"Thank you." Lin An expressed his sincere gratitude and benefited a lot.
"That teacher again." Ye Ju's eyes were still calm, only her beautiful long hair was gently fluttering in the breeze.
The next teacher was a male professor in his early 50s.
The male professor said in a low voice, "Humans are social animals. Both men and women need companionship. Women are more emotionally delicate and need companionship even more. Long-distance relationships can be difficult, but they can also be easy. My wife and I dated as students, got married, and had children for 13 years, 10 of which were spent in different places. Our relationship is still strong. What's the secret? A whole cabinet of train tickets. Girls get lonely easily. To maintain a long-distance relationship, you need to see each other more often. If the boy doesn't care enough about the girl, even if he still likes her, he's not suitable for her."
It's a whole new angle.
Lin An followed the male professor's logic and realized that he was right.
The client Mao Lu is in good condition and it is indeed easy for her to find a boyfriend. If she wanted to break up with her boyfriend, she would have done so long ago.
She still can't bear to leave her boyfriend.
The deeper reason why no one brings you an umbrella on a rainy day is loneliness.
I mentioned this to my boyfriend because I wanted him to pay more attention to me.
It is indeed a bit childish for a boyfriend to break up with his girlfriend just because he feels that his girlfriend has been wronged. He treats dating as casually as playing house.
"Thank you, teacher." Lin An thanked him and benefited a lot again.
"Continue asking." Ye Ju wrote.
I asked a few more teachers and their opinions were much more mature.
It is believed that boys and girls have many mature ways to resolve their differences, but they choose the most childish way of showdown and quarreling, and that the breakup is caused by the immaturity of youth.
And it is very simple for them to maintain this relationship, they just need to meet each other more often.
In fact, long-distance relationships do not hinder feelings. On the contrary, seeing each other once a week can promote the relationship between men and women.
He also said that the biggest problem in long-distance relationships is not the communication difficulties caused by not having your loved one by your side, but loneliness.
Boyfriends or girlfriends are very prone to loneliness.
This loneliness will be exacerbated once there are couples around.
If there is someone you don’t hate pursuing you when you are lonely, it is too easy to become more and more concerned about them and eventually break up with your original partner.
This is what is called ordinary people's love, without too many complicated emotional entanglements. You are too far away from me, and there is no feeling of love anymore, so we break up.
Another interesting point:
The paradox of long-distance relationships.
It is easy for couples to be unable to bear loneliness, get along with the people around them, and break up.
If you can endure the loneliness, you will become each other's white moonlight.
But Bai Yueguang doesn't work even when I'm here.
This is the halo that two people imagine to keep their relationship going when they encounter difficulties. I am not that perfect.
Once the long-distance relationship ends and they start living together again, this imperfection will become apparent and they will end up quarreling and breaking up within a few days.
Moreover, once people get used to being alone, it is difficult to establish close relationships with others.
Long-distance relationships are likely to break up easily if you can’t endure the long-distance relationship, but they are also likely to break up easily if you can endure the long-distance relationship.
How to overcome long-distance relationship in the end——
See each other several times a week to keep the relationship going and make it so that being in a long-distance relationship is no different from being together.
But this is not a long-distance relationship.
In short, if you can avoid long-distance relationships, then do so. This is the opinion of our elders.
"Do you want to continue the investigation?" After reaching a conclusion, Lin An asked Ye Ju.
"No need, I have a solution. Let's go find the client." Ye Ju wrote calmly.
"Okay." Lin An nodded, realizing that there was a good solution to Mao Lu's request, which was to tell her the truth about long-distance relationships: both boys and girls can't stand loneliness and need each other's company.
If she still wants to be with her boyfriend, then she should be honest with him and meet him more often. If he can't do that, then they should break up.
She doesn't need to put herself in a difficult position.
As for the boys, Mao Lu's behavior is indeed a bit dramatic from a boy's perspective, but girls are generally prone to small emotions. If he cannot tolerate this, he can find a more rational girlfriend.
The two people are not suitable.
Mao Lu’s commission was almost resolved in this way.
Lin An picked up the phone and contacted Mao Lu and agreed on a meeting place.
Soon, I met Mao Lu.
Ye Ju walked up to Mao Lu and stared at her with cold eyes without any emotion: "Do you still like your boyfriend?"
Ye Ju's eyes were so pure that they seemed to reflect people's hearts. Mao Lu told the truth: "I like him. I've been in love with him since the first time I saw him in high school."
"That's enough. Let's go to your boyfriend's university now. When you see him, tell him what's in your heart." Ye Ju quickly wrote in the notebook.
"Go find my boyfriend now?" Mao Lu was confused. She really didn't expect this development.
Lin An was also a little surprised.
Shouldn't the normal development be to persuade the two to break up and find a more suitable partner?
Why does Ye Ju let a girl go to her boyfriend's university?
"Even if we break up, we must break up in person so that this relationship can end properly. I will buy you a plane ticket."
Ye Ju showed this to Mao Lu first, then clapped her hands, and soon the bodyguard she had seen earlier appeared in front of her.
She showed this to the bodyguard again, who nodded quickly: "Understood. I will buy plane tickets for Miss Good and this lady."
"Three people." Ye Ju wrote simply.
"I understand." The bodyguard hesitated for a moment, but still went to make the arrangements.
Lin An knew that the three of them must go to her boyfriend’s university.
Mao Lu did not object anymore, and the three of them boarded the plane to Xiamen.
What will happen?
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