Chapter 54 I have a nephew from my mother's side
Auntie Li also felt that it was almost done. She looked at Third Sister Gu who was playing with the baby and asked with concern, "How is Yunlan's forehead injury healing?"
Sister Gu said, "It's fine. I had the stitches removed a few days ago."
Auntie Li cursed, "What kind of people are they? They beat people up like that!"
Mother Gu said, "Now that Lan'er and Li Laifu are divorced, they can't bully her even if they want to."
"For girls, they still have to rely on their parents to introduce a partner. It's not possible to find one on your own. Your parents eat more salt than you eat rice." Aunt Li shook her head and sighed.
Gu Sanjie found her partner herself. They met at the market one day and fell in love with each other. They agreed to meet at the market next time.
That's how we got together.
If you ask your parents to look for it, they will definitely look for one in the nearby villages, and the round trip should not exceed an hour.
Just by looking at the eldest and second sisters, we can tell that it is better for a girl to marry close to her parents so that if anything happens in the future, her parents and brothers from her natal family can help her in time.
Just like when Gu's second sister gave birth, it was Gu's mother who took care of her during the confinement period, because they lived close to each other and were from the same village, so it only took a few minutes to walk there.
Sister Gu, how do we get there? It will take three or four hours one way.
She said that she had a difficult birth when she gave birth to her daughter, and luckily nothing happened. If something had happened, her family wouldn’t know about it for a while.
When you are beaten by the man in your family, your younger brother goes to help you get revenge. It takes him several hours to get there, and the man’s family also takes this opportunity to bully you.
After all, my mother's family can't come over for a while.
Beat him first, then coax him.
Or does she dare to leave?
Third Sister Gu didn't say anything about this. She was indeed wrong. Not to mention what Li Lai Fu himself was like, her parents didn't really approve of her marrying him back then.
Because the two families are too far away.
But she insisted on going, so her parents had no choice but to agree.
Mother Gu sighed, "Back then, she was determined to get married, and nine oxen couldn't pull her back."
"This girl still listens to her parents when getting married."
The two chatted for a few more sentences. Aunt Li felt that the time was right, so she cleared her throat and said to Mother Gu, "Jinzhi, this is it. I came here today to tell you something."
Mother Gu: Finally, I have to say it.
"I have a nephew from my mother's side. His wife passed away two years ago, leaving behind a son and a daughter. I want Yunlan to go and meet them."
"Don't worry, my nephew is a very honest man. He never beats his wife. He is also very hardworking. He goes into the mountains and hunts pheasants every now and then. You won't suffer if you live with him."
"Besides, he already has two children, so Yunlan doesn't need to have any more children. What do you think of letting them live together?"
"Auntie, my third sister has passed away. What is she doing here?" Su He asked.
Aunt Li laughed and said, "Just cook, wash clothes, and take care of the two children. Men are not as careful as women. They can't take good care of children."
Su He said, "That's not good." This is not the old mother
Aunt Li hummed, "What's wrong with that? A woman has to find a man to live with in her life. How can a woman live on her own?"
She wondered if she would have to live in her parents' home for the rest of her life.
Su He, "Auntie, you've got the wrong man. My third sister doesn't plan to get married again in this lifetime."
Third Sister Gu continued, "Auntie, my sister-in-law is right. I don't want to find another man. I will live alone from now on."
Gu's mother also said, "Shuqin, I know you have good intentions. Let's talk about our third child later."
This is a polite refusal.
Auntie Li, "Hey, Jinzhi, why don't you let the two of them see it?"
"Yunlan is also a girl I have watched grow up. I will not introduce her to someone with a bad temper. You can rest assured."
How can a woman live without a man?
The same goes for men. Her nephew just said he would not look for a woman because he was afraid that she would abuse his two children if he married her. In the past two years, he has introduced at least five out of ten people to her, but he just wouldn't look for one.
She knew Yunlan's character and knew she would not do anything to abuse a child, so she thought of coming over to talk to her. It would be a good thing if the two of them could get together.
Who knew she didn't look for it either.
Third Sister Gu smiled and said, "Auntie, I really don't plan to look for it anymore."
Gu's mother also said, "Shuqin, my third child doesn't have that intention right now, let's talk about this later."
Since she had been refused several times, Aunt Li didn't know what to say and left after staying for a while.
After Aunt Li left, Su He advised the third sister, "Third sister, you must not be persuaded by them. If you go to such a family, what's the saying? Being an old mother, serving several grandfathers, you may not end up well. If the child has any problems, they will say that the stepmother abused him."
"You are living with your parents now, and your daughter is by your side. You are living a comfortable life. Why do you need to find a man to serve them?"
Third Sister Gu smiled and said, "Sister-in-law, Third Sister won't go, but Aunt Li is also kind-hearted. After all, who would want a divorced girl to live in her parents' home forever?"
Su He said, "Third sister, our home is different. Don't think about that. This is your home. You can stay here as long as you want."
"No one dares to say anything. If anyone dares to say anything, I will tear her mouth to pieces."
Third Sister Gu smiled and said, "I know Xiao He, you have a good heart, different from others. Third Sister knows it all, and she remembers it in her heart!"
"I divorced Li Laifu and I have no plans to marry again."
She didn't want to be a stepmother, nor did she want to find a stepfather for her daughter.
Just like Xiao He said, she must be crazy to get married again.
Mother Gu smiled and said, "You three sisters should be happy that you have a sister-in-law like Xiao He."
If it were another sister-in-law, she would be more anxious to marry off her sister-in-law than the person involved.