"Jian Shui'er probably means that liking something is a feeling of liking something, just like when you eat a favorite food, you will feel a sense of joy and excitement. This special emotion is completely different from the usual joys, sorrows, anger, and happiness. Once you experience that kind of emotion, you will understand that liking something is liking it." Lin An helped explain.
"Yeah, that's what I mean." Jian Shuier looked at Lin An with a happy expression.
"Then I roughly understand what it means, but does the feeling of love mean liking someone?" Gong Sirou was a little skeptical.
"Isn't it? The feeling of love is equal to liking." Jian Shuier shook her head left and right in confusion, and looked at Lin An again.
Lin An had a headache. He could explain the normal emotions between men and women, but it was difficult for him to understand or even explain the overly delicate emotions.
"Ignorance is indeed a kind of happiness. I have always been troubled." Xu Yaoji's voice was full of emotional ups and downs.
Jian Shuier had been on the line with Xu Yaoji for a long time, and knew that Xu Yaoji was beating around the bush again. Her voice was a little annoying: "Just say whatever you want to say. You are temporarily in our Lianyan Research Institute. There is no need for air reading in Lianyan Research Institute."
For the first time ever, Xu Yaoji didn't argue with Jian Shui'er, but his voice was still full of emotion: "Love is the feeling of admiration between two people. These two people don't have to be a man and a woman, nor do they have to be young, and they don't have to be between people. As long as there is admiration between two people, it can be considered love."
After a brief pause, Xu Yaoji continued, "This kind of admiration is indeed a feeling. You can understand it as liking someone, but the definition of liking someone is too broad. You can like someone because they are good-looking, you can like someone because they have a gentle personality, or you can like someone because they helped you. You can like many people in your life, and you may also like many people at the same time. Are these all love?"
There was a moment of silence, and then Jian Shui'er spoke up, "I can't like many people at the same time. My liking is equivalent to being in love, but you're right. For most people, they will like many people in their lifetime, just like there are many kinds of fruits they like. In the same period of time, they may also like many people. If all of these are considered love, then the emotion of love is a bit cheap."
"Liking can be divided into narrow and broad definitions." Xu Yaoji continued Jian Shui'er's words, "Narrow liking can be defined very precisely. It's a unique emotion that no one can replace. Just like your liking, Jian Shui'er, narrow liking can develop similar feelings to liking someone as long as they don't hate each other. "
"This kind of liking can be understood as love, but it does seem mediocre and cheap. I think true love is liking plus being moved."
"Mr. Xu, please continue." Gong Sirou became very interested.
The other people in the community office were also very interested and looked at Xu Yaoji, including Lin An.
Xu Yaoji had a faint smile on his face. "Love can be divided into many stages. The first stage is the period of ignorance. People don't understand the meaning of love, nor do they understand what love is. Romantic behavior is based on physical instinct and rebellion against adults' disapproval, just like in the first year of elementary school, when you meet someone you like, you keep bullying that person. It's both speechless and ridiculous. The second stage is called the budding stage. At this stage, you can distinguish the difference between the person you like and others, and you understand the concept of love, but it's limited to the idea that love equals boyfriend or girlfriend. For example, girls will dye their hair, put on makeup, and wear beautiful clothes, while boys will do weird things like fight, act cool, talk loudly, and do things to highlight themselves to attract the attention of the opposite sex, which they actually dislike. This stage mainly occurs in the second and third years of junior high school and the first year of high school. This stage is also mixed with the initial desire for sex."
"The third stage is the desire phase, which is based on physical development and social consensus, and the desire for a romantic relationship. This stage occurs in the second and third years of high school and college. During this period, love is relatively mature, and people will use independent and effective methods to achieve a romantic relationship. The fourth stage is called the maturity phase, which is the mature love after graduation from college. People pay attention to emotional needs and the other person's material conditions, and aim to get married. There is also the fifth stage, the "playing hard" phase, when people do not actively pursue love, but let everything go, preferring to be single rather than settle for the wrong person.
"The experience of love varies depending on the stage of life. I'm currently in the craving phase. The love I experience isn't based on the specific material conditions of the other person, but rather on the emotional excitement. Anxiety is a racing heartbeat, a fluttering of joy, a fluttering of the heart, an excitement that makes you think too much if you look at me too much, an anxiety that makes you care deeply if you say even a word too little, a kind of physical and mental joy that can blossom in the desert."
"The feeling of liking someone can develop towards many people over a period of time, but the feeling of being deeply attracted to someone can often only occur to one person over a period of time."
"The true feeling of love is the combination of liking and being moved."
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