Chapter 288 What Kind of Person Should I Find?
After leaving the Xu family's gate and walking not far, he met Zhou Mingli who came from another road, and behind him was Zhou Wenqian, the little guy who hit Lu Chun'e last time.
Wen Wan was talking to Lu Chun'e when she heard someone calling her. She looked up and saw someone coming from another path.
"Zhou Mingli? Aren't you busy lately?"
Zhou Mingli's eyes swept over the two of them calmly, finally landing on Dandan. "Busy! I just got back yesterday. I'll only be home for two days before I have to go back to the army." Then he squatted down and teased Dandan, "Do you recognize me? Call me uncle!"
Wen Wan chuckled: "Don't teach me nonsense, how did you become my uncle?"
"Why can't you be uncle? Have you forgotten that when you were little, you called me brother and Xu Qingming Xu Qi. Now that you've grown up, you don't call me brother anymore. You call me by my full name. There's nothing we can do if you grow up crooked. You can't let your child grow up crooked too."
What the hell is going on!
Wen Wan rolled her eyes rudely, looked down at Dandan and said, "Call me uncle!"
Dandan looked at this and then that, and called out "Uncle!" very obediently.
Zhou Mingli was not embarrassed at all. He stretched out his hand and said, "Well, uncle, can you give me a hug?"
Dandan turned to look at Wen Wan, and after seeing his mother nod to him, he reached out and threw himself into Zhou Mingli's arms. It was just right, it was too hot, and walking was tiring, and having someone hold him was really the best thing.
Wen Wan asked, "It's so hot, where are you going?"
Zhou Mingli looked at the setting sun and said, "It's quite hot, but it's all because of this kid. He insisted on letting me go out with him to see if his basketball skills have improved. If I don't agree, the old man will have to use the tight ring curse again."
Zhou Wenqian didn't want to take the blame: "Uncle, don't use me as a pretext. It was you who asked me to come out, okay? Didn't you just want to avoid being questioned about your relationship? You should thank me, why are you putting the blame on me?"
Wen Wan glanced at him sideways as they walked: "Are you dating?"
Zhou Mingli smiled bitterly: "It's good to have him. We don't have to avoid him. We can just take him back."
"There's no need to avoid it if you don't have any. The people my family introduced me to are definitely from this circle. There's nothing wrong with meeting them, right?"
Zhou Mingli chuckled softly, "Yeah, it was fine originally, but I recently discovered that I seem to have someone I like. I want to pursue her seriously, so forget about those messy blind dates!"
Wen Wan's eyes flashed with surprise: "You have someone you like? Not bad, you've finally gotten ahead of my Seventh Brother! My Seventh Brother still has no idea what to do. He's always being rushed here and back, and he's always running around with his head in his hands."
Zhou Mingli responded with a low laugh: "Then I have to work harder and get her as soon as possible, and then I can have a good time watching Xu Qi make a fool of himself."
Wen Wan said: "No, you chased people just to make my seventh brother laugh. You are too promising."
"Just kidding."
Wen Wan arrived at the place and took Dandan over: "Baby, we are here, say goodbye to Uncle Zhou and brother, bye!"
Dandan waved his little paws: "Goodbye!"
Zhou Mingli also waved and said goodbye to him with a smile, but his eyes fell on Lu Chun'e again, and he even met her eyes unexpectedly.
Lu Chun'e, who had been silent all the way, was slightly stunned and said softly: "Goodbye!"
Zhou Mingli smiled, reached out and patted Zhou Wenqian on the back of his head: "Let's go!"
Wen Wan put Dandan down and led him into the yard.
Since she came here these few days, the aunt at home has been on vacation and left early in the morning, so they are all by themselves now.
I gave Dandan a bath with the water that had been drying outside, and then the little guy went upstairs to sleep.
By now, the sleepiness had actually passed, so Wen Wan went into the kitchen to prepare dinner.
Lu Chun'e helped her and the two talked while they were busy.
"sister in law."
"Um?"
Lu Chun'e said: "I want to ask you a question."
"Tell me, when it comes to finding a partner, how do you find the right one?"
Wen Wan paused for a moment and turned to look at her: "What do you mean?"
Lu Chun'e mustered up a lot of courage to ask her this. She didn't even dare to look up at this moment. She slowly peeled the garlic cloves in her hand: "I'm just asking. You said that finding a partner is a lifelong thing. In the end, is it better to find someone you like or someone who likes you?"
