Some men like weak women because they arouse a man's desire to protect him, such as his father.
When he was very young, he had seen how good his father was to his mother. After all, his mother was very beautiful and very delicate. Although she often complained that her father's salary was too little, not even enough to buy her a few cups of coffee and bread, she still had to rely on her parents for monthly support.
But who could afford to drink coffee and eat bread in those days? His family wasn't actually that bad. Even if his mother didn't work, his food and drink were pretty good compared to his peers, but he couldn't compare with the capitalists.
Dad was very kind at the time. He couldn't explain it, so he just laughed it off. Who would marry a daughter of a certain age? Although she might be a little spoiled and difficult to raise, look at those old-fashioned guys in the factory. Whose wife is as pretty and cultured as his?
Before he started elementary school, those turbulent years arrived. His grandparents were already old and were sent to the cowshed. They could not withstand that kind of life and soon passed away.
Then my mother became a little crazy. Even though the man sacrificed his own future to save his wife, he didn't get a single good word from her. Instead, they quarreled hysterically all day long.
That year, Qi Jinzhou was only 7 years old. His house had been smashed several times, and he was urgently taken to his grandparents' house because his parents no longer had the energy to take care of him.
Every time he went home thinking about his parents, he would just listen to his mother nagging about how his father was useless, his grandparents were useless, his grandparents were useless...
Xiao Qi Jinzhou once asked, "Mom, what use are you?"
Then his mother slapped him in the face and said that she was a woman and that a woman should take care of household affairs, and let the man work hard outside without any worries, and wait for him to come home with money and food to feed his wife and children. This has always been the case.
Qi Jinzhou disagreed. He felt that if his mother could stand up for herself and really disliked his father, then they should get a divorce.
She had the education, the capital, and the connections left by her grandparents, so she could be independent and self-reliant. Even in those turbulent times, when she had to survive, she would definitely have no problem filling her stomach.
But his mother just wanted to be a canary. When it was windy, rainy or the environment was bad, she would complain that the cage owner was incompetent. Even if the cage door was opened, she would still be unwilling to leave.
Even when they finally separated, the women's office came to her house and asked her if she wanted a divorce, saying they would arrange a job for her, but she refused and just said to wait a little longer.
Waiting for what? Waiting for her to find the next cage.
In fact, Qi Jinzhou didn’t think there was anything wrong with his mother finding the next cage, because his father also wanted to divorce at that time. The quarrels and noises every day were tiring for everyone.
But she just wanted to fly directly from one cage to another, and she didn't even want to spend the time in between finding food in the wilderness.
During the months of separation, his father lived at the factory and his mother lived at home. Since we were still married, his monthly salary was still sent to them. So, you were living in the house I got from my job with my money, and my parents were taking care of the child, and you were still looking for a man outside?
This seriously offends a man's self-esteem.
Qi Jinzhou couldn't tell who was right or wrong in this matter. One was his biological father and the other was his biological mother.
But after he learned to think further, he always asked himself, if it were him, would he do the same thing as his father.
Haha, maybe the son of a murderer really has the murderer's genes in his blood.
Every time after he laughed at himself, he would think more deeply that he should either not look for a wife or, if he did, he should look for one who could live without him.
If the relationship is good, they can rely on each other; if the relationship is not good, they can separate and start a new life. He can work hard for his wife and children, but he also wants his partner to work hard for their life together, instead of complaining or waiting for others to save him.
Besides, because of his parents, his wife may be subjected to a lot of gossip from the very beginning, and those with poor psychological endurance will definitely not be able to do that.
From the first moment he saw Sanni, he was certain that this girl was, to some extent, his kind of person.
From the fact that she carries a butcher knife with her when she goes out at night, we can see that instead of complaining about the unsafe living environment, she would rather be ready to fight at any time.
Qi Jinzhou looked at Sanni and said seriously,
"Comrade Ma Sanni, I've told you everything about me. If you're willing, we can try being together first. If we find we're not suitable, we can part ways amicably.
If it's suitable, I'll let the matchmaker... No, if it's a live-in son-in-law, do you want me to wait at home for you to find a matchmaker to come and propose marriage?"
Sanni received too much information at once, and before she could digest it, he led her back to the matchmaker, and her face suddenly felt hot.
"It's completely unrelated, what are you talking about?"
"Oh, is that the place? Can you give me some advice?"
Sanni stared at him for a while, and found that he had returned to his original playful smile. She was not happy.
"How can I agree to this? Even if we're just dating, I have to make sure what you're saying is true, right? Otherwise, how can I be sure you're even worthy of marriage?"
Nowadays, the general process of getting married and dating in the countryside is that the matchmaker first goes to the parents of both parties to explain their respective conditions. If the parents think it is okay, they will tell the young people, and then find a time for the two to meet. If they think it is okay, then they will establish a relationship. Some will even get engaged first.
In the next one or two years, it will be time for you two to date and fall in love. Generally speaking, there is nothing serious and you can get married when the time comes.
If there's a real problem and it leads to a breakup, it's a major event. Both sets of parents will be present, and for the more conservative, even extended family members might come to mediate. A true breakup is only considered a complete severance of ties between the two families, if they truly can't get along.
So even if you are sure about dating, you have to be cautious and careful.
After the breakup, the boy might be fine, but the girl will definitely be criticized by her family for a long time. Why didn’t you say you didn’t like him at the beginning? If you didn’t like him, why did you continue to date him?
This is the way the world is; girls have a much harder time than boys.
Qi Jinzhou understood, and then thought about what Sanni said about her uncle having business dealings with the steel mill, so he probably wanted him to inquire about it. So he nodded casually.
"Okay, then if you're still willing after understanding it, just tell me. I'd be happy to do it anyway."
Sanni pursed her lips and thought, "How am I going to tell you whether I agree or not?" But then she heard Qi Jinzhou say,
"Your aunt's house should have another delivery of steel bars in a few days. I'll bring it over then."
"Hey, do you have to go to night school every night?"
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Xiao Qi, sob, sob, it’s okay, I can be more proactive.
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