After returning home, the four people quickly took out the Buddha's hand snails, as they were really not durable.
First wash it with water, then put it into boiling water and cook for 4 minutes. Song Shuqian likes to add some ginger to remove the fishy smell.
After it cools down, remove the shell and take out the snail meat.
Then it’s time to dry it in the sun. Now it will only take two or three days to dry it in the sun.
After it’s done, add a little to the soup and it will be especially delicious.
There is strength in numbers, and all this work can be done in half an hour.
Tonight they ate fresh Buddha's hand snails and cat's eye snails, which were boiled directly in water to preserve their original flavor.
The three children looked at it eagerly, wanting to eat but not being able to get any, and jumped up and down in anxiety.
Wei Jianguo put them in his stroller and asked them to face the wall and play with it.
Very unreliable.
Song Shuqian never imagined that after having a child, Wei Jianguo would become more childish and find different ways to amuse the child every day.
They are father and son, but the two children would clap their hands happily when being "bullied" by their father, and would be unhappy if they were not "bullied" at all.
It's also an alternative way for father and son to get along.
The most reliable thing in the house is lightning.
It is particularly aware of its role as an older brother and always takes the initiative to accompany the two children, sometimes even pushing them around the house.
When Song Shuxi cooks, the two dogs take care of the children.
After dinner, the two children fell asleep, and the couple had a rare moment alone.
The atmosphere was just right, and I was about to do something happy when I heard loud crying from next door, "Oh my God, please open your eyes and see this unfilial son of mine. He is unfilial to his mother."
Song Shuqian pushed Wei Jianguo and asked him to come over and take a look.
Wei Jianguo turned over and held the man in his arms, "Be good, let's do our own things, just treat it as the accompaniment."
Song Shuqian pushed him hard and struggled to get up. She was worried about Tiantian.
Wei Jianguo quickly pulled the person back, knowing that if he didn't explain clearly, his wife would definitely come over today. "This old lady is testing the bottom line of Mr. and Mrs. Liu. She chose this moment instead of earlier or later because the sound can be heard from farther away.
If you hear the noise and go over to watch the fun, give some advice, or give some pointers to Mr. and Mrs. Liu, you are helping her.
The more people there are, the more noisy she becomes. By then, these people will be tools for her to achieve her goals.
If they succeed once, the Liu family will never have peace again. "
Wei Jianguo grew up in the countryside, and he is particularly familiar with the thoughts and methods of these rural old ladies.
Song Shuqian said bitterly, "Is this old lady sick? She can't bear to see her son getting better."
Wei Jianguo gently stroked her back, helped her calm down, and explained to her, "She is not jealous of Lao Liu, she wants all the children to be well. In other words, she wants to control Lao Liu and make him listen to her."
Thinking about her own experience, Song Shuqian was really a little confused. She said, “Actually, I never understood the thinking of these people. Children are the responsibility of their parents, but not their brothers and sisters.
And they help each other. Every child must first live a good life and take care of his or her own family. As for brothers and sisters, they can help when it is critical. But not pulling them all the time. The old lady did this because she wanted Old Liu to carry the whole family on his own.
There are two possible outcomes: one is that Lao Liu will be exhausted to death, and at the same time, other is that Lao Liu will be completely disappointed. I don't know what Lao Liu is thinking.
At present, it seems that he still has feelings for his mother and cannot let her go.
But it is also possible that he was extremely disappointed and just let Aunt Hua make a fuss, determined to kill her.
When the old lady lost the support of the people, he took the opportunity to leave. By then he will be a perfect victim, and his brothers and parents will be drowned in spit. "
Song Shuqian leaned in Wei Jianguo's arms, muttering her own guesses. Although their two families had a good relationship, Song Shuqian and Liu Xinguo were not familiar with each other.
Wei Jianguo listened to what his wife said and felt that intellectuals had very complicated minds.
"Wife, we have to treat both children equally from now on. We can't do this. It makes me upset just thinking about it."
Song Shuqian said, "I always feel that if you want your children to have a good relationship when they grow up, parents should first withdraw from their world and let them handle things on their own.
Even though they are young, children know everything. Lele seems to be cheerful all day long, but he only gives his things to An An. If others want something, it depends on his mood.
An An acts like a little adult all day long, but he is the dominant one among the two children. That day, Sihu snatched Lele's things, and An An was unhappy for a long time and refused to play with Sihu. "
Wei Jianguo found it novel, "They understand these things at such a young age."
"Children are straightforward. Their likes and dislikes are instinctive. I have always suspected that Sihu can sense whether other people's feelings for him are pure. He doesn't just not allow Aunt Hua to touch him. He also doesn't allow the others who chat with Aunt Hua to touch him."
Wei Jianguo thought it was a bit mysterious, and he believed in science, so he quickly interrupted and asked his wife to change the subject, "Wife, what do you think is the relationship between children and parents?"
In the past, Wei Jianguo had little education and had never thought about such problems. He just felt that the relationship between his parents was shallow and he felt uncomfortable, but as a man, he was busy filling his stomach and training for missions, so he gradually stopped caring.
Later, he got married and had his own children. Watching his wife and children getting along, he always wondered if his parents treated him the same way when he was a child. Then I realized that he didn't completely not care.
Song Shuqian thought about Wei Jianguo's question. She has lived two lives, has two sets of parents, and is now a mother herself. She said, "In my opinion, parents and children are interdependent, but also exist independently.
When children are young, their parents are their support and guides, but as they grow up, they begin to have their own thoughts, goals and life trajectories. Parents gradually change from being the leaders in their children's lives to being spectators, letting them go and facing the world on their own.
From now on, you are the only one who can stay with me forever, and the children will have their own home. "
Wei Jianguo agreed with this point very much. He believed that the only person who could accompany him in the future would be his wife, and they would have separate rooms as soon as the child was older. Since having a child, her wife has become shy again as she was when she first got married.
It is comfortable, but it is not always satisfying.
After a gentle and long-lasting exercise, Wei Jianguo kissed his wife's forehead and discussed with her, "Wife, let's have two children, okay? Pregnancy is too hard. Raising a child is also hard."
Everyone said that it was easy for Song Shuqian to give birth to a child, but Wei Jianguo still felt distressed, and his wife even cried because of the pain.
Song Shuqian still has the ideas of the Yong Dynasty in her heart and wants to have two more children. She said, "I won't have any more children in the next four years. My body needs to recover and the children need to grow up slowly. If I have another child, I won't have the energy to keep up.
We discussed it again after 4 years. Actually, I still want to have another child, a son or a daughter. I think brothers fight together to kill tigers, and fathers and sons fight together in battle. I believe in the children we educate.
But who knows what they will think in the future? Let’s plan it this way first, maybe their ideas will change by then. "
The two chatted for a few more words, and then fell into a deep sleep after there was no more noise outside.
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