Friday, February 10, 2023.
At 8:30 in the morning, after having breakfast, Bao Yulu and her husband Yang Wei walked towards the Xingfu Marriage Agency not far from the hotel.
She and her husband are from Fujian Province. Yesterday at nine o'clock in the morning, after her husband grabbed an appointment for Master Jiang's "Marriage Mediation", the couple set off for the provincial capital of Guangxi Province.
Afterwards, he rented a hotel next to the Happy Marriage Agency and settled down there, waiting to seek Master Jiang's help today.
At this time, the couple was walking towards the Happy Matchmaking Agency with heavy hearts, and there was no communication between them along the way.
When they arrived at the Happy Marriage Agency, they found the door was still closed, so the couple stood on each side, waiting for the agency staff to come to work.
After waiting for about seven or eight minutes, a disfigured man came to the matchmaking agency. Seeing the couple waiting at the door, he smiled and greeted them, "Good morning!"
"Good morning!"
"Good morning!"
Yang Wei and Bao Yulu and his wife also greeted them.
They both followed Master Jiang's Weibo, so they knew who the disfigured man was and his heroic deeds. They still admired him very much.
Lan Zhihui opened the door and asked, "Are you two the customers who made a successful appointment yesterday?"
Yang Wei nodded and said, "Yes, when will Master Jiang come?"
Lan Zhihui said, "It should be soon. They will definitely arrive before nine o'clock. Please come in and sit for a while!"
Yang Wei and Bao Yulu thanked him, then followed Lan Zhihui into the Happy Marriage Agency.
As soon as they entered the door, the couple looked around the matchmaking agency carefully.
The area of the matchmaking agency is not large, but not small either. In addition to a reception hall, there are several offices, all separated by frosted glass.
When the couple was looking at the layout of the reception hall, they immediately saw the banner hanging in the most conspicuous position.
"A thousand miles of love will lead you to a marriage, and the matchmaker is always by your side!"
The couple savored the gift and were lost in thought for a moment.
…
When Jiang Feng arrived at the matchmaking agency, he immediately saw the couple sitting in the reception hall and greeted them first, "Good morning, guests!"
Jiang Feng's photo was hung in the reception hall, so the couple recognized him at a glance.
"Master Jiang, good morning!"
"Please come in, we'll talk in the office."
"OK."
After entering the office and sitting down, Jiang Feng got a glass of water for the two of them, then said with a smile: "In order to avoid any misunderstandings, I need to confirm the identities of the two guests first. May I ask your names?"
"My name is Yang Wei."
"My name is Bao Yulu."
After hearing the couple's answers, Jiang Feng nodded and said, "Well, identities confirmed, what problems have occurred in your marriage?"
Yang Wei asked somewhat embarrassedly: "Master Jiang, I wonder how much you charge for marriage mediation?"
Jiang Feng smiled and said, "The fee depends on the difficulty of the mediation. If it is a beginner's level, the fee is 5,000 yuan. If it is an intermediate level, the fee is 20,000 yuan. If it is a high level, the fee is 100,000 yuan.
If it is not even of elementary difficulty, the fee is one thousand.
Of course, if mediation doesn’t work, it’s free!
As for the difficulty of mediation, I will judge it. You can first tell me the problem you encounter, and then I will determine the difficulty level for you. Then you can decide whether to accept the mediation or not. "
Yang Wei nodded secretly after hearing this. As long as the decision-making power was in their hands, there would be no problem.
Bao Yulu had no objection either.
Seeing that the two had acquiesced, Jiang Feng said, "Now you can tell us about the problems you have encountered!"
Yang Wei glanced at his wife who was sitting next to him, and said to Jiang Feng: "Master Jiang, my wife wants to divorce me, but I don't want to divorce, so I would like to ask you to help mediate."
Jiang Feng looked at Bao Yulu, "Then Ms. Bao, please tell me why you want a divorce?"
Bao Yulu glanced at her husband who was sitting next to her and said with some embarrassment: "Master Jiang, can I talk to you alone?"
Jiang Feng nodded, looked at Yang Wei and said, "Mr. Yang, can you please sit in the hall outside for a while?"
"Okay!" Yang Wei responded helplessly, then walked out of the office and went to the reception hall to wait.
After Yang Wei left, Jiang Feng looked at Bao Yulu and said, "Ms. Bao, you can speak now!"
Bao Yulu organized his words and said slowly, "I feel that he is really too scary. Living with him is very stressful. It's as if he will suddenly jump up and strangle me to death at any time."
Jiang Feng looked calm and asked, "Ms. Bao, what did he do to make you feel this way?"
Bao Yulu showed a hint of hesitation.
Jiang Feng observed her expression and immediately encouraged her: "Ms. Bao, it doesn't matter even if it involves personal privacy. Just treat me as a psychologist and don't have to feel any psychological burden."
