Although she didn't take Mrs. Bai seriously, Song Shuxi still asked An An Lele about the child when she got home.
"Mom, he is in the same class with us. He is usually very quiet and doesn't play with us."
"Neither do I go to herd sheep."
The two children spoke one after another, describing their classmates in their eyes.
Song Shuqian has two advantages: one is being cautious, and the other is never looking down on anyone.
Having experienced the ups and downs in the backyard, she knew too well what jealousy would look like if it wasn't handled properly.
She said to An An Lele, "Wei Yannan, Wei Yibei, Mom wants to talk to you about jealousy."
Children are always very sensitive about their full names. Generally, when their parents call them by their full names, it means that what they are going to say next is very important or that they have made a mistake.
An An Lele immediately stood up straight, restrained her expression, and listened to her mother carefully.
Song Shuqian's attitude was also very serious, not joking at all, "First of all, mom wants to say that jealousy is something that everyone has. It is a very normal emotion. Mom will have it, dad will have it, and you will have it too.
Not now, it’s just that I haven’t encountered anything you care about.
To put it simply, jealousy means that when others get good things or are better than you, you feel sour and uncomfortable. "
An An Lele's eyes were confused and she didn't understand at all. The two of them were children who grew up in love, and others only envied them.
Song Shuqian gave them an example, "Remember Sun Bin and Pang Juan? They both studied the art of war under Guiguzi, had a good relationship, and even became brothers.
But even though he was such a good friend, Pang Juan was jealous of Sun Bin because he was more talented and capable than himself. He was worried that he would have no chance to display his talents after going down the mountain, so he designed to frame Sun Bin.
They tricked him into the State of Wei, fabricated charges against Sun Bin in front of King Hui of Wei, and eventually sentenced him to the punishment of "bin" (a form of punishment of binding the bones) and had words tattooed on his face.
This was completely intended to take Sun Bin's life, leaving him no chance of survival.
Maybe it was not his destiny, Sun Bin escaped to Qi State with the help of Qi State's envoy. This led to the famous Battle of Wei to Save Zhao and the Battle of Maling. "
The two children didn't understand, "Mom?"
"Mom tells you all this because she wants to tell you that if one day you become jealous of others, don't be afraid, and don't let your emotions control you.
Go home and tell mom, and we’ll work out a solution together.
I also want to tell you to be careful if you have friends like Pang Juan around you. If a child talks to you in a strange way and makes you feel uncomfortable. Tell mom immediately.
Can you do it? "
Lele asked, "Mom, is that telling tales?"
“Not really.
You share your inner feelings with your mother, whether confusion or joy, so that your mother can understand you better and our relationship will be closer.
This is our family's own business. Without your permission, Mom won't tell anyone, including Dad.
But telling tales usually carries an accusatory tone, and trying to gain personal benefit by reporting on others is indeed an undesirable behavior. "
An An understood what her mother meant, "Silly brother, Mom is worried that someone will be jealous of us and hurt us like Pang Juan did. We can't be like Sun Bin and suffer such a big loss, or Mom will be distressed."
Song Shuxi smiled with relief. An An was attentive and always understood what she meant quickly.
"Le Le, Mom knows you are a very smart kid, you just don't want to learn these things, but you have to learn them. You can't push everything onto your brother, otherwise, Dad will talk to you in person."
As soon as Lele heard his father talking in person, he immediately behaved himself.
Song Shuqian looked at An An again and said, "Our An An is still a little baby. His little brother is mom's responsibility, not yours. The little baby should be happy and you don't have to worry about him."
An An leaned carefully in her mother's arms.
His mom is the best mom.
Wei Jianguo listened to the conversation between the mother and her two children throughout the whole process and did not interfere with Song Shuqian's education of the child.
In the evening, the couple went to soak their feet together. As usual, Wei Jianguo's feet were at the bottom and Song Shuqian stepped on top of his feet.
One black and the other white, one delicate and the other rough, inexplicably harmonious.
After thinking about it, Wei Jianguo finally asked, "Wife, isn't it too early for An'an and Lele to learn these things now? They are only five years old."
"It's not too early. Just tell us when you encounter it. If you get hurt, you have to know why you got hurt. An An listened carefully, but Le Le didn't. After you get hurt, tell us again a few more times and we will understand it completely."
"Sometimes I envy An An Le Le. I learned these principles bit by bit because I suffered losses."
Song Shuqian smiled and said, "Each generation is stronger than the previous one. All children grow up standing on the shoulders of their parents. The two of us are relatively capable among our peers. Shouldn't they go further in the future?"
When you think about it, it is true.
After a brief chat, the couple went to bed.
Since she became pregnant, Song Shuxi's sleep quality has been superb, so good that she was completely unaware of the lightning and thunder outside.
The two children were awakened by the thunder and were about to come over to find their parents in their slippers.
Wei Jianguo has already passed away.
"Don't be afraid. It's thundering outside. It's going to rain. Daddy will carry you to the window to have a look."
Wei Jianguo wrapped the two children in quilts and carried them to the porch to check the weather outside.
An An was a little excited, "Dad, it's hail."
"Yes, it's hail. Are you not afraid anymore?"
The two children put their little hands around their father's neck and shook their heads. Now that they knew the reason, they were no longer afraid.
Wei Jianguo took the children back to their room and let them sleep next to him.
"Mom has a little brother and sister in her belly. You two are not quiet when you fall asleep. Sleep with dad first, and then go find mom when you wake up."
Perhaps because they felt safe, the two children fell asleep quickly.
The rain lasted for a long time. When I woke up the next day, it was still raining, but it was just a light drizzle.
Drip.
In this kind of weather, the school is closed by default.
The mother and her two children were playing at home.
Song Shuxi packed up An An and Lele's childhood things and filled up the kang.
An An held the small shoes in disbelief, "Mom, these shoes are so small."
"These are the things you two used when you were little. The shoes are for you to wear after you are 100 days old. Mom didn't have any experience at the time and thought that children would be able to walk after 100 days, so she prepared these."
While cleaning up, the mother and her two children were telling each other interesting stories from their childhood.
Song Shuxi also took out photos of the two of them when they were little and showed them.
Even though it was not the first time they saw each other, An An Le Le still didn't want to believe that the ugly child in the photo was them.
Song Shuqian comforted them, "Logically, they are all their parents' children, so they should look similar. When their younger brother or sister is born, we will take pictures of them.
When they grow up, we will laugh at them together."
They have already thought of many tricks to "bully" the third and fourth babies in their belly.
I just wonder if An An Le Le will feel reluctant to leave the white and tender little dumpling when she sees it in the future.
Anyway, she was willing to do it.
Kids are the most fun.
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