Chapter 259: Behavior and Actions Should Be Moderated
Lin Mo chewed the meat jerky vigorously, and it tasted so delicious.
"This meat jerky was made for me by my Xiaobai. It is a true inheritance from my mother. Do you two want to try it?"
Lin Mo found two pieces of medium-sized meat in his small purse and stuffed them into the two people.
Bai Xiao was a little dissatisfied. [I only made a little for you, why did you share it with others? Do you know that meat jerky is difficult to make? ]
Lin Mo: [Oh, don't be so stingy, don't you have a lot at home? Just make some more when you get home. Make me more spicy flavors when the time comes. Bai Xiao
is now very good at making snacks. Although he is not very good at cooking, he has a talent for making all kinds of snacks.
Maybe God closed a door for him but left him a window. If he cooks, it depends on God's will. Maybe the food tastes good today, but it may not taste the same next time. Listening to the conversation
between the two people, the woman looked at the dried meat in her hand with a dazed expression.
She has never eaten anything her husband made for her. They say that the joy of a concubine is the joy of a concubine, but she has never enjoyed it.
Since she got married, she has been serving her husband. The rules of her husband's family are strict. She has to follow the rules every moment, and there can't be any mistakes.
Moreover, it took a long time to come to the Summer Resort this time. After all, there are many sisters-in-law in the family, and it is impossible for all of them to come, so everyone is trying their best to show off in front of the elders .
Everyone said that she married into a wealthy family and was valued by her husband's family, so she was a blessed person.
What did her husband's family value? They asked her to serve and take care of everything. Obviously, there were maids in the family, but she had to come in person to take care of her husband.
Lin Mo had a good chat with another lady, and Lin Mo also shared with her her tips for making snacks.
Although she doesn't know how to do it, she has seen many people do it. "Sister, your husband is still good. Just let nature
take its course when it comes to having a baby. There is no need to rush." "Getting pregnant also depends on your mood. If you are too anxious, you may not get pregnant. Relax your mind and take it slow."
Bai Xiao: [That's right. Sometimes psychological reasons are also important. 】
The younger woman laughed happily after hearing these words, "I think so too, sometimes it's just that the destiny has not ended yet, and I've been married for a short time, so I'm not worried about him taking a concubine. No matter whether the children are born to a main room or a concubine, they are nominally my children and they all need to be brought up in front of me."
"You're right, I can get along with him but I will never compromise myself because of him. It's my own life, and there's still a long life ahead of me. I can't always suppress myself. I just need to be a good wife."
There are also many ladies in the capital who have never given birth to children, and they take the initiative to take concubines for their husbands. For women, giving birth is a hurdle, some are more popular and some are less lucky.
The timid ladies let others take the risk, and some of them took the child home to raise after giving birth, because the position of the main wife was here anyway.
Lin Mo praised in his heart after hearing these words: [Look, this is the mentality of others, what a good mentality.]
Bai Xiao: [This lady has always been quite sober, her husband is also a good person, and now he really loves her.]
Lin Mo grasped a key word: [Now? Do you mean he will change his mind in the future?]
The young woman had no expression on her face after hearing this, and was very calm.
Everyone said that she and her husband were deeply in love, and the two of them were in love with each other. It was true that they were in love with each other, but forget about the deep love.
The person she loves most is herself, and the person her husband loves most is not her. Her husband does not have a favorite woman. As a man, he loves too many things, but what he loves most is his career.
Bai Xiao replied: [Who can say so absolutely about emotional matters? They themselves actually understand the depth of their feelings. This couple can be said to be in harmony, but they have not yet reached the level of deep love and commitment to each other through life and death. They themselves know it.]
Yes, both parties are basically clear about emotional matters.
Some people take feelings more seriously, while for some people, feelings are just the icing on the cake. It depends on how the individual understands it.
After sitting here for a while, Lin Mo felt bored and left after a brief greeting.
After Lin Mo left, the two women had nothing to say and left soon.
I don't know what kind of impact these words today will have on the woman's psychology, but it can make her sober up after all.
A good girl will lose all her status and position when she marries into another family. They say nice words to you and say that they value you, but in fact they don't take you seriously at all.
There are maids and servants at home, but you are asked to do everything by yourself. This is not called valuing, but torture.
Lin Mo took Bai Xiao for a walk here, greeted everyone he saw, and picked some flowers to make a wreath.
In her words, if these flowers are not picked now, they will wither soon.
Bai Xiao: "When those girls see these flowers, they take good care of them and let them grow on their branches without picking them off. Why are you different from others?"
Lin Mo said with a flower on his head, "Why should I be like others? I don't have their delicate feelings. I want to own something if I think it's beautiful. Wearing it on my head as a wreath is also a kind of beauty."
Bai Xiao: "Then don't you think this is a kind of destruction?" Ruining life."
Lin Mo: "You can't say that. Flowers are life, so are the chickens, ducks, and fish we eat. They are grown by ourselves. Picking one or two flowers doesn't mean throwing away their roots. Behavior and doing things should be done in moderation. Don't always limit yourself so much. If you think too much, it will affect your mood. "
If you think that everything you eat is life and everything you play is life, then isn't this just asking for trouble in your heart?
Lin Mo has worked hard in his previous life. He doesn't want to think so much in this life. It's enough to be happy in this life. Behavior and doing things should be done in moderation. Don't go too far. As for the rest, you can do whatever you want.
Seeing Lin Mo's heartless look, Bai Xiao smiled helplessly and patted her head, "You are right, let's go and make you some flower cakes."