Bao Yulu had already prepared herself mentally before coming here. She was just a little hesitant at this moment. After hearing Jiang Feng's encouragement, she gritted her teeth and said, "I have been married to him for nearly three years. He has some psychological barriers in that regard. When he was a craftsman, he could do anything. It was normal.
But once he wants to practice dual cultivation with me, he becomes as short and weak as the author.
In the first three months, I had the patience to guide him slowly, and even accompanied him to the hospital, but unfortunately I couldn't solve the problem.
As a normal woman, I also have physical needs. After living like a brother with him for more than a year, I couldn't stand the loneliness anymore and cheated on him! "
Having said this, Bao Yulu paused.
Jiang Feng asked at the right time: "You cheated in your marriage, so he should be the one divorcing you. Why do you want to divorce him? And you said before that he was too scary, and it felt like he might suddenly strangle you to death at any time. What's going on?"
Bao Yulu said with a complicated expression: "After I cheated on him, I always thought I had kept him in the dark until I accidentally discovered his secret when I was looking for something some time ago.
It turned out that he knew exactly what I had done to cheat on him. I didn't even know what means he used, but he even had the video of my cheating.
When I saw those videos, I felt a chill in my heart.
From the time we got married until now, his attitude towards me has never changed, and this is exactly why I am afraid of him. He obviously knows that I have cheated on him, and he has collected a lot of evidence, but he has never blamed me or mentioned this to me. I don't know if he really doesn't mind, or if he is holding back and wants to take revenge on me.
In short, I'm scared!
I want a divorce!"
After listening to Bao Yulu's story, Jiang Feng asked again: "After you knew his secret, have you ever discussed this issue with him openly?"
Bao Yulu said: "We talked about it. I apologized to him on the same day, saying that I had let him down and was willing to leave the house. But he disagreed, saying that he didn't want to divorce and that he was fine living like this. He even said that he was willing to be Fang Yiai and that it was okay for me to bring my lover home to live with me.
Master Jiang, this is not something a normal person would say. I have watched many TV dramas, and the heroines who encounter such things often do not have a good ending. I am really scared!"
Jiang Feng nodded and said, "Let me summarize it for you, Ms. Bao, you are worried that everything your husband is doing now is just a disguise, and he wants to retaliate against you for cheating in a way you can't imagine, so you feel very scared and want to stay away from him as soon as possible, is that what you mean?"
Bao Yulu nodded repeatedly and said, "That's what I mean. Living with someone like him is too stressful. I'm not afraid of him getting angry. After all, it's normal for a husband to get angry when his wife cheats on him. What's scary is that he's not only not angry, but also encourages you to continue cheating, and even lets you bring the person you cheated on home. Anyone would be afraid of that."
Jiang Feng hummed and said, "I understand. Ms. Bao, please go out and wait. Call your husband in. I will have a good talk with him and find out his real thoughts first."
Bao Yulu stood up and said, "Okay, then I'll trouble Master Jiang."
Jiang Feng said: "You're welcome."
Soon, Bao Yulu called Yang Wei in.
After he sat down, Jiang Feng got straight to the point and said, "Mr. Yang, your wife has explained the problems between you two to me. I want to ask you what you think? Why do you encourage your wife to continue to cheat?"
Yang Wei was silent for a moment, then slowly said: "Master Jiang, I have a psychological barrier in that regard. My wife should have told you about it, right?"
Jiang Feng said: "I have said that there are actually many such examples. The main thing is to overcome your own psychology."
Yang Wei nodded and continued, "Since I found out that my wife had cheated on me, I was surprised to find that I was not angry at all, but I even felt a little excited. At that time, I knew that there was something wrong with my mind."
Jiang Feng asked: "Mr. Yang, have you tried to find a psychologist?"
Yang Wei sighed, “I have consulted a psychologist and received treatment for a period of time, but it didn’t help at all.
I simply gave up on treatment and started to try my best to secretly film my wife cheating on me. Whenever I saw her doing that with other men, I couldn't control my excitement.
Even since then, I have used videos of my wife cheating on me as a craftsman, and the results are very good.
I thought I could live like this forever, but my wife dug out all my treasured photos and videos a while ago and destroyed them...
Not only that, she wanted to divorce me. I told her that I really didn't mind her cheating and could even help her find a suitable partner, but she didn't trust me.
Just when I was worried about what to do, Master Jiang, you added the "Marriage Mediation" project, and I happened to grab the appointment for today, so I came to you for help, Master Jiang, hoping that you can comfort my wife and make her believe my sincerity and not divorce me. "
Hearing this, Jiang Feng nodded and said, "I am aware of the problems you and your wife have encountered. Mr. Yang, please wait for me in the reception hall for ten minutes. I will think carefully about your marriage mediation plan and discuss it with you in detail later."
"Okay, Master Jiang!"