"Fuck, that brat is so annoying. If I were there, I probably wouldn't be able to control my temper and would definitely slap him twice."
"As bad as the child is, so are the bad parents. This is a very true saying. Judging from what the child did and the attitude of his parents who turned a blind eye to it, if they continue to educate their children in this way, I dare to conclude that this child will become a social cancer when he grows up."
"It's really infuriating to meet such a naughty kid on the bus. I've met a similar naughty kid before, and that trip really made me angry."
"That young man wearing a mask is really great. Especially when he used the same method to kick the naughty kid's chair, it was really refreshing. But I don't understand what he did afterwards. Could it be that the young man wearing a mask knew the family of three?"
"Fuck! Am I seeing things? That young man wearing a mask looks like Master Jiang?"
"That's right, you are not dazzled, that is indeed Master Jiang. Master Jiang took action to discipline the naughty kid and his family, which is really satisfying!"
"Haha, Master Jiang's mysterious calculation method is really like using an anti-aircraft gun to kill a fly here. That naughty kid and his family can be said to have died without regrets."
"What a 'die without regrets'! The parents of the naughty kids said they don't want to be the flies killed by anti-aircraft guns!!!"
"I am glad to hear this. Someone should have stepped up to discipline this naughty kid a long time ago. It's ok for him to be lawless at home, but he also behaves like this in public. He really deserves a beating."
"I tried to put myself in the shoes of the beautiful lady in the front row and imagine myself in this situation while riding in a car. My blood pressure started to soar. This family of three is really disgusting!"
"I hope there will be more people like Master Jiang. When you encounter this kind of situation on the bus in the future, you should stand up and not tolerate it. Because the more you tolerate these shameless people, the more rampant they will become."
“…”
After the video in the car was circulated, the whole network was discussing it hotly. Everyone hated what the naughty child did and praised Master Jiang for taking action to discipline the naughty child and his family.
Then the topic expanded and everyone discussed the importance of children's education.
While the entire network was discussing this issue, Jiang Feng had already arrived at his destination, the provincial capital of Guizhou Province.
…
Marriage can be said to be one of the most important things in life.
No matter whether you are a man or a woman, you all want to find a satisfactory partner to spend your life with. But in practice, no matter how cautious you are about marriage or how careful you are when looking for a partner, it is of little use.
A large number of couples inevitably end up on the road to divorce.
The following are the most common reasons for divorce:
1. Extramarital affair.
According to the survey, extramarital affairs are the leading cause of marital breakdown.
The inability of one party to satisfy their sexual desire or the gradual fading of passion between husband and wife is the fuse that triggers an extramarital affair, while the anger and resentment after the affair is exposed becomes an accelerator of divorce.
2. Economic issues.
The divorce rate it causes is second only to extramarital affairs.
In love, romance is enough, but marriage is realistic and requires consideration of issues such as food, clothing, housing, transportation, raising children, and caring for parents in their old age.
Nowadays, many girls want to marry a rich man because they don’t want their marriage to be troubled by financial reasons in the future. Many women always complain that men do not let them live a life without worries about food and clothing.
As the saying goes, "A poor couple has many sorrows." Only once you have experienced the difficult days of having no money and being unable to move forward, will you deeply understand the meaning of this sentence.
Without money, children cannot receive a good education, parents cannot enjoy their old age, and you yourself cannot live a quality life.
Many women tend not to blame themselves, they only blame men for not being able to let them live a life without worries about food and clothing. Financial constraints and life pressures and other major and minor family matters also affect the relationship between husband and wife to a certain extent, leading to frequent quarrels, and then quarrels break up the family.
3. Lack of communication.
Good communication is the foundation for building trust between couples and can effectively enhance feelings. Otherwise, it will increase resentment and frustration on both sides. Not talking much all day, yelling at your partner or even saying bad things to him/her, and not resolving misunderstandings are all bad communication methods that need to be abandoned in marriage.
4. Often quarrel.
Couples are always bound to have bumps and even fierce arguments.
Among the main reasons that cause quarrels between couples, housework issues rank first. Small things such as washing dishes and cleaning the room may be the "spark" that ignites the source of anger.
