Jiang Dongmei's menstruation hasn't come for several months, and she knows it.
Even though she had been to the hospital to see Jiang Mengxue several times, she never thought of going for a check-up.
I just feel it’s unnecessary. What else can I eat besides being pregnant if my period hasn’t come for several months?
Jiang Mengxue hadn't given birth yet, and she didn't want to cause trouble for her sister.
Now is a good time to let Jiang Mengxue take a look.
Jiang Mengxue raised her eyebrows. She had thought that Zhang Dongmei was preparing for a second child, but she didn't expect it to come so soon.
He placed his hand on the pulse and felt it carefully.
"You haven't had your period for several months this month? It doesn't look like you've just gotten pregnant."
According to Jiang Dongmei's pulse, it should have been at least three months.
Jiang Dongmei saw that Qingbei was also sitting in the car. She was too embarrassed to say it directly and raised three fingers.
Jiang Mengxue figured it out.
"What can I say? Save where you can and spend where you can. Prenatal checkups are essential. Sometimes there's a problem, but you don't feel anything. It's still better to see a doctor every month."
How can we have the habit of prenatal check-ups at this time?
Most people know they are pregnant when their period hasn’t come, and they don’t necessarily go to the hospital until they give birth.
Births are also given directly at home, so there are many miscarriages and difficult births, and even more children die at birth due to unhealthy conditions.
But there is no way around it. The medical system is not sound and some problems cannot be detected even through examinations.
Jiang Mengxue didn't know what to say, but she still reminded Jiang Dongmei to go for a check-up once a month, just to feel at ease.
Jiang Dongmei also remembered it and promised to get a check-up every month in the future.
"Go back and tell my mother about this, and ask her about what I told you before. I won't let her take care of the child in vain after I send her back. I will provide food and drink for the child, and give her three dollars a month.
If she can't make up her mind, let her go back and discuss it with her father, brother and sister-in-law.
Next time I see my eldest, second, and third brothers, I’ll tell them too.”
Jiang Mengxue nodded to indicate that she understood. In fact, even if Jiang's mother took care of the child, she wouldn't be able to do so for long.
When the child is two or three years old and grows up, he can be sent to kindergarten.
In fact, there are nurseries that are specifically designed to take care of children for dual-income families who don’t have time to take care of their children.
Some dual-income families send their children to daycare when they are only a few months old after maternity leave.
The principal, teachers, childcare workers, cooks and staff in the nursery are all caring and responsible people selected from the families of employees.
When they are young, they can be sent to nursery school. When they are a little older, they can be sent to kindergarten, and then to elementary school, junior high school and high school.
Generally, these ancillary facilities are built by the larger factories themselves.
If a small factory does not have the conditions, some factories will merge together to run it.
The county also has state-owned nurseries, kindergartens, elementary schools, junior high schools and high schools.
It all depends on your own choice. If your factory has it and has employees, the price will of course be cheaper.
Chen Hua's furniture factory is neither big nor small, and they jointly run a nursery with other factories.
There are some benefits in sending your child there as an employee of Chen Hua.
But Jiang Dongmei was reluctant to send her baby, who was only a few months old, to nursery.
With so many children in a nursery, who can guarantee that the staff there will take care of the children wholeheartedly?
Let’s not talk about the food and drinks for now. If you bring some good food for your children, who knows if the staff there will keep it for themselves?
In case of child abuse or poor care, it will be difficult for parents to discover it.
Chen Hua's parents are completely unreliable.
If Jiang's mother could retire and stay at home to take care of the children, it wouldn't be a problem for her to help take care of them as well.
Besides, there are nephews and nieces at home who can help take care of the child, and it won’t delay Jiang’s mother’s work.
Jiang Dongmei felt that this was not a big deal and her family would not disagree.
Jiang Mengxue also felt that there was nothing wrong with this matter.
After a while, Li Cuiying and her friends came out with the things they bought.
Jiang Dongmei was also anxious to go back to work, so she said goodbye to them and returned to the supply and marketing cooperative.
Considering that the child was sleeping along the way, the speed was not fast.
Finally got home at noon.
Gu Qingbei first sent Jiang Mengxue and the child back to the room, helped them clean up and rest in the house, then went out to get their things from the car.
Jiang Mengxue was a little hungry, and it would take a while to cook outside, so she took two boiled eggs from the space and ate them first.
Mobao was very well behaved along the way. He didn't drink milk or wet his pants.
As a result, he woke up as soon as he got home. Jiang Mengxue fed him, changed his diaper, and then he fell asleep again.
I hope he remains this easy to take care of when he grows up.
Of course, Jiang Mengxue was just thinking about it. It would be okay during the confinement period, but when the baby is two, three, or four months old, it will be more difficult to deal with.
After they came back, Wang Daya and the daughter-in-law of the third grandmother next door, Zhang Qiuju, also brought Gu Yuyan to see Jiang Mengxue and the child.
They were all very curious, why did it take so long to go to the hospital to give birth?
I thought something had happened, so I rushed over as soon as I learned they were back.
"Oh, Huiying is back too? I haven't seen you come back in years. Now that you've married a daughter-in-law, you're missing home."
Zhang Qiuju's family lived next door, and Ruan Huiying had contact with his family every time she came back, so the two were not so unfamiliar with each other.
"That's right. I miss my grandson so much that I want to come back every day. But my husband is not available even though he wants to come back. He insists that I take a leave to come back and take a few photos of his eldest grandson to take back."
Ruan Huiying came in and saw that Jiang Mengxue was not resting. After asking her opinion, she brought a few people in to see the child.
As soon as Jiang Mengxue entered the room, Gu Qingbei pushed her onto the kang, insisting that she should lie on the kang obediently during the confinement period, and it would be best not to even go out to avoid being exposed to the wind outside.
I don't know where he heard it.
"Xiaoxue looks good. Did you suffer any hardship during childbirth?"
When Wang Daya came in, she first looked at Jiang Mengxue's face. It looked rosy and shiny, not at all as pale as if she had just given birth.
"I was fine. I gave birth a few hours after the attack. If it had taken days and nights, it would have been a real ordeal."
Gu Yuyan slowly moved to the edge of the kang and stretched her head to look at the little calligraphy work lying next to Jiang Mengxue.
Seeing that she was having difficulty reading, Jiang Mengxue moved the calligraphy outside.
"Show our little calligraphy to our aunt."
Our little Mobao didn't know anything yet and was still sleeping with his lips sucked.
"Sister-in-law, is the baby's nickname Mobao? So cute. What's his full name?"
In the countryside, few families name their children Bao.
Many of them are given ugly names, and everyone thinks that ugly names make it easier to raise children.
There are chicken eggs, duck eggs, goose eggs, and even some are named dung balls and dung pits. There is nothing you can't think of that no one dares to dig.
Jiang Mengxue didn't intend to let her baby be called by such a name, and she couldn't bring herself to call it that.
I can’t even begin to imagine that my chubby baby, whose face looks like a steamed bun, is called Yadan.
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