she couldn't delay any longer, so she went to Lu Boming's room and said to him, "Grandpa, I'm going to school."

Lu Boming waved his hand, "Go ahead, study hard."

Seeing that Lu Fengqin was still standing there, Lu Boming said, "Go quickly, it will be late soon, and the road will be difficult to walk on."

Seeing that Lu Boming really had no intention of giving her money, Lu Fengqin turned around and left.

Lu Boming sighed, it seemed that the child's heart was really raised by them without her realizing it.