The second is the issue of "financial power". How the family manages money and who should manage the money are easy to cause disagreements and affect the relationship. If a reconciliation or solution cannot be reached after a quarrel, it is likely to develop into a divorce.
5. The body shape is out of shape.
Although this reason may sound superficial, it is indeed an important factor affecting the relationship between couples. Weight gain can lead to a decrease in attractiveness, while also damaging self-confidence and self-esteem. Over time, visual "fatigue" and lack of freshness can lead to estrangement and even divorce.
6. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an eternal problem. Almost every family has experienced examples of a wife quarreling with her husband because of the mother-in-law. In serious cases, there have even been deaths, not to mention divorce.
7. Flash marriage.
There is no need to say more about this. Both parties rush into marriage with only a superficial understanding of each other. After marriage, the shortcomings are exposed one by one. If they cannot accept them, the marriage will naturally not be able to continue.
8. Psychological imbalance.
When one party feels that they have taken on more responsibilities in the marriage, they often become unbalanced, and resentment snowballs, eventually leading to the breakdown of the marriage. Couples should not only learn to communicate effectively, but also look at problems from each other's perspective, empathize with each other, and help each other, so that they can enjoy an equal and harmonious relationship.
9. One of the spouses has bad habits.
For example, if one spouse is involved in pornography, gambling, or drugs, it is only a matter of time before the marriage breaks down.
10. Domestic violence.
Domestic violence can be divided into physical and mental types, both of which are tragic.
Zhao Yuanming summarized the reasons for his divorce, which should be the lack of communication with his ex-wife.
Originally, Zhao Yuanming's communication skills were quite good. At least when he was in the hospital, communicating with patients and their families was usually smooth.
However, everyone has two sides. Many people are very polite and have a very good attitude when facing outsiders, and they talk and laugh.
But when facing the people closest to him, his attitude is different and he always has a sour face.
Of course, Zhao Yuanming is not such a person, but when facing his wife, his attitude is indeed not as patient as when facing patients and their families.
In his opinion, his wife should be the person who understands him best. He is already tired enough working in the hospital and can relax himself when he returns home. He does not want to communicate with his wife in the same way as he communicates with patients.
Even if he doesn't say a lot of things, his wife should understand.
But the facts proved that Zhao Yuanming overestimated the level of understanding between him and his wife. Young doctors are notoriously busy in the hospital, and his wife also has her own job. The two have inconsistent lifestyles and schedules, and they do not have much time to spend together.
If the couple communicates well, then it doesn't matter. But if they don't communicate well, their relationship will naturally cool over time.
Zhao Yuanming didn't understand it at the time, until he divorced his wife and reflected on it, then he realized how important timely communication is between husband and wife.
However, now that they are divorced, the most important thing is that his ex-wife became someone else's wife less than a year after the divorce. Even if Zhao Yuanming wants to save the relationship, he has no chance.
Zhao Yuanming felt a little regretful about this, after all, he still had feelings for his ex-wife.
It is said that even if love is not going well, career may be. There is some truth to this.
After the divorce, Zhao Yuanming devoted all his attention to his work. His surgeries became better and better, and he was praised many times by the head of the department. He had a bright future ahead of him.
That afternoon, after completing his last operation, Zhao Yuanming, who was tired and hungry, washed his hands, changed his clothes, and walked to the parking lot, preparing to drive home for dinner.
Originally, after Zhao Yuanming got married, he no longer lived and ate with his parents, but after his divorce, he went back to live with his parents.
As soon as he walked to his scooter, someone greeted him, "Hello, Doctor Zhao."
Zhao Yuanming looked over and found a handsome young man who looked familiar. He thought he was a former patient of his, so he greeted him, "Hello!"
The handsome young man introduced himself, "Doctor Zhao, my name is Jiang Feng, Jiang for Yangtze River, Feng for maple leaf. I'm a matchmaker from the Guangxi Province Happy Marriage Agency. I want to introduce you to a very good match. Doctor Zhao, is it convenient for you to have a meal and chat together?"
Zhao Yuanming reacted instantly after hearing this and asked in surprise, "Are you the Master Jiang from Guangxi Province?"
He had heard the nurses in the hospital talk about Master Jiang, the matchmaker, and he had even seen Master Jiang's photo, which was why he felt that the other person looked familiar.
"It turns out that Dr. Zhao also knows me!"
