Jiang Damei and Li Hongjiang said these words not only to Li Erhe.
Instead, he held a simple meeting at home and said the same thing to his children.
She is still imitating the Jiang family's approach.
As long as the elders are fair and do not favor anyone, the brothers will not say anything even if they suffer a little loss, and they will be willing to do it for the sake of the family.
But if the elders are biased and unaware of it, then the younger generations will have a falling out; it’s only a matter of time.
What kind of environment has Liu Daya lived in?
My grandparents at home are wholeheartedly and unconditionally partial to my uncle's family.
My family has always been the kind of selfless devotion.
If my parents hadn't suddenly woken up, the situation might still be like this.
She never knew what a qualified elder should be like.
She used to think that as long as the elder didn't beat or scold anyone, worked honestly, and didn't skimp on food, he would be a good elder.
But what Li Erhe said today completely overturned her cognition.
Is that how it is?
It is not necessary for brothers and sisters to help each other.
The first thing is to live a good life in your own family, and your parents-in-law agree with it.
They will not force other children to favor the child they like.
Liu Daya couldn't imagine what life would be like if she married into the Li family.
But what is certain is that it is definitely better than before the Liu family split up.
Liu Daya was still stunned and didn't know what to answer, so she just said "hmm".
Li Erhe thought that Liu Daya was unhappy and was about to ask if he had said something wrong.
As a result, Jiang Mengxue came again at this time.
Although the door to the main room was always open and they could see what was going on inside from outside, it was impossible for the two of them to talk alone for too long.
That's about right.
Even if there is something else to say, you can only say it outside.
They were chatting outside and preparing the meal.
But as soon as they went out, Sun Fenfen planned to take Liu Daya home and had no intention of staying for dinner.
"Hey, the food is ready. Let's eat before we leave. Today is a happy occasion, so we can't spoil the fun."
Li Cuiying stopped the person and refused to let him go.
"No way, how can I let you spend money."
Sun Fenfen was quite embarrassed because their marriage had not been decided yet.
Looking at the meals prepared in their kitchen, I never imagined they would be so sumptuous during Chinese New Year.
That big piece of meat is more than what other people eat in several years in one meal.
She didn't have the nerve to stay.
"Don't be so polite to me. We are all relatives from now on. Xiaoxue is Erhe's cousin. We are all family. There is nothing we can't eat. Everything is ready. You are not allowed to leave."
Li Cuiying was afraid that she would not be able to process those large pots of meat, so how could she let these two mouths go now?
With a serious expression, he insisted on not letting the two people leave.
Sun Fenfen finally felt relieved when she saw that Li Cuiying really didn't mind them staying.
In fact, as long as the two of them have no objections when they meet this time, they can discuss marriage later.
This kind of thing does not require the elders of the two families to meet, as long as a matchmaker can mediate.
Gu Meifeng also pulled Sun Fenfen aside to ask what her opinion was, how much dowry she wanted, and what else she needed to buy.
Sun Fenfen had thought about it before she came.
The Liu family and the Li family are ordinary families, so there is nothing special about them. They just follow local customs.
"We don't have much dowry here. If you're willing, just give a few dollars. If the conditions are not so good, just give some food. My family has no objection. Just look at the Li family.
I only have one request, to make Daya a thick winter coat. My family will make Daya a coat that she can wear now. I don’t have any other requests.”
Sun Fenfen is just a rural woman.
I don’t understand any big principles, I just think that we are all from an ordinary family.
If they ask for too much, her in-laws will not treat Daya well in the future.
They asked for less and also hoped that the Li family would be nicer to Daya.
Although she planned to adopt a son, it was just for show, and she really needed support in her old age.
In addition, there is no son in the family, so it is difficult to find marriages for the daughters.
My mother has a younger brother, so even if the daughters are forty or fifty years old, they will have someone to support them.
But she had no intention of sucking her own daughter's blood for an adopted son.
No matter how close you are to me, it can never be closer than the flesh that fell out of my belly.
Gu Meifeng nodded.
Nowadays, every family is in a difficult situation, so they want their children to have simple weddings.
When I saw the wedding scene of Jiang Mengxue and Gu Qingbei, I thought every family was like that, even in the city there was no such grand ceremony.
Several women were sitting together chatting, and Jiang Mengxue of course heard what Sun Fenfen said.
Seeing Erhe helping to light the fire in the kitchen, she also planned to go and ask what the Li family was planning.
Seeing Jiang Mengxue get up and go out, they naturally knew what she was doing.
Sun Fenfen also wanted to settle things as soon as possible.
The Li family is a good family. If Liu Daya misses the opportunity, she will never meet such a good family again.
I’m worried that things will get complicated if I wait too long, so it’s better to finalize it as soon as possible.
Jiang Mengxue also believed that the Li family must have discussed the expenses of Erhe's wedding.
I can’t say exactly how many there are, but I can still give a rough estimate of the number.
Jiang Mengxue went to the kitchen and called Erhe out, and sat down at the stone table outside. Gu Qingbei also came to join in the fun, but Jiang Mengxue didn't chase him away.
"Erhe, what are your family's plans for your marriage? How much is the bride price? Do you have any plans for expenses?"
Jiang Mengxue didn't intend to beat around the bush and went straight to the point. She wanted to find out the answer so that she could respond.
Erhe is not a fool either.
Just now Jiang Mengxue was in the main room talking to his future daughter-in-law and mother-in-law, and now she came out to ask him about this matter.
I guess a few people were discussing this matter in the room just now.
My parents did talk about it when we were at home.
Erhe told about his family’s plans.
"My family said that each son would be given 30 yuan, and it was up to him to decide how much to use. He could keep the extra money, and if it was not enough, he had to find a way out himself.
As long as the marriage here can be settled, my parents will give me the money and let me handle the rest myself. I can talk to my family if I need anything else."
Jiang Mengxue nodded and raised Sun Fenfen's request.
Erhe agreed without thinking.
"Of course I should. How can I not prepare new clothes for my wedding? I'll go to the commune to buy some fabric later. But since I love you, cotton might not be easy to buy this season. I'll have to go ask first."
It is indeed a bit difficult to buy cotton in the middle of summer.
But that's not a problem.
"It's okay, your cousin bought a lot and hasn't used it all yet, so I'll give you some.
Do you have any cloth coupons? A set of winter clothes would cost a lot of them."
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