Chapter 384 Avoidant Attachment Personality

[Old Six Huo finally did something human. Hurry up, I want to eat some melons! ]

[My family and I are like civets in a melon field, jumping up and down.]

[Could it be that the plot of some novel was triggered, her husband suddenly got a terminal illness and was afraid of delaying her, so he wanted to divorce her. ]

[Help me, I don't even want to watch this kind of tacky plot.]

【I am a local dog and I love to watch. 】

Wu Min wiped away her tears, "Really? Yes, I'll find it for you right away."

Huo Ning smiled and added, "This is another divination. You have to pay another fee."

【Huo Laoliu, you are worthy of being me. 】

【You know how to do business. 】

[Seeing that Huo Laoliu is still as greedy as ever, I feel much better.]

Wu Min immediately added a bridal tiara and a red robe, and then sent a photo of Su Yu, her husband, to Huo Ning.

Huo Ning took a look, counted on his fingers, and then spread his hands and said, "Well, he has an avoidant attachment personality, which means he likes people who don't like him."

"When you don't like him, he can keep chasing you."

"But once you like him, he will feel fear and disgust both physically and psychologically, and feel that he is unworthy from the bottom of his heart."

"But he also has a bit of a people-pleasing personality. He can't say anything hurtful, and he doesn't dare to take the initiative to break up with you, for fear of hurting you."

After counting on his fingers, Huo Ning said, "In fact, he tried to use cold violence to force you to break up, such as suddenly disappearing for a few days, or being hot and cold and not replying to your messages."

"But you happen to be a person with strong insensitivity."

Because of her strong insensitivity, she didn't realize that the man who had been with her for so long actually wanted to break up with her all the time.

She also didn't realize that the other person was deliberately avoiding her feelings and deliberately hurting her.

[Fuck, I was like that too. I thought I was a loser, but it turns out I’m sick. I see.]

[What is this about avoidant attachment personality? Isn't it just that once you get it, you don't cherish it, you only enjoy the ambiguity period but don't want to take the responsibility of being together. Is that reasonable? ]

【It's a calamity to be liked by such a person. 】

[My ex-boyfriend has an avoidant attachment personality. I thought I could save him at first, but after we broke up, I just wanted to ask, why doesn’t someone like him live alone for the rest of his life? Why does he want to hurt others! ]

[Alas, avoidant attachment personality usually results from the death of an important relative, or in other words, not being treated well in the original family. ]

[Or maybe they have been bullied in school, and they feel deep down that they don’t deserve to be loved. There are some things that they can’t control.]

[Yeah, that’s how I am, so I never dare to fall in love. When I meet someone I like, I keep it to myself. I know that no one in this world will like me.]

【Even I don’t like myself. 】

Wu Min thought of many reasons, but never expected that the truth would be like this.

It turned out that his love for me came to an abrupt end the moment I liked him.

For a moment, Wu Min didn't know whether to cry or laugh.

She wiped her tears and said, "I understand. Thank you, Master Huo."

"I'll have a good chat with him."

Huo Ning hummed.

Wu Min stared at the ceiling in a daze.

Today is her and Su Yu’s wedding anniversary.

…

Wu Min sat alone on the sofa in the living room.

She stared at the ceiling and waited for a long time.

So long that the time passed by minute by minute, and the pointer reached twelve o'clock.

The wedding anniversary has passed.

So long that she had her lawyer draft a divorce agreement.

At two o'clock in the morning, Su Yu came back.

Seeing that she was still awake, Su Yu was stunned for a moment, and a hint of stiffness and unnaturalness passed through his pretty face.

He stood in the hallway, the light blurring his expression.

He walked towards me slowly, his voice was gentle, but when I listened carefully I found that he was actually full of indifference, like a piece of ice that could not be melted.

"It's so late, why aren't you asleep yet?"

Wu Min raised her head and looked at his face carefully.

Su Yu had delicate features, but his jawbone was very distinct and his lips were very thin.

When he doesn't smile, he looks cold and unapproachable.

Just like him, he looks gentle but he is cold inside.

There was a hint of mist in Wu Min's eyes.

She choked up and asked him, "Do you know that today is our wedding anniversary?"

Su Yu's expression froze.

He was still covered with the chill of the frost and snow outside.

When he stood next to Wu Min, a chill ran down his face.

Wu Min shivered from the cold.

"Feel sorry."

Su Yu lowered his eyes and said only these two words.

He actually knew that today was his and Wu Min's wedding anniversary.

It was because he knew this that he came back so late.

He didn't want to see her loving eyes.

I don't want to receive the gift she prepared with all her heart.

This would make him feel suffocated.

Her love is too heavy and too hot.

He can't bear it and can't pay it back.

And he himself does not deserve such love.

Wu Min looked at him steadily, "Are you sorry for making me wait for you for so long, or are you sorry for forgetting our anniversary?"

Su Yu has always been a man of few words.

Previously, Wu Min thought that this was just his personality.

Later I discovered that there weren't actually that many complicated reasons.

He just didn't love her.

Su Yu remained silent. He was most afraid of such questioning.

He changed the subject, "What do you want? I'll give it to you."

Her disappointed and dazed look made his heart feel as if it was being slowly cut by a pair of rusty scissors.

The pain was not intense, but rather dull and intense.

Wu Min is a little sun.

Her smile can infect everyone.

Su Yu liked it very much at first, but later he disliked it.

It’s not that I don’t like it.

He just didn't like that she laughed because of him.

How could a man like him make her laugh?

Wu Min lowered her eyes. "The gift I gave you is on the table. Go and see it yourself."

Su Yu's body stiffened.

That feeling of fear swept over his heart again.

A feeling of suffocation came over him, and Su Yu felt disgusted and painful for no reason.

But considering Wu Min's feelings, Su Yu suppressed his emotions.

I didn't let myself vomit in front of her.

But his nails had already dug deep into his palms.

It left eye-catching red marks.

In pain, yet unaware.

Su Yu forced a stiff smile on his face that was uglier than crying.

He stared at Wu Min and suddenly said, "Minmin, don't buy things for me in the future."

"You know, I'm not romantic. You're wasting your time and money by giving me these."

Wu Min lowered her eyelids.

He seemed to have said this more than once.

But before, she thought that her love for giving him gifts was her own business.

Now that I think about it, she was somewhat good at being self-important.

Wu Min turned her head away indifferently, avoiding Su Yu's gaze.

"Take a look at it first. You have been looking forward to this gift for a long time. I know you will like it very much."

Su Yu felt suffocated.

He hated that she was always like this, carefully figuring out his preferences and preparing surprises for him in advance.

He is such a terrible person, he never deserves to be treated like this by her!

The dull, suffocating feeling almost swallowed Su Yu whole.

But he didn't show it on his face, and even cast his eyes on the table.

On the table, there lay a divorce agreement.