Chapter 179: I won’t talk about it before I’m 25
“Is this true or false?”
Gu's mother and Su He were very puzzled as they didn't go home to celebrate the New Year but went to their girlfriend's home to celebrate the New Year even though they weren't married yet.
Chang Yi, "She told me that before."
Mother Gu was certain, "He must have gone. He wasn't home and wasn't in school. Where else could he have gone?"
She shook her head and said, "What is this kid thinking? He is going to celebrate the New Year at someone else's house before getting married."
Chang Yi was puzzled. "Grandma, didn't Sister Jia Jia come over this year?"
Mother Gu asked, "How old are your sister Jiajia and your brother Hongxing? They are both thirty years old. Your sister Jiajia has worked for ten years and is no longer a young girl who knows nothing."
"Besides, I guess they came back this time to discuss marriage."
"Girls should respect themselves and go to the man's house only when you are ready to get married, instead of going there to celebrate the New Year just after you get together."
"Then the man's family won't value you."
Mother Gu was speechless. How did Wu Sanfeng educate her daughter? They haven't even started dating yet, but she didn't go back home for the New Year and went to the man's home.
It's not that I can't get married. I'm a Peking University student, only 19 or 20 years old, and I don't have to get married right away.
No matter how much you like someone, can't you go to their house after you graduate?
Su He was even more speechless than Gu's mother. She tried to persuade her that Gu Li was reborn and should have a clear plan for her future life.
You should also be confident when dealing with men, instead of rushing after them.
She said, "Your grandma is right. Mom is telling you that even if you find someone in the future, you should bring them back for us to meet first instead of going straight to their house."
Chang Yi nodded, "I understand, Mom, but don't worry, I won't talk about it before I'm 25."
Su He, "This... you don't have to wait that long. You can talk about it after you graduate from university."
Chang Yi disagreed, "I think that when you just graduate from college, you should focus on work. It's not too late to talk about it after you have a stable job."
"...Okay, you can figure it out yourself when the time comes."
Changan also came over and said, "Mom, I think what my sister said is right."
Su He smiled, "Well, Mom also thinks your sister is right."
This anti-love pill is really effective!
Listen to what these two kids say.
Gu's mother said to Su He, "You don't have to worry about them. Your children are so outstanding, they will never lack partners in the future."
“They are all scrambling for it.”
It is said that parents look at their children through filters. In fact, grandparents are the same, and the filter is even more powerful than that of parents.
Su He nodded, "We are not sure about the matter of Mama Gu Li, so let's not tell the second wife about it."
Mother Gu: "Well, I won't tell you."
If this happened in the past, Gu's mother might have said that she was angry with Zhang Xiuying, but now...
It’s no use. Zhang Xiuying is not even on the same level as her.
She no longer had any motivation to fight Zhang Xiuying.
No matter how proud a person is in the first half of his life, it is of no use; the key lies in the second half of his life.
After chatting with Gu's father and mother for a while, Su He and Gu Jianhua went out for a walk and went to the secretary's and the team leader's house.
After all, they are people who work and go to university in Beijing.
The secretary who arrived first.
The couple was very warm and welcoming. The secretary's wife made some hot tea for them and took out some apples and pears from the cupboard and placed them on the table.
"Jianhua and Xiaohe, how long will it take you to arrive?"
“Just arrived today.”
The secretary asked Gu Jianhua, "Are you used to living in the capital?"
Gu Jianhua: "It's a habit. The work there is similar to here."
The secretary's wife was also chatting with Su He. "The country has issued a new policy. It no longer restricts us ordinary people from doing business, and it no longer regulates breeding. In the past, there were no restrictions on livestock such as chickens, ducks and geese, but there were restrictions on cattle and sheep."
"I heard that we can raise as many as we can now, no matter what."
Su He took a sip of hot tea and said, "Right, no matter what, no one will come to cut off my tail."
