Chapter 180 Su Wan is furious
The three sisters-in-law fell silent for a moment.
They opened their mouths, wanting to say something in rebuttal, but no words came out of their mouths.
For the sake of the children, it is indeed a better reason.
Su Wan stood up and looked at her three sisters-in-law apologetically. "I'm sorry, sisters-in-law, I really can't persuade you on this matter. I support Sister-in-law Wei's divorce, so I can't persuade her."
After saying that, she left Mrs. Qiu's house.
After she left for a while, Mrs. Wu spoke slowly, "Xiao Su has a very bad temper!"
Mrs. Zhao also nodded in agreement. "We are all from the same compound. If Xiaofang really gets divorced, what will happen to her child? If I remember correctly, she is sterilized. If Wei Ping divorces her, he will definitely not give the child to her based on his current attitude. How will she live the rest of her life as a woman?"
It’s not that the sisters-in-law are bad-hearted, it’s just that everyone has different considerations.
Due to the limitations of the times, the psychological concept of "marrying and obeying the husband" in their minds is so strong that they do not think there is anything wrong with it.
Of course, they also knew that Wei Ping was wrong, but he was unwilling to divorce and even reflected on himself. Naturally, everyone thought it was better not to divorce.
Mrs. Qiu sighed, "Xiao Su's idea is correct. She hasn't given birth yet, so she doesn't know how important a complete family is to a child. These days, I feel heartbroken when I see her child looking so pitiful."
Yes!
Wei Ping and Wang Mei had been caught and beaten by Wei's wife these days, and their children found out about it.
Children in elementary school are no longer young and have the most basic understanding of good and evil.
When he came back, the house was dark. Wei Ping was out on a mission, and Mrs. Wei was hospitalized. Mrs. Qiu had no choice but to take him home and let him live with her children.
Mrs. Qiu certainly didn't feel sorry for Wei Ping. She was mainly distressed that the child had to endure so much criticism at such a young age.
Seeing her usually lively child walking in the yard with his head down, Mrs. Qiu felt so distressed.
"Who says it isn't? Adults don't mind, but it's the children who suffer."
Mrs. Wu looked outside and said, "If there is no child, who wants to persuade Xiaofang to continue living like this? Even if such a man is a treasure, it is not worth it."
"So how should we handle this?"
Mrs. Zhao looked worried. "I don't think Xiaofang is doing very well right now. Wei Ping has kept this a secret from his family. Xiaofang's parents don't know about it either. They only found out about it after her sister came here. I don't know how long this can be kept secret."
Others don’t know, but Mrs. Zhao knows.
Mrs. Wei's parents loved their daughter very much, otherwise they would not have subsidized her all the time. Their love for her caused discord among her brothers.
Of course, the money is earned by the parents, and logically speaking, men and women are equal, so daughters also have the right to inherit.
But people in the 1980s didn't think so. In their minds, daughters were supposed to get married and could not share their parents' resources.
It is extremely shameful for a brother to take money from his wife's family after getting married.
This is also why Mrs. Wei’s brothers are so dissatisfied with her, and even her own father is unwilling to pay for her treatment.
"Now that this is known, what can be done? Her family is helpless. The child is already that old, and no one will persuade the couple to divorce."
How many divorces are there in rural areas?
If I really get divorced, I won’t be able to hold my head up in the village.
"Xiaofang has been wronged in this matter. Let's try to persuade her after she is discharged from the hospital!"
Mrs. Qiu took a deep breath and said, "Xiao Su and her have always been good friends. If I can help persuade her, that would be great."
"Xiao Su doesn't have children. She and Captain Chen are both young and energetic. She's also capable now. Just look at the car she drives and you'll know she's made money. With ability comes authority. Xiao Fang's situation is different. Having children after marriage and not having children are two completely different things."
What Mrs. Wu said was not false.
Not to mention that there were fewer divorces in the 1970s and 1980s, most of them did so for the sake of their children. Even in later generations, many people would not divorce for the sake of their children.
Even though there are many different voices on the Internet, some people think that mothers don't divorce because they can't live without their men, the fact is that women have always been the weaker party in Chinese marriages, leading to a serious preference for boys over girls.
Those who are struggling and unwilling to divorce, are also because their original families are not good and they are not liked, so they hope that their children can have a complete family.
In this relationship, the child is naturally innocent, but the woman is also innocent.
Perhaps everyone has different ideas. Many people think that a bad parent-child relationship is worse than a single-parent family, but many people consider the problem that single-parent families are looked down upon.
Even in later generations, many people still believe that children from single-parent families have psychological problems.
Isn’t such direct prejudice a kind of harm?
So no matter what choice you make, there will be regrets.
Those who have children like Mrs. Qiu are more inclined to give their children a home. Wei Ping may not be a good husband, but he is a pretty good father.
Su Wan knew what Aunt Qiu and the others were thinking. After calming down, she was still very angry.
If Wei Ping cheated on her, she might think that it's okay for Sister-in-law Wei to continue living with her. After all, the rate of infidelity in marriage is too high, and it's okay as long as she can continue to work for the family.
But he is committing domestic violence!
The person was almost beaten to death, but after just a few days, they seemed to have forgotten how Sister Wei was beaten.
Seeing her come back angrily, Chen Yuan poured her a glass of water.
Su Wan sat down on the sofa and gulped down the water.
After wiping the water from the corner of his lips, he angrily said to Chen Yuan, "Do you know why Aunt Qiu asked me to go just now?"
"Speak to Captain Wei and ask Sister Wei not to divorce?"
Chen Yuan spoke casually, but Su Wan's eyes widened. "How did you know?"
"Wei Ping is a very selfish man. Now that his wife is earning money and their child is grown, he might not be able to advance in his career if he divorces her. So no matter how you look at it, it's not worth it. The best solution is not to divorce her. The two of them can reconcile as before. Once the negative impact of this incident has passed, he can continue to live happily."
Hearing this, Su Wan was furious!
She felt that Wei Ping really had a good plan.
Chen Yuan saw her eyes red with anger and couldn't help but reach out and touch her head. "Military marriages are different from ordinary marriages. Divorce is inherently difficult. It's useless for Sister Wei to want a divorce. As long as Wei Ping doesn't give in, they will have to continue living together sooner or later."
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