Chapter Twenty-Six
Li Nan nodded in agreement, saying, "That's true. Sometimes there's really no need to be so resentful. If you're not doing well, the person you should blame the most is yourself."
In essence, the world is very fair. Although everyone's birth background may seem different, it is actually distributed according to their own blessings and virtues.
You weren't born into a good family. You should blame yourself for not accumulating enough good karma, rather than being jealous of others who are born into better circumstances.
However, being born into a family depends on fate. Just like the cat you carefully raise in this life, it might be reborn as your child in the next life.
Many people are indeed reincarnated from animal souls. When they are born as humans for the first time, some people have the appearance of a fox, a dog, or a cat.
Why do so many people say such annoying things? It's because they have a sharp tongue and are unpleasant to talk to. Sometimes, the person you dislike at first sight might have offended you in the past, and you hold a grudge.
A person's aura is a real thing. Some people are good people, with good personalities and good looks, but you just can't like them. This is a problem of incompatible auras.
I actually have a bold idea: there is no talent, only hard work. What you call talent in this life is just the accumulation of the past. As long as you like something and really want to do it, you can stick to it.
You may never achieve anything significant in this life that you particularly love, but that's okay. These experiences will transform into the talents you were born with in your next life.
Sometimes I feel that people's love, hate, and grudges are meaningless. It's possible that the beef you ate in your past life had its soul reincarnated as your brother in this life.
Come to think of it, you are actually the one who ate it, so shouldn't it hold a grudge against you and kill you? After all, you ate it in your past life.
It's hard to distinguish between love and hate, right and wrong, but being reborn in this life means being born anew. The accumulated good karma remains, but the memories are gone.
Even if you have been a very virtuous person for ninety-nine lifetimes, if you are a virtuous person in this life, you can ascend to a higher dimension. But if you fall into depravity in this life, all the merits you have accumulated will be exhausted, and you will need to start all over again.
Doing good deeds may not seem to bring any real reward, and doing bad deeds may not seem to bring any retribution, so many people feel that this is too unfair.
But in reality, you just haven't seen it yet. Doing bad things comes at a high price, and sometimes the consequences are offset by the good deeds you've accumulated, which is why they haven't manifested.
Some people will face retribution later, but doing good deeds will also bring rewards, you just don't know it. It's like your parents are especially good to you, you love your parents very much, and you do a lot of good deeds. Originally, your parents were only supposed to live to seventy, but they lived to ninety because of you.
This is your achievement, but unfortunately you don't know it. You think it should always be this way. Many good deeds are rewarded in this intangible and inexplicable way.
Being overly attached to something will inevitably lead to bad results. Sometimes, what truly belongs to you doesn't need to be forced; what can't be kept, don't try to hold on to, otherwise, the result will only hurt yourself and others.
Lin Meimei frowned and said, "Hearing you say that, I feel that I am sometimes too persistent, and it's all things that are unnecessary."
I always find myself wanting to delve deeper into the subject of love. I once saw a couple who stayed together from their youth to old age without ever divorcing. I was curious about why they could stay together for so long, and the answer was quite telling: they couldn't find anyone better. They were simply too poor, so they made do with each other and lived together as a couple.
I feel so pathetic. I'm terrified of ending up in that situation myself. I know I'm not a particularly resilient person. If I were the woman in that situation, I would never settle.
If I can't live alone, then I might as well die. Anyway, I would never force myself to be with someone I don't love.
As for the serious consequences after death, I can bear them. At worst, my soul will be scattered. I don't think a terrible world is worth my longing.
Like in a game I once saw, the people in a city in a dungeon gained immortality, but this wasn't good luck, it was a curse.
After living a long time, they all really want to die, but after committing suicide, they will be resurrected. Death and all that, you will die in this life.
Just like playing a game, if you have a cheat code and can quickly pass all the levels, you'll find it boring and won't continue playing. On the contrary, if you linger and keep failing, maybe only reaching level five at most, you'll still keep playing.
Only people who are extremely happy want to live forever. People who are not doing so well, or who have no dreams, ambitions, or aspirations, will not want to live forever.
Sometimes I ship couples, but I don't delve too deeply into the fandom. Instead, I think for myself, use my brain, and follow celebrities independently. I don't rely on other people's interpretations; I try to analyze things myself and discover the truth.
