"Those involved are often confused, but those who are on the sidelines can see things more clearly. We are not Lanlan, so it is normal for us not to understand her thoughts."
As outsiders, they have a God's perspective and can easily judge everything with rational and clear thinking.
But Zhang Lanlan is different as she is an insider. What she sees, thinks and feels are much stronger than those of an outsider. Perhaps in her feelings, Yu Yizhou is not unforgivable. After all, Yu Yizhou is a man who can really say sweet words and has many ways to coax girls. If Zhang Lanlan can't forget the sweet memories from before and is conflicted inside, it is not impossible.
Or maybe she has other pressures, such as being afraid of the opinions of relatives, friends, teachers, and classmates.
Not everyone can be strong enough to cut the Gordian knot and make decisions as neatly as an iron man.
Kind people will understand other people's concerns and allow others to be cowardly, instead of taking a God's perspective, being a rational person, pointing fingers and cursing.
In interpersonal relationships, help and support play a greater role than guidance and criticism.
No one can tell another person what to do with their life or their decisions.
Take care of yourself and care about others. Don’t teach others how to do things before you can even take care of yourself.
Shen Qingyi's face was filled with regret. "You young girls, you've already completed graduate studies, how come you still can't figure this out? The only person a woman can rely on is herself. Isn't it more reassuring to provide for yourself than anything else? Do you really have to dream of relying on others? I really should have said a few more words to her back then, ah!"
Zhou Mo listened from the side and felt sad for Shen Qingyi.
I have to say that Shen Qingyi is a good mentor. She has a good balance between relaxation and hard work when guiding her students. Most of the time, she actually lets her students do whatever they want. She only sets some basic rules such as not being late or leaving early, and requires them to complete the tasks she assigns on time. If they do not do well, they will be criticized, but it will not escalate to personal attacks or PUA.
He is also generous and often organizes dinners for students in the group. Whenever there is something good happening, he will try his best to think about the students.
When she teaches students, she truly treats them as her own children, instead of just letting them graduate and get a diploma, leaving them with resentment and never contacting each other again.
As a teacher, the first thing she thought about regarding Zhang Lanlan's matter was that as a girl, she should not give up her academic qualifications, which would be of great benefit to her in the future, rather than considering Shen Qingyi's own student graduation rate indicator.
In universities, graduate student graduation is crucial not only for students but also for faculty, especially those with master's degrees. If a faculty member cannot even graduate a master's degree, they are likely to be looked down upon by their peers. If word gets out, it could affect future enrollment. The ability to recruit students is also a key assessment metric for faculty members with admissions qualifications. If they fail to recruit students this year, they may not be eligible to apply for admissions next year.
It can be seen that Shen Qingyi is a good teacher with professional ethics.
However, Zhang Lanlan wanted to drop out of school...others could only persuade her but could do nothing about it.
The final decision lies with the parties themselves.
Shen Qingyi said, "I've already come this far. I can only endure for two more years and I'll graduate. Can't I just hold on a little longer? Medical training takes a long time to begin with. I've already endured five years of undergraduate study, and this postgraduate year is almost over. I have two years left, so I just need to grit my teeth and persevere, and I'll get through it. Isn't it much easier to graduate with a master's degree than a doctorate? There's basically no chance of delaying graduation. It's common for a doctorate to take five or six years, but a master's degree can usually be graduated in three years. After graduation, the salary will be much higher than that of an undergraduate. Oh, I really don't know what you're thinking."
"We are not her, and we have not experienced her suffering. No matter how much we say, it is only from a third-party perspective and we cannot persuade her," Zhou Mo said.
Shen Qingyi nodded helplessly, "I hope she can get over her psychological difficulties as soon as possible. As long as she is willing to come back to school, there will always be a place for her here."
Zhou Mo thought for a moment and said, "Teacher, why don't you tell her these words yourself? She's your student, and she must have the most primal gratitude towards you. If you persuade her, the effect will be better than us classmates."
Shen Qingyi: "I will definitely talk to her when I have some time to calm down."
Zhou Mo: "Okay."
Seeing that Shen Qingyi had no intention of giving up on Zhang Lanlan, Zhou Mo felt inexplicably warm in his heart.
It was not in vain that I came to this group.
…
night.
Zhou Mo returned to Xiangbin Yali.
Although she didn't do anything, she was still exhausted, not physically, but mentally.
The phone buzzed a few times.
She picked it up while sitting on the sofa and took a look at it.
It’s Han Chen.
He said he would be back late in the evening and asked her to eat first and not wait for him.
Zhou Mo felt a little lost.
She has been living in Yuanshangju these days. She finally made an appointment with Han Chen today, and both of them returned to Xiangbin Yali, but they couldn't even have dinner together.
Han Chen didn't say when he would be back, and it was likely that even he himself didn't know when he would be back.
Maybe it was another night of waiting in vain.
She simply cooked some scallion oil noodles for herself and kept a separate portion of the scallion oil sauce in case Han Chen came back without having eaten, so she could give him a snack.
When Zhou Mo is alone, he can be unruly and browse his phone while eating.
If she did this on a normal day, she would definitely be lectured by Liu Xiangru.
This is also the reason why she likes to live outside.
free.
While watching videos, a message from Shen Pan popped up on the phone screen.
She was very excited and said, "It's solved! I might get a promotion!"
Zhou Mo:?
Shen Pan: The patient's family accepted the compensation plan, and we reached a settlement with them. Our preventative public relations work is also going smoothly. My supervisor was also very pleased with the promotional posters and videos I made for him. He also praised my broad thinking, numerous proposals, and comprehensive thinking. He plans to make me the head of the publicity and planning team, overseeing about three to five people.
Zhou Mo: What about the salary? Will there be a raise?
Chen Pan: Of course, add five hundred.
Zhou Mo: Good thing.
Chen Pan: Hehe, I'm so happy. This is the only good thing that happened to me during this difficult time.
Zhou Mo: Maybe this is the turning point, and your luck will start to change from now on.
Chen Pan: I wish you good luck.
Zhou Mo: You are a lucky person.
Chen Pan: When I return to Dongjiang, I will treat you to a meal.
Zhou Mo: No need, you should save the money.
Chen Pan: Don’t worry, we won’t go out to eat. Let’s call Song Yan and have hotpot together like last time.
Zhou Mo: This is possible.
Chen Pan: How about you? How are you and Han Chen? Are you two having a good time lately?
Zhou Mo: My parents came back, and I lived in Yuanshang for about ten days.
Chen Pan: Ah?
Zhou Mo: I just returned to Xiangbin Yali today. Han Chen is working overtime tonight and I don’t know when he will be back.
Chen Pan: From your tone, which is full of the tone of a resentful woman, I can see that you miss your husband.
Zhou Mo: Go to hell!
Chen Pan: [Hehe].
Zhou Mo: When will you come back?
Chen Pan: I won’t go back for the time being.
Zhou Mo: Isn't it all resolved? Why is it still there?
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