Jiang Mengxue wanted to laugh. She didn't expect that Jiang's mother was also a face control.
"Mom, what did Second Aunt tell you specifically? We need to understand the other party's situation first. How can we meet if we don't know the situation?"
In this day and age, blind dates don’t just mean giving up if the two people you meet are not suitable for each other. It’s better to meet more people and spend more time with them.
Nowadays, people try to understand the family and personal situation of the person clearly before going on a blind date.
Those who are more responsible for their children will go to the other village to ask people in the same village about the character of this family.
We will arrange a blind date only if we think the person’s family situation, personal conditions and character are all good. If we feel they are suitable after meeting, we will arrange an engagement.
But there is no time for you to meet every now and then to get familiar with each other.
In some cases, the two people have never even met each other, but their parents decide on their marriage. They meet for the first time on the wedding day, but they still want to spend their lives together even if they don't like each other.
The most unethical thing Jiang Mengxue had ever heard of was finding someone to go on a blind date with, and the man was not good-looking or not tall enough.
Find someone with good conditions to replace the blind date. If the bride finds out that the person is not right on the wedding day, there is no way to regret it.
No one will care that the girl was cheated. As long as you break off the engagement, your reputation will be more or less bad. Rumors will spread and you will gradually become the perpetrator from a victim.
Of course, I am not saying that Gu Qingbei is a liar. It’s just that I don’t know much about the two people’s family situations or whether their personalities are compatible. Besides, maybe the other party’s parents don’t want him to find a partner in the countryside.
Given his conditions, he should look for someone of similar social status, such as a comrade-in-arms, or the daughter of his parents' colleague or friend.
Moreover, his family has left this place for decades, and he only lived in the countryside for a few years when he was a child. Jiang Mengxue was willing to get married because they knew each other well and it was obvious that the two families were not familiar with each other.
You still have to understand the other person's basic conditions first. It would be embarrassing to ask them one by one like checking their household registration when you two go on a blind date.
Jiang's mother thought for a moment and said, "In fact, what the matchmaker can tell you are only external conditions. His name is Gu Qingbei. His father, Gu Zhenhai, is the third child in the family. He went to the army when he was young and there has been no news for many years. The family thought he died on the battlefield, but unexpectedly, he came back with a wife and children after more than ten years.
There was still a war going on at that time, and both husband and wife were on the front line. Gu Qingbei's mother was Luan Huiying, a frontline doctor.
At that time, the two of them came back once and left the five-year-old Gu Qingbei in his hometown to be taken care of by his mother. They left together the next day and there was no news of them coming back during that time.
Later, when Gu Qingbei was twelve years old, he followed a passing army.
Although he was young, he was tall and no one noticed even though he reported his age as a few years higher. He just followed them like that for more than ten years. It seemed that the family of three only came back a few years ago.
Today, your second aunt also told me about his family's current situation. The old couple are in the same army. Gu Qingbei's army is not far from them, and it only takes two days by train.
Gu Zhenhai is the army commander and Luan Yinghui works in the military hospital. We don’t know the details.
Gu Qingbei seems to be the deputy brigade commander. We don’t know his exact rank, but there is one bad thing: there are too few people in his family. He is an only child and has no brothers or sisters. If anything happens in the future, he will have no one to help him.
After all, Gu Qingbei's father passed away when he was young, and he himself had only been in the village for a few years. He was still young at that time, and he heard a lot of things from his family. Your second aunt didn't know much either, but sometimes she would mail some things to your second aunt, so she didn't say much about their situation.
What do you think? Would you like to meet me?
Jiang Mengxue didn't think it was a big deal that she didn't have brothers or sisters. If there were more people in the family, she wouldn't know how to get along with them.
But he was a soldier and probably wouldn't stay here for too long, which made her a little hesitant.
"Mom, does Gu Qingbei know that Second Aunt is introducing him to someone? Is he willing to meet someone?"
"Why not? Your second aunt should have told him everything. It depends on whether you are willing to agree. If you think he is too far away, I will go back. You don't have to feel bad about it."
"No need, mother. Just talk to Second Aunt and see when to meet."
Jiang's mother was also very happy. She and her second aunt had become familiar with each other since she got married, and they had gotten along well for decades.
She also knew a little about the other party's family. She had seen it when Gu Qingbei came to the village when she was a child.
I also know everyone in the Gu family.
Gu Qingbei's grandparents have very bright personalities, and the uncles and aunts in the family are all easy to get along with. Only his aunt is picky and strong-willed. But she is just an aunt, not a mother-in-law, so what does her personality matter? Anyway, they have separated a long time ago and don't need to live together.
Jiang's mother was not too worried about Gu Qingbei's character, and the fact that he was a soldier made her feel even more at ease.
Whether in terms of character or family, he is a good candidate for son-in-law.
As for what I said before, it's too far away.
Jiang's mother thought it was no big deal. How could a married girl come home so often? It was good enough for her to come back once during the Chinese New Year or other holidays.
She has been prepared for this ever since her daughter went to school and worked outside, moving further and further away from their village.
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