As a fellow CP (couple pairing) fan, I think some CP fans are quite ugly. They like to deliberately oppose the solo fans of their two main characters, contradict them, and attack them directly.
They like to emphasize that the main character is gay, that your brother has his own husband, that your brother is gay, and so on. They have a really disgusting attitude, but in essence, solo fans and CP fans are just chasing fantasies, and there is no distinction between them.
If you're going to ship your so-called real male-male couple, then ship them properly. Why do you have to deliberately hurt those innocent young girls? Besides, many times, shipping fans end up becoming a laughing stock. The one who likes the other says, "I have a child," while the one who likes the other says, "Yes, I'm married."
There's also the public revelation of the relationship between the top and bottom, their unwavering heterosexuality, and the leaked video of the bottom ordering takeout at a hotel. However, the solo fans are the same; they can easily become the laughingstock.
The female fans welcomed the idol's relationship and child, while the other solo fans welcomed the idol as an animal driven by its lower body, who is obsessed with such despicable behavior as ordering takeout.
Treating others as imaginary enemies is a foolish thing to do. But when you delve into a fandom, it often turns out this way, with small factions, some of which completely endorse the idol.
Some are extreme female fans of the idol, who hate other women who dream of their husbands like they do. They hope that only they like their husbands, and that all other female fans who dream of their husbands are their enemies. They are the most despicable.
Even if fans of the same person initially stand on the same side because of a certain attribute, over time, disagreements and arguments will arise.
I feel like arguments are an eternal theme for humanity. Even the most loving couples will have various disputes. Resolving disputes can better maintain the relationship, while escalating disputes will deplete the relationship.
Sometimes I wonder what causes love at first sight? Everyone says it's without reason, but I don't think there's anything in this world without a reason.
I think it might be the pull of destiny that made her fall in love with this person, and this person might have been someone she knew before. She missed someone in this life, but she loved him so much that she wanted to see him again.
So I sincerely prayed to Buddha 30,000 times, and in my next life I was very lucky. Buddha helped me meet the person I wanted to see. In essence, this fate was obtained through my own efforts. If I hadn't worked hard, I wouldn't have had this fate.
What about love? Does it also require a lot of effort to maintain? If the connection isn't strong enough, they'll separate. I really dislike seeing couples who have been in love for ten years end up breaking up.
But many of the couples I ship are like this, even if they love each other deeply at the beginning, they won't love each other forever. There's always a sudden major change in their relationship, and the two of them can no longer be together.
Infidelity is also the most common occurrence. Sometimes I think I might fall in love with someone's soul, completely disregarding their appearance. But then I think about it again, and it's still impossible.
Love is a story for young people; the elderly can't participate. If I really become an old lady, even if some young people are willing to be with me, I don't think they will truly fall in love with me; they will only be after my money and want to benefit from me.
And this old guy, about my age, I shouldn't look down on him, but if I fell in love with someone like that, I'd rather die.
I may not be able to accept my complete aging, that is, having white hair and a face full of wrinkles. I really can't face myself like that.
I would like to die sooner, before I become ugly; that would be the best ending. But if I were lucky enough to have someone I love and who loves me very much, then I wouldn't want to die; I would long to grow old with him.
He helped me overcome my fear of growing old and even rekindled my hope for life, giving me the will to live. Being able to spend more time with my loved one is what I want most.
The power of love is truly amazing; it can support me in doing things I didn't originally want to do, and it gives me the motivation to live again.
Li Nan shook his head and said, "Essentially, your desires aren't strong enough. If you had something you really wanted to do, you wouldn't be willing to die."
There's really no need to be so anxious about your appearance. You're already beautiful enough. Flowers wither and people age; it's perfectly normal.
Many people in the industry lose weight to maintain their beauty, and the most common way to do so is through dieting. In my opinion, this is completely self-torture.
If a person does not satisfy their appetite and is always hungry, they are more likely to fall into the trap of other desires, and their mental state will also become poor.
If you don't eat well for a long time, your temper will also become worse, and you may suddenly erupt like a volcano. When you are doing something important, you may not be able to control your emotions. When you get carried away, you are likely to do some stupid things that will have serious consequences that are difficult to recover from.
There are many ways to lose weight, but dieting is definitely the least desirable. The best way is to eat normally, but to aid digestion through exercise.
"You burn off the energy you get from food through normal walking. Besides, sometimes being a little chubby is better; it looks better and is considered auspicious. Being skinny like a ghost is scary."
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