Chapter 286 If You Pull Me Back, I'll Be Bald
This makes so much sense.
As a parent, you should let your children try something before you deny it.
Only by experiencing it personally can you have a substantial and clear understanding of yourself and know your own worth.
Instead of even giving the child a chance to try, they directly deny the child and confine him to a comfort zone based on their own life experience and with an attitude of "I'm doing this for your own good."
This is not fair to the children.
There are only three possible results.
1: For children who are used to being well-behaved, life can basically be predicted at a glance.
2. Rebellious children will rebel, thus ruining their relationship with their family, and eventually come back with a bloody head and nothing accomplished.
3: A rebellious and extreme child who likes to stick to one path to the end and has no possibility of returning once he runs away.
Jiang Xingxing's situation has not reached this level yet.
But if we continue to oppose with high pressure, it is really hard to say what the future will be like.
Looking at the girl in front of him whose eyes were filled with dissatisfaction and deep resentment, Yi Chichi took a deep breath and said softly, "Have you had a serious talk with your father?"
"……No."
There's no way to talk about it. She has a bad temper, and dad's temper is not much better.
I am used to having the final say when I am in a high position, and I also follow this approach at home.
Recalling the time spent with his father, Jiang Xingxing smiled bitterly and said, "I didn't have much memory of my father when I was young. When I did remember him, he was busy with work and rarely came home."
"Maybe it's because he's used to giving orders. During the rare times he's at home, he treats me and my mom like his soldiers, often scolding my mom until she cries..."
She sniffed, her voice choked with sobs. "At first I didn't dare to say anything and could only hide aside. It wasn't until I was in fourth grade that he quarreled with my mother and smashed a bowl in anger. My mother was so scared that she trembled all over. At that moment, I got hot-headed and rushed over to confront him..."
Sighing, she rubbed her face with a helpless look, "Later, every time I met him, we quarreled. Even if we talked peacefully at the beginning, we would still quarrel later."
Yi Chichi expressed his understanding of this, but was unable to make an accurate evaluation.
It’s even hard to comfort others because I can’t empathize with them.
Even if I really understand, it’s useless.
There are many such things in this era, and Jiang Xingxing's case is not an exception.
This is the current situation that most military children will face.
For example, in her original world, her third cousin was unable to follow his family because his second uncle joined the army and was stationed at the border because the environment was too harsh.
It is more difficult for her to visit her relatives once than to run from the northernmost part of the motherland to the southernmost part of the motherland to visit them.
Because the transportation conditions on the border side were even worse, even in developed later times, if you wanted to go there, you had to take a plane, train, or car.
It can drive people to death.
Therefore, my third cousin had no memory of his father when he was young, and even treated his uncle and his father as his father.
It was not until my second uncle was promoted and left the frontier that my second aunt and her family finally joined the army, and the family was truly reunited.
But the estrangement that had existed for many years remained there, and until she left that world, the rift between her brother and second uncle was still there.
Therefore, it is really not surprising that the relationship between Jiang Xingxing and Teacher Jiang has become like this.
"Do you hate him?"
Jiang Xingxing's eyes suddenly widened, and she said as if to say what bullshit you are talking about, "Why should I hate him? It is undeniable that he did a bad job as a husband and father, but he is a qualified soldier."
"That means there is resentment."
Jiang Xingxing did not deny it. She nodded and said, "Not only am I resentful, I am so resentful that I want to fight him, but he doesn't fight me or my mom. He even takes sides in our quarrels, like a fence-sitter, and has no stance at all."
There was a hint of disdain in his tone, but a smile on his face.
Yi Chichi just smiled. This girl had love, resentment and pride towards her father.
"Go back and have a calm talk with your parents."
She said gently, "No matter what your parents say, you must suppress your anger and tell them calmly what you really think."
Jiang Xingxing looked hesitant, "Will this work?"
“It’s hard to say.”
Yi Chichi does not guarantee this, "but I personally think that as long as you don't mess around, are willing to take the right path, and stand firm, as long as your parents really love you, they will most likely compromise and be willing to give you a chance to try, thus turning into support."
“I’m worried they won’t agree.”
She wouldn't agree to this either.
The dream is really too lofty and far-reaching.
There is no value at all.
If there had been a clear and unwavering goal, the situation might have been different.
"Are you determined to go the mechanical route?"
She opened her mouth to speak, but Yi Chichi quickly stopped her, "Don't rush to answer, think carefully about your future path, and determine a clear goal before you speak."
Jiang Xingxing was about to say something but was blocked by her. She was not angry, but looked at her with a bit of resentment before asking in a serious manner, "Sister, do you have some knowledge of machinery?"
"No."
She knew nothing about machinery, but she knew the general classification of machinery: "Design, manufacturing, repair and maintenance, and research and development all have their own professional fields."
"You choose from them."
Jiang Xingxing was stunned and asked in shock, "Aren't these all together?"
"Who told you this was all together?"
Yi Chichi was even more shocked than she was. "It's like a warship designer, who is only responsible for design, while a manufacturer is responsible for building and a maintenance worker is responsible for repairing and maintaining the machinery. Research and development is even simpler, as the name suggests, it's about researching new things, like engines and the like."
Jiang Xingxing scratched his hair. Oh my god, he didn’t have a clear concept of machinery before and took things for granted.
Now when she heard Yi Chichi’s words, she felt her head itchy, as if she wanted to grow a new brain.
Then, Yi Chichi watched her pull her hair into a mess, and then started to pull the hair on the top of her head. He looked at the hair that was pulled out from between her fingers, and she seemed to be ready to pull more hair.
I was so scared that I quickly said, "Stop pulling my hair. You're going to be bald if you keep pulling it."
The road to becoming a mechanic hasn't officially begun yet, but she has already become a bald girl. Aunt Guan is afraid she will go crazy.
Jiang Xingxing let go of his hand, looked at the hair between his fingers in silence for two seconds, then calmly took the hair from between his fingers and put it in his pocket, saying, "I've made up my mind. I want to be a mechanical designer."
“I have ambition.”
Yi Chichi gave her a thumbs up and said, "Now that you have determined your goal, you must convince your father to find a teacher for you to learn this knowledge."
Jiang Xingxing's mouth twitched, "So I still have to go to school?"
"If you don't go to school, you won't even be able to understand the blueprints, let alone the various parameters."
This is quite depressing, but reality is crueler than words.
"go to school……"
After a pause, she lowered her voice and said, "We are just wasting our time in school and we can't learn any useful knowledge."
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