How to quickly attract the favor of the opposite sex?
In psychology, there is a term called "reciprocity of favor."
It means that if a person knows that someone has a good impression of him or her, he or she will also have a good impression of the other person.
This means that if you want to win someone's favor, the most direct way is to have a good impression of him/her first.
Specific practices include indirectly expressing your affection for her through praise, care, appreciation, etc.
Detailed method:
1. Notice the changes in the other person’s attire and compliment them on their attire.
For example, you changed your hairstyle today and it suits you very well.
2. Show your own shortcomings to give the other person a chance to show his or her strengths, and then praise the other person to satisfy his or her self-confidence and vanity.
For example, I don’t know how to do this, could you teach me how to do it?
Ye Ju closed the "Love Notes".
After reading this, Lin An probably understood that this was a book about "How to Pursue the Opposite Sex", teaching others how to fall in love.
Being able to write a tutorial on love, Ye Ju can indeed be called a master of love theory.
But how could Ye Ju, a girl with nothing, compile a love manual?
"That's amazing, that seems to be the case." Jian Shuier was still thinking about the love theory she had just read and expressed her deep agreement.
Lin An disagrees: "The gap between theory and practice is enormous. If you rely on theory to guide practice, you'll end up with nothing. If you rely on dating theories, girls will just think you're weird. I also think it's better to be natural in love. Once you use theory, it seems to pollute love."
"I don't think so." Jian Shui'er shook her head. "Love theory is just a guideline, a way to reduce mistakes in love. It's like improving one's emotional intelligence, giving the opposite sex a better experience of being pursued. As a mature pursuer, you still need to understand some love theory. And it's because there are so many people like you who rely on instinct in love that there are so many regretful couples."
Lin An had no way to refute, what Jian Shuier said made sense.
But he still couldn't accept relying on love theory to pursue the opposite sex.
He believes that pursuing the opposite sex still requires instinctive sincerity, and using love theories is equivalent to cheating.
At this time, Ye Ju wrote again:
"Don't argue. We can verify our theories through practice. I want to use the method of 'solving girls' love troubles'."
"From now on, we will regularly accept commissions from girls and help them solve their love troubles, just like the service clubs in comics. What do you think?"
Lin An had no objection.
If you think about it carefully, Jian Shuier is right. It is because there are too many people who fall in love based on instinct that there are so many couples who end up with regrets.
The system informed him of his future life trajectory, and he broke up with his ex-girlfriend because of his emotional immaturity.
Perhaps, people do need to master some theories of love.
"Helping girls solve their love troubles! It seems very interesting, I agree." Jian Shuier nodded with great interest.
Ye Ju wrote again: "Our Love Research Club is officially established today, and club activities will begin immediately tomorrow."
The words were obviously cold, but Lin An could see Ye Ju's enthusiasm in them.
As expected, the activities of the Love Research Club can help Ye Ju regain normal emotions.
…
After everything was confirmed, we agreed that after class tomorrow, everyone would go to the club building B205 to carry out club activities.
The three of them dispersed and Lin An walked towards the dormitory.
The same goes for Jian Shuier.
However, Jian Shui'er had only taken a few steps when two bright female assistants came to her side.
The short-haired female assistant spoke up, "Miss, as you instructed, we are renovating classroom B205 to resemble a detective agency."
Jian Shuier nodded. This was the order she gave after she decided to set up the Love Research Club.
"Miss, I have something else to report." The short-haired female assistant said again.
"Speak!" Jian Shuier imagined tomorrow's club activities in a concise and concise manner.
The short-haired female assistant hesitated for a moment, but seeing the expectant expression on the young lady's face, she said, "Young lady, I don't think you should have any further contact with Lin An."
"Hmm~" Jian Shuier turned her head to look at her.
The short-haired female assistant lowered her head and reported, "In economics, there's an effect called the vanity effect. It refers to consumers' preference for unique or exclusive goods that only a few people can enjoy. This effect suggests that the demand for a certain good increases as the number of people who own it decreases. Art treasures, specially designed sports cars, and custom-made clothing are all examples of vanity goods."
"From a psychological perspective, this means people will pursue things that are difficult to obtain. The more difficult it is to obtain, the more important it is to them. The longer the pursuit lasts, the more likely it is to be mixed with other emotions. The Thirty-Six Stratagems of War also have a similar example: playing hard to get."
"What do you want to say?" Jian Shuier frowned, her tone not very satisfied.
At this point, the short-haired female assistant revealed everything: "I want to say, Miss, you've always followed the perfect script you set for yourself. From childhood to college, you've never encountered any setbacks that would change your script. Your life has been very smooth. But with the incident of Lin An's divorce agreement, your life script has deviated. You've encountered situations beyond your control. Your life no longer follows the script you set for yourself. This is why you've developed a great interest in Lin An, the subject of this change."
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