"I've heard a lot about you!"
Next, the two exchanged some pleasantries before getting in a car and heading to a restaurant for dinner.
…
Half an hour later.
In a private room of a restaurant, Jiang Feng and Zhao Yuanming were eating and chatting.
Jiang Feng said: "Doctor Zhao, let me introduce her personal information to you first!"
Zhao Yuanming nodded and said, "Okay, you talk, I'm listening."
Jiang Feng briefly introduced her, "She is from X City in Guizhou Province. She is an only child, 28 years old this year, 1.63 meters tall, with a good figure and good looks. She has a bachelor's degree and is proficient in X City's local dialect, Mandarin, Japanese, and English. She married a Japanese man and had a daughter. She divorced last year and returned to China with her child. She is currently preparing to open a Japanese restaurant in the provincial capital."
After listening to the previous introduction, Zhao Yuanming could feel the other party's excellence, but when he heard that the other party had married a Japanese and had a daughter, he couldn't help but frown.
He didn't care that the other party had been married before because he had also been married. But the other party was married to a Japanese and had a child, which was a bit weird.
After all, most Chinese people don’t have a very good impression of the Japanese, and Zhao Yuanming is one of them.
After Jiang Feng finished his introduction, Zhao Yuanming could not help but say, "Master Jiang, the other party's conditions are indeed very good. She is both talented and beautiful. I shouldn't have chosen her. But she gave birth to a child for a Japanese. If I marry her, I will have to be the father of that Japanese kid. I can't accept it for the time being!"
Jiang Feng swallowed the sour fish soup in his mouth and said, "Doctor Zhao, I understand your feelings, but we can't look at the problem so one-sidedly. Take the Anti-Japanese War as an example. There were friends in Japan who helped our party wholeheartedly. On the other hand, there were also many traitors in China.
Comparing the two, which one do you think is better, the traitors who share the same roots with us, or those Japanese friends?"
Zhao Yuanming drank a mouthful of soup and said, "Master Jiang, are you trying to say that bloodline is not important, and cultural identity is the most important?"
Jiang Feng nodded and said, "That's what I mean. This is reality, not a fantasy novel. If you have a certain awesome bloodline, you are destined to soar to the sky. So it doesn't matter whether you have the bloodline or not. The child grew up in China and learned our Chinese culture, so she is Chinese."
After all, Zhao Yuanming was an excellent student, so he naturally understood such a simple truth. He just subconsciously felt some resistance when the Japanese were mentioned before.
"Well, Master Jiang, you make sense. I wonder what her personality is like?"
"She still has a good personality..."
The two of them ate and talked. After confirming that Zhao Yuanming was interested in Li Shuixiu, Jiang Feng took out his mobile phone, pulled out the latest photo of Li Shuixiu, handed it to him and said, "Doctor Zhao, this is her photo. Do you think it matches your aesthetic standards?"
Zhao Yuanming took the phone and looked at the radiant young woman on the screen, his eyes suddenly lit up. Men are visual animals, and they can tell at a glance whether a woman's appearance meets their aesthetic standards. And now Zhao Yuanming is very sure that the young woman in the photo really meets his aesthetic standards.
Zhao Yuanming is 31 years old this year. Since he learned to appreciate women, he has never seen a woman who can make his heart beat faster instantly, including his ex-girlfriend and ex-wife. They got together slowly after getting along with each other, and it was not love at first sight.
But now, seeing this charming young woman on the screen, Zhao Yuanming felt a special urge in his heart. He wanted to marry her home immediately and do what every man wanted to do!
Zhao Yuanming swallowed his saliva, reluctantly handed the phone back to Jiang Feng, and said, "Master Jiang, you really live up to your reputation. I really like the girl you introduced to me. When can you arrange for me to meet her?"
Jiang Feng took the phone and said with a smile: "It's a bit late today, Doctor Zhao, what shift are you going to work tomorrow?"
Zhao Yuanming understood and said, "I will go to work as usual tomorrow. I have a lot of surgeries scheduled in the morning, so I may not have enough time at noon. If we want to arrange a meeting, it would be best after get off work at 6pm."
"Then I'll arrange for your two families to have dinner together at 7 o'clock tomorrow night, is that ok?"
"Of course!"