Chapter 161 Tea Party
"How could it be?" He Miaomiao didn't believe it.
What man would marry a woman who can't give birth to children?
In fact, Li Yuping did not expect Zhao Guohua to answer like this, and she was ready to break up.
But he said he didn't mind, because everyone has their own past. He actually comforted her about the child, telling her not to think too much about it, and that if she had health problems, she could get treatment instead of giving up on herself and belittling herself.
He also said a lot, such as the value of a person's life is not reflected in having children.
Zhao Guohua's thinking is different from those of these people.
Very advanced.
She felt that what Zhao Guohua said was right.
"He Miaomiao, there are many good men in Peking University. Don't just focus on Zhao Guohua." Li Yuping advised.
He Miaomiao, "It's none of your business who I'm watching."
Li Yuping, "But if you keep an eye on Zhao Guohua, I will take care of it."
Seeing that the two were about to quarrel again, Xu Fang hurriedly tried to smooth things over, "Okay, okay, stop quarreling, I'll call the dormitory manager in a while."
The two of them then stopped.
He Miaomiao was quite unconvinced. On what basis?
Is Zhao Guohua blind? He gave up the virgin girl and fell in love with an old woman who was married and had children older than him.
It's not clean anymore.
No matter what Miaomiao thinks, Li Yuping and Zhao Guohua are still doing well. Since that incident, Li Yuping wrote a letter to her ex-husband Xu Zhiqiang telling him about their divorce.
Then the other party came to Beijing with his household registration booklet and divorced Li Yuping happily.
Su He and Han Jiajia were very curious as to why they had been unwilling to divorce before but agreed now, so they went to ask Li Yuping.
Li Yuping: "It's nothing. I just said I went to the hospital and the doctor said I couldn't get pregnant anymore."
"You know, in the countryside, no matter if you are a college student or something, as long as you can't get pregnant and have children, you are not a good woman or a good wife."
"He must come with me to get a divorce so that he can marry another wife."
Su He, "Your trick is really good!"
For the village, in fact for most families, this problem has no solution. If the daughter-in-law cannot get pregnant, 98% of the marriages end in divorce.
Even if the couple has a good relationship, the parents-in-law can still file for divorce.
If they don't divorce, they will cut off their family's roots. They will cry, make a fuss, and even commit suicide. No matter how good the relationship between the couple is, they can't stand the daily nagging of the parents-in-law.
"Did the doctor really say that you won't be able to have children in the future?" Han Jiajia asked.
Li Yuping shook her head. "No, the doctor said I was a little weak and told me to take good care of myself and not to get cold in winter or summer."
When she was in Xu's family before, she had no job to do.
She had to wash clothes for the whole family, and sometimes she even used cold water. When she wanted to use hot water, her mother-in-law scolded her for wasting firewood and said that she was just being pretentious because she came from the city. That was how she lived when she was young.
Anyway, she can talk about one thing for days.
In response to this, her ex-husband said, Mom is the elder, she is right, you just need to listen to her.
Anyway, she had been in the countryside for ten years and had become accustomed to the evil of human nature.
"I told you, it can't possibly come to that. I think you just didn't take good care of yourself during the confinement period, and then you had to work." Han Jiajia said.
As a woman, although she has never been married and has no children, she can empathize with Li Yuping.
Getting married is like a second life. Regardless of Li Yuping’s case, it’s still the quarrels between couples in her neighborhood.
They fight each other, either the man grabs the woman and beats her, or a group of people from the husband's family beat the daughter-in-law.
Han Jiajia thinks getting married is too scary. If possible, she doesn't want to get married in her life. So be it.
She looked at Su He and suddenly became curious about the situation at Su He's home. She asked, "Su He, are your husband and parents-in-law okay?"
Su He laughed when he heard this, "Let's not talk about my husband first. My parents-in-law are absolutely the best. I feel that there are no better parents-in-law in the world than mine."
Han Jiajia and Li Yuping became interested. "What's the matter? Tell us about it."
"Let me start from when I got married. When I was newly married and not working, I slept until noon every day, and my mother-in-law prepared all three meals for me. Later, when I found out I was pregnant, I ate one chicken a week. During the confinement period, I ate one chicken a day."
"I have been married to my husband for 17 years. I have had arguments with him, but I have never had an argument with my in-laws."
Li Yuping, "Let's not talk about anything else. You ate a chicken every day during your confinement. No parents-in-law can do that."
It’s not like she had not eaten chicken during her confinement. She only ate it once, and that was with the whole family. Everyone ate the meat, and she drank chicken soup, saying that chicken soup helps increase milk production.
Su He heard, "The chicken soup and chicken meat are all mine. I will only give them to others if I can't finish them."
Han Jiajia, "Your in-laws are really nice."
If her future husband's family is like this, she won't be afraid of getting married.
Su He smiled, "My parents-in-law are very generous. When we lived together, my mother-in-law washed my clothes. Knowing that I like to eat mutton, my father-in-law would go to the brigade every few days to cut mutton for me to eat."
"Not to mention that my mother-in-law often gives me money. Whenever I go to the county to buy something, she gives me three or five yuan."
Li Yuping, "Oh my god, your parents-in-law are so nice. If they are such good parents, their son must be good."
"Is your husband nice too?"
Su He smiled, "Yes, it's good. When I got married, I was given 100 yuan as a betrothal gift, and he also bought me a watch and a bicycle."
“This watch.”
Han Jiajia and Li Yuping looked at the watch on Su He's hand.
"Normally, I mean what I say, but we also quarrel."
Li Yuping, "It's normal for couples not to quarrel. You live alone and still quarrel with pots and pans!"
Han Jiajia, "Yes, I used to get angry while cooking and smash the pot."
She didn't dare to smash the bowl because a bowl can be broken but a pot cannot.
Li Yuping, "As for a man, he should love you, listen to you in general, be diligent and make money to support the family. That's enough."
Su He nodded, "Yes." She agreed.
Li Yuping, "What does your son do for a living?"
"He is a police officer. He used to be in the army. He was injured and discharged the year he married me."
Han Jiajia, "You used to be a soldier, no wonder you can buy so many things for me after we get married."
Li Yuping: “Yes, the average rural family really doesn’t have much money.”
Su He: “That’s true.”
"How did you two meet? Were your parents introducing you to each other?" Li Yuping asked.
Speaking of which, Soho is a bit...
She laughed and said, "Well, I said I caught it on the street, do you believe it?"
"Ha" two questioning faces.
Su He, "Oh, that's it..."
After listening to this, the two of them gave a thumbs up and said, "Student Su He, you are a role model for our generation!"
Su He scratched his head and said, "Well, I thought he was good-looking at the time, so I wanted to ask him."
"If someone has a date or a girl they like, they can just go get her."
"Then if there's no girl you like, you take action." Han Jiajia smiled.
Su He: “Yes.”
Li Yuping, "You are awesome."
"Rub~"
"Let me take advantage of your good fortune. You are my role model."
Han Jiajia hugged Su He's arm and rubbed it against her.
Su He, “…..…”