The couple sat in the secretary's house for a while and then left. The secretary told his wife, "Gu Jianhua's family has made a leap from strength to strength and changed their class."
"Many college graduates have moved directly to the capital to work."
The secretary's wife said, "People used to be different from us. People who used to be soldiers returned to work as police officers in the Public Security Bureau after they were discharged from the army."
"Not to mention Su He."
Secretary, "Yes, that family is full of people who are good at studying."
We had a big meal of fish and meat for lunch today, and also for dinner. Mother Gu stewed two old hens, a pot of mutton, and some big bones.
There was no stir-fried dish, but there were two plates of mixed cold vegetables.
"Xiao He, how many days will you stay?" asked Gu's mother during dinner.
I wanted to ask this at noon, but forgot.
Su He, "Mom, we have to leave on the fifth day of the New Year. Jianhua has to go to work."
Mother Gu sighed, "It's the fifth day of the new year. I can't stay for a few days even if I come this time."
Su He, "We have no problem, school doesn't start until March, but Jianhua has to go to work on the eighth day of the first lunar month."
Gu Jianhua also took a half-month leave, otherwise he would have gone back to work after the second day of the Chinese New Year.
This is also helpless. The children are all gone, and her parents-in-law seem to have become the empty-nest elderly mentioned in the books. They are so pitiful. They are always looking forward to the children coming back, but the children can't stay for more than a few days.
We can just wait a few years and bring them to the capital.
The next day was Lavender 28, two days away from the Chinese New Year.
Su He and Gu Jianhua went to visit Gu's second sister's home.
Sister Gu made them some tea and said, "I was thinking of you coming over today."
"You arrived yesterday, right?"
Su He, "Yes, I arrived in the county at ten o'clock yesterday, had dinner at my mother's house, and it was two o'clock when I got home."
"Has Changyi Chang'an returned?"
"I'm back. I didn't come back during the summer vacation, but I will definitely come back during the winter vacation."
Sister Gu laughed and said, "Mom talks about them every day."
After all, they are the eldest granddaughter and grandson, and their importance in Gu's mother's heart is different.
While we were chatting, Chunqing and Shitou came over. Mingyue and Tang Zexu's family moved to the capital this year, and the brick house they built before was given to my sister and brother-in-law to live in.
"Shitou told me that you, uncle and aunt, are here, and it's true." Chunqing was surprised.
Bai Shitou smiled and said, "I just came out to throw away the water, and I saw my uncle and aunt park their bikes and go into the house."
The two houses are close to each other and can see each other's yard.
"Aunt, when will you arrive?" Chunqing sat next to Su He.
Su He: "Arrived yesterday morning."
"Come here, Fuling Yuzhu, have some candy." Su He took out a handful of White Rabbit milk candies from his pocket.
Chunqing and her two children have grown up.
During the Chinese New Year, my daughter Fuling turned seven years old, and my son Yuzhu turned four years old.
The elder sister recognized Su He, but the younger brother did not. He hid behind his sister and looked at her secretly.
"Thank you, aunt." Little girl Fuling took the candy.
Su He touched her hair and said, "Baby is so good."
"Have you been to school yet?"
"Yes." The little girl nodded obediently.
Chunqing said, "It was sent on September 1st this year, and it's for the first grade."
"I heard there are kindergartens in the capital, right? Children can be sent there when they are three or four years old."
When her sister left this summer, she said that the child could be sent to kindergarten before going to elementary school.
Su He, "Yes, there are not only kindergartens, but also nurseries. Children can be sent to nurseries when they are two years old. If there is no one to take care of the children at home, they can be sent to nurseries during the day."
I heard Gu's second sister say, "Kindergarten children are at least older, so can we take good care of children in nurseries if we send them to nurseries when they are two years old?"
Can outsiders take good care of your children?
Su He shook his head, "I'm not sure, but it's better to have grandparents and other relatives take care of the child. Outsiders will definitely not be as careful and attentive as family members."