Chapter 111 You can never wake up someone who doesn’t want to wake up (Monthly ticket bonus!)
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Seeing that Pan Xiaowei not only came to the crew early today, but also kept looking at the door, Hu Man, who also knew that Dong Ni would come to film today, sighed secretly, and then said to Pan Xiaowei earnestly:
"Why is it that the better you treat a woman, the less she cares about you?"
"The Weber effect in psychology says that after experiencing a strong stimulus, the next stimulus becomes insignificant. So, if you treat her too well and always put her first, she will take your kindness for granted and will not be grateful. She will only think you are boring. There is a saying that goes, your long-term companionship may not be as good as the sudden warmth of others."
"The more you fear losing someone, the easier it is to lose her. This is Murphy's Law. The more you fear something, the easier it is to happen. So, even if you obey her in everything she asks, she may still leave you. Because you are too afraid of losing her, you have put yourself at the bottom of the emotional ladder. Even if she is not a goddess, you praise her too much and make her overconfident. She will think she deserves better, so how can she look down on you?"
"She obviously doesn't love you and isn't good to you, so why are you reluctant to let go? It's because of the sunk cost effect. The more you give, the harder it is to let go because you feel unwilling to give up and can't bear to give up your own investment. But think about it the other way around. If you want the other person to love you more, you should restrain your own investment and guide the other person to make efforts, whether it's time or energy. Only when she has invested something will she know how to cherish it."
"If you want a woman to cherish you and be inseparable from you, you can also borrow the Zeigarnik memory effect in psychology. It tells us that the more unattainable something is, the more precious it is. The easier it is to get, the more likely it is to be discarded. The least cherished things in the world are those that are easily obtained and will never be lost. Love is like a game. Greed will enter the game, and indifference will control the game."
Combining the little bits and pieces of his time with Dong Ni, Pan Xiaowei felt that what Hu Man said was absolutely right and it was absolutely true.
But when Xu Kai and Dong Ni appeared, Pan Xiaowei instantly forgot all the advice Hu Man had given him and walked towards Dong Ni as soon as possible.
Seeing that Pan Xiaowei was still so obsessed with Dong Ni, Hu Man shook her head in disappointment: "I can never wake up someone who doesn't want to wake up."
Just at this time, a rich second-generation guy whom Hu Man met by chance in the bar a few days ago came to visit Hu Man with a big bunch of roses.
Seeing Pan Xiaowei approaching Dong Ni with a smile on his face, Hu Man sighed, then smiled and took the flowers from the young rich second generation and started chatting with him.
On the other side, Pan Xiaowei said to Dong Ni with a smile: "Shishi, you are finally back. If you don't come back, I will go back to school to find you."
What Dong Ni fears most now is that Xu Kai misunderstands that she and Pan Xiaowei are still in touch. After all, she and Pan Xiaowei were childhood sweethearts.
So, seeing Pan Xiaowei approaching and saying something that could easily lead to Xu Kai's misunderstanding, Dong Ni immediately said to Pan Xiaowei with a cold face: "Why are you looking for me? I have already made everything clear to you."
Dong Ni has really made everything clear to Pan Xiaowei.
But Pan Xiaowei still calls Dong Ni every day.
If the call couldn't get through, Pan Xiaowei would send messages to Dong Ni, bombarding her with messages one after another.
Dong Ni was so annoyed that she finally blocked Pan Xiaowei.
Who would have thought that even though Dong Ni had rejected Pan Xiaowei so clearly, Pan Xiaowei still couldn't let go of Dong Ni.
Pan Xiaowei seemed not to understand that Dong Ni was drawing a line between them. He grinned and said, "You look so beautiful today. In fact, you should have dressed yourself like this a long time ago."
It has to be said that Pan Xiaowei is still very sensitive to Dong Ni's changes.
Of course, this is also because Dong Ni has changed so much in the past few days.
First of all, because Dong Ni accepted the clothes bought by Xu Kai, her dressing style suddenly improved to a higher level.
Secondly, before coming out today, Xu Kai personally did the makeup for Dong Ni, which took Dong Ni's makeup to a new level.
The key point is that, because of Xu Kai's nourishment, the formerly immature Dong Ni has now begun to exude the aura of a mature woman.
Taking all these factors into consideration, Dong Ni is certainly radiant.
Xu Kai felt that he couldn't let Pan Xiaowei continue to be so obsessed with Dong Ni.
This is not a good thing for Dong Ni, Pan Xiaowei, or even myself.
So Xu Kai said to Pan Xiaowei: "Young Master Wei, I have something to tell you. There are too many people here. How about we go over there and talk?"
When Dong Ni heard this, she knew that Xu Kai was preparing to help her confront Pan Xiaowei.
Dong Ni secretly breathed a sigh of relief at this.
As I said, Dong Ni did not love Pan Xiaowei, but she also did not want to hurt Pan Xiaowei who had liked her for so many years, and she was even more unwilling to face the scene of Pan Xiaowei's collapse in person.
In this way, it would be the best outcome for Dong Ni for Xu Kai to confront Pan Xiaowei.
But what Xu Kai and Dong Ni didn't expect was that Pan Xiaowei actually said, "I also have something to tell you, Brother Yu."
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Xu Kai was stunned for a moment, then smiled faintly: "Then you go first."
"I'm making my own movie. Do you think you can ask Uncle Xu to help me find extras?"
Faced with Pan Xiaowei's deliberate flattery, Xu Kai was really helpless: "It's too late, brother, I've already cheated on you, there's no point in you doing this now."
"Brother Yu, don't worry. The price I give Uncle Xu is definitely the highest in Hengdian, and I pay him every day..."
"I appreciate your kindness, but my dad and his family are too busy lately and can't take over your role."
When Xu Kai said this, Pan Xiaowei's heart sank.
No group leader would complain about having too many plays. After all, there is never a shortage of extras in Hengdian. Therefore, as long as they can get a play and get paid, the group leader can just make a few calls, make some arrangements, and then sit back and wait to get paid.
But Pan Xiaowei was clearly giving money to Xu Kai to spend at home, but Xu Kai didn't want it.
Then I thought about how Xu Kai and Dong Ni disappeared together, and reappeared together, and now they are standing together so intimately.
Pan Xiaowei is not a fool, so how could he not feel that Xu Kai might have cheated on him and was now ready to confront him?
Pan Xiaowei knew that the relationship between him and Dong Ni might be irreparable.
But Pan Xiaowei was stubborn and refused to accept this fact.
Pan Xiaowei looked at his watch in a panic, and then said exaggeratedly: "Oh, I just remembered that I'm in a hurry..."
At this point, Pan Xiaowei suddenly saw a person who surprised him very much—Dong Ye! Pan Xiaowei had met Dong Ye with Dong Ni.
Pan Xiaowei was deeply impressed by the cold, sexy and extremely eccentric Dong Ye, so he was sure that the person walking towards him from a distance was Dong Ni's biological sister Dong Ye.
"Why is she here?"
Pan Xiaowei didn't feel puzzled for too long.
Soon, Dong walked to Xu Kai, then naturally hugged Xu Kai's arm, and said to Xu Kai sweetly: "Hubby, Haitang called you back for breakfast."
"husband?"
"Yu Qingyun is Dong Ye's husband?"
After reacting for a moment, Pan Xiaowei's eyes suddenly shone with excitement: "It turns out that I misunderstood. Yu Qingyun is not Xiaoni's lover, but Xiaoni's brother-in-law!"
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