Wen Wan chuckled softly, "That's the question. When looking for a partner, you naturally have to find someone you like and who also likes you. This kind of thing is the last thing you can compromise on. If you find someone, you're aiming for marriage and spending your life together. You have to be responsible for him or her, and he or she has to be responsible for you. If you both hate each other, how can you live your life? Or if you like someone one-sidedly, but the other person doesn't like you, this kind of wishful thinking is very tiring. Whether it's a man or a woman, when you like someone, your eyes will fall on that person, and you will subconsciously pay attention and care, try to accommodate them, and spend time or change for the other person's happiness. If you don't like them, and you think one look is too much, how can you still have all these? So, don't rush into finding a partner, take your time, and the feelings must be equal. It's best to build it on a mutual affection and a desire to take the next step."
After saying that, he glanced at Lu Chun'e, pursed his lips, and didn't dare to ask directly.
"It's so easy to just like someone and love yourself at the same time! What if you can only choose one?"
Wen Wan thought for a moment and said, "If you can only choose one thing, Chun'e, I hope you find someone who likes you. You are a kind and good girl who deserves to be treated well. Moreover, I believe that if someone really likes you and you are willing to try to accept it, it means that the other person is also very good, and you will also like him, sooner or later."
"People, the most frightening thing is one-sided wishful thinking. You cherish him as your life, regard him as your own, but he is indifferent and never looks at you. Such a life is too hard."
Lu Chun'e sighed and said after a long while, "Well, what if you've liked someone for a long time and want to let go but can't?"
Wen Wan frowned slightly: "Then the person you like, does he like you? Or rather, does he know that you like him?"
Lu Chun'e was bewildered for a moment. I don't know! Maybe she never thought about it that way. She was so open and honest, and she was the only one who had evil intentions.
"Sister-in-law, if you like it, what will it be like?"
Wen Wan had unknowingly stopped what she was doing, and stood leaning against the chopping board, looking at her: "If he likes you, he will always pay attention to you and find ways to see you often. He will be happy when he sees you and feel lost when he can't see you. He will do everything he can to coax you and make you happy."
Lu Chun'e listened to her words with a dazed look on her face. In fact, there was no need to ask these questions, because her brother was just like that.
When Wen Wan went to the countryside to join the team, this was how he pursued people!
When Wenwan's name was mentioned, there was a smile in his eyes.
Lu Chun'e knows this best.
She was thinking, how nice it would be if the person she liked could love her as much as her brother loved her sister-in-law.
But, I don’t like it!
Wen Wan hesitated for a long time before speaking: "Chun'e, you, do you have someone you like?"
Lu Chun'e hurriedly shook her head: "No, no, it's just that there are male classmates in school who keep writing letters, and I don't know how to do it, so I'm asking."
This was quite practical, so Wen Wan didn't think much about it and continued to work.
"When it comes to relationships, just let it flow. When I was with Dongping, my father told me that liking someone isn't just about liking their strengths; the most important thing is their weaknesses. When pursuing someone, you always intentionally show off your best side and hide your flaws. So, when you're with someone, besides being attracted to them, you also have to think carefully about whether they have flaws, whether they're aware of them, whether they're working hard to change them or just trying to cover them up. And if these flaws were to stay with them for the rest of their lives, would you be able to accept it?"
"No one is perfect. If you can't find any flaws in someone, then that person is truly terrible. Such a person is not fit to live with."
Lu Chun'e seemed to be thinking about something and didn't speak again.
It's hot in this weather.
Lu Chun'e made dough, rolled out noodles, prepared fried sauce, and made cold noodles.
Wen Wan just cooked some porridge and kept it cold. There was no need to cook any other dishes. She could just wait for Wen Shihua to come back and eat it.
Cold noodles are obviously very popular in hot weather, and Wen Shihua especially likes them.
After all, this is the meal cooked by my own daughter, how can I not like it!
After dinner, Lu Chun'e helped clean up and went out.
She is not the smart type who can understand things immediately, so whether it is studying or other things, she has to think about it over and over again.
Thinking about what Wen Wan said, her mind was in a mess and she felt extremely uncomfortable, as if it had become a lump of depression that even the wind couldn't blow away.
She even wondered whether she should muster up the courage to find Xu Qingming and tell him clearly what she was thinking.
She couldn't give up like this, and she wasn't willing to do that.
As she thought about it, she reached out and slapped herself on the forehead. What kind of messed up thoughts were these? Did she still have any shame? If she made it clear, she was afraid that we wouldn't even be ordinary friends anymore. Meeting each other would be awkward.
Besides, if you like someone, that's your own business. Does liking someone mean you have to like them back? That doesn't make sense.
She sat down on a cement platform by the roadside, rubbed her face with her hands in an attempt to make her mind less chaotic. Finally, she sighed, reached out to pluck a piece of grass, and poked the ground listlessly with her waxed head hugged her knees.
As I was poking, a pair of feet appeared in front of me.
Following the pair of snow-white Warrior shoes, Lu Chun'e looked up and met Zhou Mingli's smiling eyes: "You are sighing here alone. Did you encounter something troublesome?"
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